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My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do / How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? / Dad’s Incredible Reaction To News 14-year-old Son Is Not His (2) (3) (4)
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by frozen70(f): 11:42am On Jan 14|
What do you know about paternity.?
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by afrikaa: 11:49am On Jan 14|
Avoid fornication! We no go hear... It comes with alot of baggages. Unprotected sex for that matter.
Talk to your wife first and you two can take it up from there.
In this present life and times... If you genuinely have Peace of mind, you don't know what the Lord has done for you.
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by candygebs: 12:18pm On Jan 14|
Forget about the child if you are wise..
Ur ex kept u away from this child cos u were broke, now her hubby is broke, she is using this same child to get to you cos u are now money ok. Don't destroy ur real family by yourself.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by charles009(m): 12:34pm On Jan 14|
Thanks folks, I discussed with her about the paternity test.
She agreed. Will be checking up a few hospitals in Lagos and pricing too.
Will tell wify much later. This has a potential of wrecking my home. I hope it doesn't.
Can I custody the child and atleast my wife wouldn't know, maybe give him to my mum or sister?
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by cococandy(f): 12:34pm On Jan 14|
If this story is true, The kid may not even be yours or the husband’s.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by deltateam: 2:29pm On Jan 14|
I fear who no fear woman.
Can anyone beat this manipulator and strategist?
Reminds me about not putting all eggs in one basket
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by deltateam: 2:34pm On Jan 14|
Hmm. That's another angle.
It's a delicate matter. It's like a fly perching on your blokus.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by nigeriansamurai(m): 3:44pm On Jan 14|
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by faithfull18(f): 3:45pm On Jan 14|
Hmmn, flee fornication, flee from sex before marriage, they will not hear.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by MedicH: 5:33pm On Jan 14|
This your ex must be Godpikin4real
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by incogni2o: 5:33pm On Jan 14|
This is harsh but....
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Texty: 5:35pm On Jan 14|
Guess you want to shake two families but it's obvious the lady does not care about hers..... Watch from a close distance what is yours will walk to you at the perfect time
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by streetsoldier1(m): 5:37pm On Jan 14|
the jobless guy fit vex kee the woman oo
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by gasparpisciotta: 5:37pm On Jan 14|
Please focus on your immediate family and don’t be a reason to crash that marriage. Women can be tricky, once her husband recovers from the set back stories will definitely change.
Don’t be carried away by the prevailing circumstances, tomorrow is pregnant they say
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by blowjob: 5:37pm On Jan 14|
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Babyboyforeal(m): 5:38pm On Jan 14|
slimjohn2k5:the most sensible comment so far
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Tats(m): 5:38pm On Jan 14|
My thoughts exactly. Except if he was dating her while dating or married to his current wife.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by deekseen(m): 5:39pm On Jan 14|
You have two options: Either ignore the other lady and her claims or you tell your wife everything before making any move, if you value your marriage.
If you can get your wife on your side this will be an easy matter. If this revelation will threaten your marriage, completely ignore the other lady or get her to confess that she initially said the baby wasn't yours, for evidence.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by WILLuKPquiet: 5:39pm On Jan 14|
Which forgiveness. Did he do it intentionally? If the lady had not lied to him he probably would have told the wife he has another child somewhere and if she wouldn't mind they would have still married one another. But since he was lied to. He only needs to explain to the wife. If the wife truly loves him she has to understand. More so if the age of the child shows he was not born after his marriage then the wife should understand that it is not an arrangee story.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by tizzle(m): 5:39pm On Jan 14|
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by NeoWanZaeed(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14|
That kid is n0t urs OP. SHES PLAYING YOU BECAUSE SHE IS FACING HARD TIME. TAKE CARE OF ANUDA MAN S0N AND SHE GO KUM BAK TO CLAIM THE KID AGAIN
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by joseph1832(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14|
The reason she told you the child is yours is because you're doing okay. If you're broker than her broke husband I believe she would have kept silent.
OP. Never allow evil take care of a child. If I were you I would speak to my wife, if possible involve her parents to try help tell her to understand and take the child out of that evil woman's hands.
Imagine she wants to divorce her Husband because he's broke. What nonsense. Whatever happened to for better for worse.
That woman is terrible and she doesn't deserve to raise any kid.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Mutemenot(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14|
U aren't even mentioning the girl's side. What about her husband ? This issue must be looked into both ways
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by sirpelzz(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14|
Roseey0:honestly,, uve just spoken my mind,,2 bottles of stout for uu
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by heniford2: 5:40pm On Jan 14|
Pierocash:don't do this is pay back insist to have your child back talk to your wife about it first talk to your immediate family first if your wife parents are alive tell him first then hear what he have to say then seat your wife down and explain everything to her give her assurance take your child and break that your ex home she's a witch
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by oluwasegun007(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14|
Another first born living in another mans house.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Jabioro: 5:41pm On Jan 14|
Dem wan do unlimited cash out.. consider the life of her husband,do DNA and see if the fool is saying the truth
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by joseph1832(m): 5:41pm On Jan 14|
faithfull18:Abeg make we hear word. Aunty holier than thou.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by FIRDAUS3(m): 5:42pm On Jan 14|
Forget resemblance..... What the common sense require is to do the DNA test first, after the result proofs positive, next step is to talk to your wife about it, finally take your Son and refurbish his life.... Shikenah
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by chronique(m): 5:43pm On Jan 14|
I understand how you don't want your blood to suffer and I also understand how you don't want to tell your wife about another child. These days, most of us don't want to have anything to do with polygamy or anything that disrupts our family peace. I'd advise you go do a DNA test for the child and if he turns out to be your child, sit your wife down and explain everything to her. Thankfully, it happened before you met her and you didn't have any idea you had a child before marrying her. Make provisions to take care of the boy but don't bring him into your house so as to avoid scattering your home. As the child grows older, watch how your wife adjusts to the reality on ground and see if she's open to him coming in. I know you are the head of the house but you can't forcefully bring that child in without you both agreeing to it. She has a right to not want to be involved in a polygamous relationship and as such, you can't force a child from someone else on her to take care of. Just use wisdom and tact in managing the situation.
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Tats(m): 5:43pm On Jan 14|
People forget that you have things like Ancestry.com and 23andMe where many people carry out DNA tests for themselves and it reveals relatives who have also done the tests and agreed for their data to be linked to relatives. Its becoming very popular and many people have discovered things about themselves. Its only a matter of time before it becomes popular in Nigeria and the truth starts coming out. Go on Youtube and see what people have discovered about themselves..
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