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Seems marriage has continually become less important by the day. A friend we were together in school back then met me in a joint yesterday unwinding and immediately uttered, "o boy, I don divorce o". I was shocked cos I wasn't aware of his marriage. When in school, there was this course mate he was seeing, never knew they took it to marriage level. However, regardless of when they might have gotten married, I don't think the marriage was up to 2 years. I tried to ask him what happened but he said later as the place was too rowdy.

What has become marriages these days?

Lol. So much unseriousness in marriages these days.

MARRIAGE ISSA SCAM

Atleast it's good there is no children between them yet

Some people like to experience am first hand before them realize say marrige no be for them...

mosdii:
The scales must have fallen from his eyes.

Good for him because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Na hate dey becloud ur sense of reasoning so.

Damnnnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
Marriage na scam
Me personally will not marry

Baby mama sure me die...
Female wahalar too much.....thier non stop dramatic life, complicated life style, attention seeking and always want to be seen as babies till the end of time..they always want you to listen to them, you give them incessant compliments..they manipulate, coax and hypnotize you! people that behave like angels outside..in public...but are like devils at home

God has already fuckkked me up with six women
Five female siblings and my mother

So I won't add a wife to it

Mtcheeeew
How dah one take concern local man

Just speechless

Some people think say marriage na to just enter train and alight at the train station.

See eeh,if you are not ready for the deal..... jejely dey ur dey

mine is going well

though am messing up big time

however I have made up my mind that whatever my wife does I would forgive her because behind the scenes I have done worse

besides my cute sons don't deserve a broken home.

marriage no be beans

who no get brain make e no try am

This marriage matter.

A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.

Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.

The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".

Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.

Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.

Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.

Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.

That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.

My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning.

no be by force ooo..
enjoy your freedom my guy.....

Marriage should have been the best thing that could have ever happened.

Unfortunately, people keep marrying for wrong reasons.

Yes na o normal nau

M

Marriage has lost it's value in this modern day world, more of child's play nowadays

Back then, divorce used to be a thing of shame.

Naxxo

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seen it before.

Marriage is for responsible persons.

Only matured adults should go into it.

Getting married is not an achievement in life as people see it in this part of the world.
If you are lucky to be in a good and perfect or near perfect marriage, be happy and thank God for your life.
Better to be divorced than to be killed by an abusive partner.
Our Kobo!

Sabadon:
Most people just marry without understanding the institution called marriage. Marriage be like school

Very True.

Liposure:
point of correction: there is no perfect marriage and can never be.

You can read our post one more time Lipo!

Most people just marry without understanding the institution called marriage. Marriage be like school, if you enter the course without being prepared for it, you ll accumulate carry overs(problems) till you droo out(divorce)

Marriage is not for boys but men.

Baby mama way

Okay ... now what.... u want to next guy trying to get married to abandon the thought or what.....
Pls if as a Man U can’t dot all ur i n cross ur Ts properly before getting married n u coming up here to cry wolf, u should be ashamed of ur self. See the fact as old as some couples r even our grandparents there women still get on there nerve but they applies wisdom n patient with understanding to get through things.if u as a man after paying bride price, buy aso Ebi, call ur families up north to come for ur wedding now is crying wolf for not knowing the babe u married or complaining about something else, as failed in dat regard don’t come here n blame d marriage institutions but rather ur self for lack of wisdom

I think the problem is because both married each other for the wrong reason.

many guys believe good wives are girls with those materials that comes to mind while girls believe money is enough reason to marry a man.

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Nawa

WILL YOU SHUT UP THERE!!!

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For every one marriage u see on socail media, breaking, or going through rough times, there are at least, 10 at home doing well..