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Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Mitsurugi(m): 5:57pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
woleabayo: Beg her to forgive him for what? What did he do wrong? Something that happened before his marriage? A child that he was told wasn't his? Why do we give women this much power na? 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by na2016: 5:57pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
OP: 1)TELL YOUR WIFE. 2) RUN A DNA TEST. 3) FIND HOW BEST TO SORT THIS WITH THE MAN THAT LOST HIS JOB. 4) CUT TIES WITH THIS YOUR EX - SHE MAY EITHER RUIN YOUR HOME OR KILL YOU. DONT RUN A DNA TEST FIRST WITHOUT LETTING YOUR WIFE KNOW. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by sexy74(m): 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009:My brother this might not be as easy as you think but pray for God guidance. First of all how do you confront the man that has been taking care of the young man since birth (what will you do or how will you feel if it is the other way around. Secondly from your story the woman involved can do anything for a better life. I think she dumped and had to marry the other guy because you might not be too well to do then. Now the reverse is the case and she wants to play a mind game with you and open office for your head. Thirdly to me resemblance is the least thing you based your judgement on. Had it been she did not tell you the baby is yours you will not see any connection with the child even if you stand face to face with the baby. What I would advice you to do if you really want to know the truth is for you to tell the lady involved to fix a date that you would come to their house to see the husband, she should also tell her own people to be there because you will be coming with yours and if possible the husband people too should be there. Tell her on that day she would say it with her own mouth to the hearing of all present. From what transpires that day would determine the next line of action to take. If she does not agree to this my brother focus on your family and be happy with your wife and kids that you can confirm that are yours . May the Lord be your strength 8 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by victorjoe(m): 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
woleabayo: No need for any forgiveness. This thing happened before he met his current wife. And the girlfriend then denied and even blocked him from all social media. All he needs to do is just let the wife be aware of the situation. Anything they agree to do together is fine. Op don't forget to run a DNA test for proper confirmation. Leave they picture thing. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Slynation(m): 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009:Personally to me, since all this happened before you met your current wife, it shouldn't be a big issue between you and your wife, all it requires is understanding, but it will be a disaster on the side of that your fellow man...I'm very sure her shifting the pregnancy to him accelerated the marriage process, now imagine him finding out the boy ain't his son? I can't imagine the of pain considering the fact he already lost his job and things is quite difficult for him.... putting myself in your shoes, I don't know what to do |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Miracle1991: 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
The problem of this world start and end with a woman. Just because he lost his job, that useless gold digger decided to take a way the man child. Mr man, be careful you may be the next victim. The guy was with her even though she was not bringing shi shi to the family, now the idiot want to divorce the guy because he lost his job. If you are looking for the real devil don't go far just catch any woman. Forget all the pretenders in nairaland, they are all the same. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Slynation: I didn't even read the content. I Only commented based on the caption. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by HONNESSTY(m): 5:59pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
[quote author=Slimslimqq post=98018395]this is a very sensitive issue. my advise is, before u proceed in claiming the child. why not go for a DNA test if u can afford it. then if the test comes out positive then u know what to do. am sure u won't watch ur child suffer. [Wow very very good advice, u av nailed this matter my brother. hope pls where are u? pls read this comment above and make sure u work with it simple] |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by nams77: 5:59pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
First thing first. DNA test |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009: You will turn a simple matter a complex one. Did this happen before or after marriage.? |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by xtervaganza(m): 6:01pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
That where brought the guy had luck so much he lost his job You better be careful and approach everything with caution if you dont want to jam agbako |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by dehi: 6:01pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
woleabayo:. I don't get it. Why should he ask for forgiveness. It happened before marriage oga. So it's not his fault that it happened before he could married to her. The only thing he needs to do is explain how things happened not to start begging |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by MadamExcellency: 6:02pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Klass99: You don't know how welfare works. The Op is in soup. The child is his and it's his responsibility to take care of the child calculated based on his income or worth. Hunter Biden thinks it's easy to forgo responsibility, so do you. The lady gets to be paid for taking care of the child in addition to the cost of the boy's welfare. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by macrodata(m): 6:03pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5:I was just thinking the same thing. I'm guessing you're married. Flesh and bone did not reveal this to you. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by mrdino(m): 6:03pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Bro, you are blessed for making this statement. I respect people who see/reason matters from many angles, and not just from one perspective. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by etrouble: 6:03pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Someone is about to be unfortunate in life and that person is a Nairalander. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by peromosele: 6:04pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Yap, you can’t neglect your blood some were, but you must be certain with a DNA test to comfirm yours. Because she might be play games with you due to the fact that you are abit stabilize in life. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by damilonya(m): 6:04pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Would she have told you that the child is yours if her husband wasnt jobless? I would advice you to be careful as such a woman could destroy you and your family. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by JoeEeL(m): 6:05pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
[quote author=charles009 post=98018196]Good people of nairaland, Everything you are about to read is not fiction but certain reality. The intro of this post lasan... |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Chisaedhor: 6:07pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Pierocash: Heartlessness of the highest order. You are more evil than Buhari and Boko haram 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by INCREDIBLE007(m): 6:07pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
all those PRO-FORNICATION CREW UNA SEE UNA LIVES embrace holiness embrace Abstinence b4 marriage to avoid stories that touch 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by providencia(m): 6:08pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Pierocash:wait o. You mean if someone should marry chioma now, he will claim davido's son as his? |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Jadeng: 6:10pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Do you want to use your own hand to scatter your faily okay marriage or life ?? As for the lady, she is only surveying to know if things are fine with you to START an extramarital affair with you; while using the child to blackmail you.... Mark my words.. Tell her marriage is for better, for worse and then block her too! She's a gold digger ! 3 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by flinton(m): 6:12pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Pierocash:And biological whose? |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
providencia: He's right. A child conceived in a marriage is always considered the husband's son by law; regardless of what a DNA test result shows. Davido and Chioma are not married, so a DNA test would have to be taken to prove paternity, unless both of them agree by mutual consent that it is Davido's. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by providencia(m): 6:12pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5:The op better be careful. An hungry man is an angryman. That man can knack him something |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Yankee101: 6:13pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Confirm via DNA Take your child in or set aside an allowance to care for him while in her care. Pay directly for most of his needs and give her some cash monthly Monitor her cos it seems she's all about the money. Divorcing her man cos he lost his job? |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Mrlouis: 6:13pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
AVOID PREMARITAL SEX AT ALL COSTS. NO GAINS WHATSOEVER. NONE!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by donb06: 6:13pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
MadamExcellency: Naija has different laws from the US |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by providencia(m): 6:14pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:okay. Thanks |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by baralatie(m): 6:14pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Offpoint1:my own bet is that if they(ex and op) should just tell the ex husband that he is not the father of this child (in his current condition). na ex,op and pikin fit collect either gun,cutlass or spiritual warfare |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by friendl: 6:15pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Na money she wan collect from you ,...heartless lady |
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