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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by lastchild: 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Oleku93:when I see things like this, I just realize that am the strongest person on planet earth going through all that Ive been through and still here 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Charlieyoung(m): 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
UDOKABESTLUV:the problem is that nobody will want to listen when you try to tell them, they'll just take you for fun |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ChengHun(m): 9:57pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Depression is real and unfortunately some evil people, once they know ur problem, instead of helping you out, they start saying things that can fuel ur depression. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 10:02pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
PenName55: So true We don't truly know those that care..... Many ll even mock you |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 10:04pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
ChengHun: Reality.... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by einsteine(m): 10:10pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
falopey: Mumu have you been to the "great beyond" to know what lies there? It is idiotic Christians like you that create some of the pressures that cause depression for people. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 10:12pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
CoolJul: Mr WINNER pele We are all QUITTERS, We are all LOSERS We are all gonna die someday You are lucky to have never been in that shoe of depression Thank your God |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by YouAreFinished: 10:17pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
bluefilm:He likely is 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 10:25pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
inumidun2010: Wish it were that easy for many... Some are just luckier, I guess..... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by grim33(m): 10:39pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Wow. Educated yourself okay futurerex: |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by futurerex: 10:43pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
grim33:The money spent on your education is a waste. Gibberish. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 10:48pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Sequence10: Your family sef no fit help, gbam! That's reality, everybody have their own concerns and worries When you talk to them, you start becoming a burden to them. Hospitals too will drain you financially God give us inner strength to carry on.... Amen |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Herbephe1(m): 10:52pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Please can you mention one of the drugs,my friend is battling with depression,due to sickness and financial challenge,his father has stroke and he(my friend) is battling with "chronic" headache for almost seven months now,he escaped 2020 i pray he will scale through this year. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
bluefilm:inutile |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by studentofTruth: 11:21pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
NextD18: Speak to who? Nigerians are too frustrated to listen to anyone and think of how to help. Most people are only interested in themselves and when they look your direction, they're only trying to see how they measure up and weaknesses to exploit. The only right person to talk to is a qualified clinical psychologist. Sharing your problems with a fellow Nigerian will worsen your situation and even trigger depression. I advocate self sufficiency — measuring yourself by your own standard and not what others think. You're enough! RIP Dele |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ODJ124(m): 11:23pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
arantess: I don't really believe in after life.. though.. Cus u can't say over more than a billion people who aren't Christians..are gonna end up in hell . its absurd.. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by 3verblazing(m): 11:30pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kriss216:how about those having fun as a result of ur presence ...u end their fun too ... when u stop having fun find out why n fix it...!!! 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Etudy: 11:31pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Not knowing him almost didn't stop me from tiering out, all hasn't been rosy for me as well but suicide can never be an option. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by meliziz12(m): 11:34pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Exactly the thought and note I ruminated over and over and over and over again particularly on 3rd of October 2020. I passed that day but I I'll celebrate it every year! This shit isn't easy at all. I'm still recuperating I'ma gonna drop fine❤️ |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by studentofTruth: 11:38pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Sequence10: I'm sorry for what you are passing through. My only advice is to ignore everyone and leave the rat race for them. Rather than follow their rules, reinvent yourself, create your own rules, and follow them. Find what you're passionate about and go for it. This is my 14th year with chronic insomnia and all the associated complications — headaches (migraine), poor concentration, slow reaction time, etc. But we're kicking and moving ahead. The only person who can strengthen you is you. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 11:42pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
mojid22000: mojid22000: You are lucky to have never been in that shoe of depression Thank your God mojid22000: Are you sure of that, hey I don't know how to type long post so lemme keep my story for now. Putting it simply, I have known depression. 2017 could have been the year...but I am too strongwilled to give in. plus I thought of my mother, I loved her too much to put her through that pain losing a child again ( through such horrible act of suicide for that matter). God forbid! Suicide is a stigma that can never be forgotten in generations. It's so painful and hurtful to the loved ones u will leave behind, most especially to your mother. If one dies by taking ones own life, the way it will get to ur loved ones cannot be compared to when one die by external factor. mehn! I don't pray for any of my family members or friends to go through that. see, them say "e nor get wetin eye go see wey e go fit cry blood" Whatever you think you are passing through in life today, there's some1 somewhere that has passed through or is passing through worst of it! e nor get who life treat nicely pass the other. If na so nor be everybody too for taste dealth. Only Jesus can save! Try Him! |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ceeceeuwa: 11:44pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kriss216:False! Go to hospitals and see critically I'll people struggling to live... they will do everything just to continue living! 6 years ago, I had a medical Condition. With two major surgeries in a space of 2 weeks, and a newborn I was blessed with 2 days to my birthday. I had just concluded a masters degree a few months back... all hope was lost. The hospitals were on strike, blood banks had few reserves because of the strike. But with each excruciating pain I felt on my sick bed, I knew I needed to live. Not just for my self , but for my new born son, aged parents and darling husband. I couldn't bear to have my son grow up without me! I am not here to judge the deceased, but to let other depressed people know that living is not just about oneself! If you love your loved ones, you won't want to cause them pain and let them live with the stigma of being labeled a 'family of a suicide victim'. This is Africa! Such stigmas never fade! Love and light to all depressed soul! 2 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 11:49pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kayberg:You are welcome! I will pm you so we can chat but it can only be on Whatsapps if u don't mind please. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ericmor: 12:06am On Jan 14, 2021 |
NextD18: My brother, the problem is who do u talk to? The people u talk to dont even care, why some only advice you without offering any help even tho they have the power to help. With all dis things happening our government still not helping matters rather they are busy borrowing money to finance themselves and enrich their families. Out of a million people, the government will take 10thousand and offer them little help and started shouting they have enrich over 500thousand people . As God help us. we should also help ourselves |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 12:07am On Jan 14, 2021 |
habsydiamond: Amen |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Clinghton: 12:41am On Jan 14, 2021 |
We all go through depression, but the thought of suicide makes me feel like a coward that's why I can't quite. E GO BETTER las las. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by aspiring44: 12:48am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Raysleek: One's spirit has to be well fortified to overcome suicidal thoughts. It's not always easy. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by showafrica(m): 2:37am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Raysleek: Up till now i no understand what depression is... Is it poverty or lack of success or lack of fun, or disability. This life where excess enjoyment dey.. Big nyash, drinks, weed and even worshiping God... So how can a complete healthy handsome person will decide to take his life. I no really understand sha. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bashir247: 5:31am On Jan 14, 2021 |
Depression here and there. May almighty help us |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by sirchrislatestn(m): 5:35am On Jan 14, 2021 |
squash47:it pathetic this guy die |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by opportunities12: 6:24am On Jan 14, 2021 |
einsteine:Continue, your eye will soon clear |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Becca350(f): 6:37am On Jan 14, 2021 |
If I had the courage I would have do It a long time ago, I have this thought that restrict me am so damn angry with life. |
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