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My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do / How Can I Stop My Ex From Visiting My Matrimonial Home? / Dad’s Incredible Reaction To News 14-year-old Son Is Not His (2) (3) (4)
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nato008(m): 9:02pm On Jan 13|
baralatie:it would be unfortunate if that happens but it should be on the lady not the OP....OP didn't abandon the child neither did he have an extra marital affair that resulted in the baby.....
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by baralatie(m): 9:04pm On Jan 13|
Nato008:if it should happen plus ex and op go follow the man that died to explain how it happened
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by HassieMalcomson(f): 9:10pm On Jan 13|
I don't think why you are not leading with the DNA test. I think you must go for the DNA test, and with clarification, you can make the right decision. I think it would be a callous call for you.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nicepoker(m): 9:45pm On Jan 13|
The husband lost his job. And she is seeking for a divorce. Useless woman.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by LadySarah(f): 10:00pm On Jan 13|
you were cumming inside the fiancee of another man for you to debate who or who doesnt own the pregnancy yrs back or she was a runs girl?
Tueeh! I just feel for the jobless man who'd be loosing a child in this times.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Pierocash(m): 10:09pm On Jan 13|
Nato008:I read it.... That is the law. The legally married husband is the father of any child that was born out of wedlock, DNA or not.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nato008(m): 10:19pm On Jan 13|
Pierocash:which law please....in law courts why do the request for DNA test if ur assertion is correct, don't come and be misleading people
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Pierocash(m): 10:33pm On Jan 13|
Nato008:get educated bro,don't argue what is plain.I didn't write the law. Go carry out your investigation ,and you will be shocked that what I said is true.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Roseey0(f): 10:44pm On Jan 13|
People donating egg or sperm dont claim ownership of a child. Fatherhood goes beyond DNA.
Why is she telling you now?
Because things are not going well for her spouse.
She is mad.
Let her carry her cross. If she was a President's wife, will she remember to tell you?
See yourself as a sperm donor.Noting more.
The boy already has a father who has been going all out to take care of him not minding his current circumstance. I repeat, you are not his father. You only donated sperm. Focus on your family and the children who You father.
Please tell your wife the story first before she hear it outside. Cut that ex off totally.
Blood is thicker than water.
If she is saying she can't take care of the child any longer, you can offer to bring him into your home and raise him completely.
No attachee or child support thingy.
Just hand over pikin to you and you raise him. If Not, make she carry her cross. Wash your hand comlt. You have done your part
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nato008(m): 10:47pm On Jan 13|
Pierocash:bro u wrote the legally married husband is the father of the child out of wedlock....this statement is subject to technicalities in law court..if the wife says otherwise then what happens??
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by charles009(m): 10:47pm On Jan 13|
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by SavageResponse(m): 11:17pm On Jan 13|
OP take this advise
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by ITbomb(m): 11:43pm On Jan 13|
Slimslimqq:That money for DNA, he should give to that ex husband to start business and then forget about someone's son
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Martinez39s(m): 12:01am On Jan 14|
Get a DNA test. It might be that the kid isn't yours. Her husband is broke and can't provide, she might be trying to come to you so that you can provide for her and the child. You are a possible financial means for her and she is using the kid to link both of you.
Stop listening to what she is saying, get a DNA test.
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by laluski(m): 12:22am On Jan 14|
CalliDora1:Stop talking with stupidity
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by thatsleepboy1: 12:26am On Jan 14|
Excuse me pls, what forgiveness are you talking about here? What crime did he commit?
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by wisewordd: 12:29am On Jan 14|
She's probably looking for salary (child support). Don't fall for it. She's evil and wants to destroy your marriage. Tell her to give you her husband's number to confirm from him. Like someone said, "let her carry her cross".You don't need DNA, focus on your family. The child is not yours like she told you initially. And if you must do DNA, involve your wife. If positive, request to take full custody without giving her a dime and if she insists on child support, leave the child for her and move on. By law, the husband is the father and he bears his name. Use your head. Imagine yourself in the husband's shoe.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Drsnives(m): 1:33am On Jan 14|
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by galantjoe(m): 5:59am On Jan 14|
If you have already a male child no need of bringing trouble in your house. Keep it to yourself. Don't tell your wife. Let it be your personal secret for now.
As a man how will your ex husband feels. So, what I will advise u is to help your ex in training the boy. Provide her with financial help, I think that is what she wants by revealing this secret now.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by RealAlubarika(m): 7:06am On Jan 14|
Please my advise for you is to go for DNA, try and inform your wife or i guess you did told her about it( your past) during courship.
We rise by lifting others
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Pierocash(m): 7:08am On Jan 14|
Nato008:the wife is not a determinant on this issue, the law determines it.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nato008(m): 7:20am On Jan 14|
Pierocash:how can the law determine it without testimony from the wife....is it possible, if the wife says otherwise...then there is problem
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Pierocash(m): 7:25am On Jan 14|
Nato008:the wife's testimony isn't a determining factor. She wasn't married,now legally married,everything belongs to the legally married husband of the wife. He fathered the child,took care of him,paid the woman's price, no outsider has any inheritance with her anymore.
Even the wife you legally married,sometimes you can lose the child to your wife,not to talk of the one you didn't marry.
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Kingluqman(m): 7:49am On Jan 14|
Make sure you still do DNA ooo
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Aflix(m): 7:49am On Jan 14|
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Aflix(m): 7:51am On Jan 14|
LadySarah:Did you read the part where he said she is his ex
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Herbephe1(m): 8:17am On Jan 14|
Why is she telling you now? If her husband was not encountering such financial challenge ,I am very sure she wouldn't have revealed it.
Forget you have a child somewhere,if you care about the kid,you can assist them financially,her husband is in difficult situation already,so dont complicate already complicated soul,put yourself in her husband shoe,how would you have felt if yiu were in his condition,dont wish others what you do not wish for yourself...
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:35am On Jan 14|
charles009:It is people like you that we should be afraid of and not women.Your complaint is immature. You are one of the few fvcking our ladies, causing paternity fraud and you are looking for mature advice to destroy your ex home. Well I have one mature advice for you. It's either you go to the house of your ex. Look straight into the eyes of her husband and tell him you were the one fvcking his wife before she got married to him. Tell him that the child is not his because the boy resembles you and not him and challenge him to a DNA contest to prove your point or tell your ex to confess to her husband
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|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Childrentablets: 9:41am On Jan 14|
You better forget about that child. She initially told you the child wasn't yours then probably because you were a broke and hungry niggaa. Now that her husband is now suffering and you are comfortable the child is now yours.
Can you see how she's playing you both. You better don't be cause of another man's suicide. Let go the child, and focus on the ones in your matrimonial home.
If you are financially buoyant enough to help the woman to feed, you can extend a hand.
Comot eye for that pikin. She already told you it's not yours. Don't stress it
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:46am On Jan 14|
U re not Ok
He said he fought for the paternity of the child initially but she insisted that he was not the father of the child, now that casala wan burst for her side she's now claiming that he is the father.
Ori gbogbo yin to daru., Awon alailero oponu gbogbo wonwonyi.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Heartdanny(f): 11:02am On Jan 14|
Tell your wife, go for a DNA test if he turns out he is your child start taking care of him as a father. And be careful with ur-ex cos she may want to come back into your life, in fact when ever you have a meeting with her make sure you go with your wife or let it be in an open place and do not hide anything about your dealings with her from your wife. For her to give the pregnancy to another man shows that she is a desperate women.
|Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by frozen70(f): 11:41am On Jan 14|
The issue of your wife not wanting to hear of another child is not something to be worried about
The most important thing to do now is to call your ex and go for a DNA test with the child
If the result is positive, then infirm the husband about it after that inform your wife
You are likely to finally take the child into your family
But if the result is negative, then end it there with her
Still inform your wife and let her know everything and why you kept her in the dark is because you wanted to be sure of the DNA test and now that is positive you want her to know and accept the child
She will feel bad but the earlier the best for you all
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