Leshurr:


It's not poverty. It's greed and lust for material things. If it was just a matter of poverty, women will be more focused on securing a husband who is at least able to provide a roof over their heads and will be content with that.. just like in the days of our parents - not hoeing around for money like women of today

Yeah, there's also the issue of lust and greed. I agree.

CalliDora1:


Even in Church, you men will still go for the ones that are provocatively dressed. I know what I'm saying. You careful avoid the decent sisters and still go for the ... You know now.

Can we just stop pretending and deceiving ourselves. You know the good ones but always think they are not your spec. We know una, abeg lol..

True but lust of the eyes won't allow them Although it's kinda unfair to ask men to lower their standards just to secure a good girl. What if she's only "good" due to lack of opportunity

Princeofasia:
forget circles. my circle is the type that u will swear ur life that the women around are decent as hell. but na them spoil pass.
CalliDora1 abeg tell me the type of circle i should change to abeg. cos even the socalled decent ones i see are just gold diggers. an average gold digger is an olosho. waiting for your guide

Well... I wouldn't know what circle you've been searching from. So I'll say try a circle other than that.

Shalom.

I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands.

After all I have read I will still stand on an average female you see on the street either from a poor or rich background Na olosho let me sight it these way how can a lady be asking what the father can't afford to give from a guy I am not saying it's wrong but it's really alarming cos a friends boyfriend buys iPhone 12 for his girl mean say your boyfriend must buy for you... Most ladies of nowadays don't think about the future all they want is now (trending) that's why most of our guys go broke on time cos they keep demanding....abeg bros if you see a girl that ask you for money to start a business of her own than ask you money for a new iPhone bros marry am.... Another thing social media don finish our women. I am in support of marrying an olosho that has repented and see life from different angle than marrying the one wey he eye never open..... Bros the day her eyes go open you go regret meeting her at the first place

Leshurr:


True but lust of the eyes won't allow them Although it's kinda unfair to ask men to lower their standards just to secure a good girl. What if she's only "good" due to lack of opportunity?

@ the bolded cracked me up.
Well... A good girl is a good girl. I mean.. any girl who has decided to remain good is because she wants to and not due to lack of opportunities because opportunities abound, especially in this era of social media and online networking hookups floating here and there. So it's not a question of lacking the opportunity, dear. If you're good, you're good.

CalliDora1:
Change your circle. Move out to more decent places and you will see wife materials. It's because you men like to look in the wrong places and go after sight that is why you keep meeting Oloshos.or what do you expect when all you keep looking at are girls dressed "hot" with revealing clothes? Those are the kind of girls you're easily attracted to, reason you now have this wrong notion.

Don't generalize. Get in the right circle and you'll find what you seek.

This has nothing to do with circle!
Girls re now worse!
I was smooching a married and pregnant woman in the office, i didnt knw. The pregnancy is now visible, I dnt even knw what to say her.

Keep generalizing @op, you keep meeting the wrong ones because that is what you attract, are you decent yourself?

chinchonglee:

This has nothing to do with circle!
Girls re now worse!
I was smooching a married and pregnant woman in the office, i didnt knw. The pregnancy is now visible, I dnt even knw what to say her.

You are even worse off for doing such a thing in an office environment. And here you are judging others. Tufia!

CalliDora1:



You are even worse off for doing such a thing in an office environment. And here you are judging others. Tufia!

I nor judge anybody dumb head!
The girl like me, we began office romance.
I never knew she was married and pregnant until december last year... The moment i knew i stopped. I dnt even talk to her anymore

chinchonglee:

I nor judge anybody dumb head!
The girl like me, we began office romance.
I never knew she was married and pregnant until december last year... The moment i knew i stopped. I dnt even talk to her anymore

Stop smooching in the office, big head! . It wrong and highly unethical. That's all.

Leshurr:
I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands.

Words on Marble!!
A continually say it that this issue is a cycle carried on by both genders, when one decides to stop the other will adjust.
When men tame there crave for sex that makes them give money and do favours for ladies, the ladies will have to adjust!!

chinchonglee:

This has nothing to do with circle!
Girls re now worse!
I was smooching a married and pregnant woman in the office, i didnt knw. The pregnancy is now visible, I dnt even knw what to say her.

And you think you are not part of the problem

NuclearReactor:

And you think you are not part of the problem

I was i to knw she is married?

CalliDora1:



Stop smooching in the office, big head! . It wrong and highly unethical. That's all.

Small head. Office romance sweet pass anything.

CalliDora1:
Change your circle. Move out to more decent places and you will see wife materials. It's because you men like to look in the wrong places and go after sight that is why you keep meeting Oloshos.or what do you expect when all you keep looking at are girls dressed "hot" with revealing clothes? Those are the kind of girls you're easily attracted to, reason you now have this wrong notion.

Don't generalize. Get in the right circle and you'll find what you seek.

which one be changing circle Abi cycle sef . Nothing like that joor. In ur entire life time, how many times have u change circle or cycle.? Keep deceiving urself with hole(circle) towtow sef na circle

Mide3367:
which one be changing circle Abi cycle sef . Nothing like that joor. In ur entire life time, how many times have u change circle or cycle.? Keep deceiving urself with hole(circle) towtow sef na circle

Whether circle or cycle, change it.
Stop deceiving yourself.

CalliDora1:


Whether circle or cycle, change it.
Stop deceiving yourself.

you haven't answered my question. How many times have u change ur circle /cycle? Do u think it is mensuration cycle? I laugh u

Mide3367:
you haven't answered my question. How many times have u change ur circle /cycle? Do u think it is mensuration cycle? I laugh u

Change is the only constant thing. So, Keep changing.

Leshurr:
I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands.

Nice one

lillyontop:
After all I have read I will still stand on an average female you see on the street either from a poor or rich background Na olosho let me sight it these way how can a lady be asking what the father can't afford to give from a guy I am not saying it's wrong but it's really alarming cos a friends boyfriend buys iPhone 12 for his girl mean say your boyfriend must buy for you... Most ladies of nowadays don't think about the future all they want is now (trending) that's why most of our guys go broke on time cos they keep demanding....abeg bros if you see a girl that ask you for money to start a business of her own than ask you money for a new iPhone bros marry am.... Another thing social media don finish our women. I am in support of marrying an olosho that has repented and see life from different angle than marrying the one wey he eye never open..... Bros the day her eyes go open you go regret meeting her at the first place

]I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands. [/quote]once an olosho will always be. You can as well go to the nearest hotel around u and pick a repented holosho and wife her. After all the 9999 preek she has taking during her olosho job isn't bad at all. In fact take her to ur mom and explain this reasons to her. Not only that, tell ur first son yo also marry olosho and advise ur brothers to do same as it is the best

CalliDora1:


Change is the only constant thing. So, Keep changing.

majority of nairaland girls are dumb. Simple question I ask, she kept spewing balderdash

Bad economy...I can tell you for free that the number of girls who have delved into prostitution between last year and now has Quadrupled. . As long has parents dont provide for and monitor the girl child strictly the numbers will keep soaring..

:And you think you are not part of the problem I was i to knw she is married?

Wife-Material- A phrase used by Nigerian men to describe Nigerian ladies who are submissive, relatively grinch and a good homemaker

I wonder what the definition of husband material would be

So many useless girls out there.

Edopesin:
Wife-Material- A phrase used by Nigerian men to describe Nigerian ladies who are submissive, relatively grinch and a good homemaker

I wonder what the definition of husband material would be

Lmao

You no see that guy definition for page one?

Husband is "A man that can provide roof over woman head and she should be content with that". Even being a good provider is no longer requirement for being a good husband.

Nigerian men una well done o

Leshurr:


It's not poverty. It's greed and lust for material things. If it was just a matter of poverty, women will be more focused on securing a husband who is at least able to provide a roof over their heads and will be content with that.. just like in the days of our parents - not hoeing around for money like women of today

Biko,
All the males crying on this thread, some of you are scammers and yahoo boys or aspiring yahoo boys, some of you are thieves and rapists or dishonest and liars, some of you cheated your way through University, some of you sef fit be kidnappers and killers but you are here making foolish noise because of prostitutes.
Women are in other countries please, go outside Nigeria and marry elsewhere since Nigerian women are all bad.

Travel out and marry elsewhere stop disturbing our ears with your endless nagging.

Leshurr:


It's not poverty. It's greed and lust for material things. If it was just a matter of poverty, women will be more focused on securing a husband who is at least able to provide a roof over their heads and will be content with that.. just like in the days of our parents - not hoeing around for money like women of today

Imagine!

Wife material is submissive, decent, virgin, independent while Husband material is a guy who can provide a roof over our heads.

Going by your definition, I think it's better I marry my father. After all, he provided a roof over my head.

Leshurr:


True but lust of the eyes won't allow them Although it's kinda unfair to ask men to lower their standards just to secure a good girl. What if she's only "good" due to lack of opportunity

Men are one confused set of human beings. You don't want hoes as wives yet the non-hoes are not good enough for you either because she didn't 'have opportunity'?

chinchonglee:

This has nothing to do with circle!
Girls re now worse!
I was smooching a married and pregnant woman in the office, i didnt knw. The pregnancy is now visible, I dnt even knw what to say her.

There was no wedding ring?

CHoccolaTE:


Lmao

You no see that guy definition for page one?

Husband is "A man that can provide roof over woman head and she should be content with that". Even being a good provider is no longer requirement for being a good husband.

Nigerian men una well done o

Well I for one know that the average man has more random sex than the average lady but nobody criticises my gender for it not even you ladies, men are statistically even bigger home wrecks but the double standards in this part of the world ehn

James Brown didn't visit this part of the world so he doesn't know how right he was when he said that it's a man's world