CHoccolaTE:


Lol, I can't count how many men abandoned their children because of one side chic outside, spending money on their side hoe instead of saving for their kids, I cant count how many men neglected their wives sexual and emotional needs because of side chicken, there are stories of side chicken killing or harming a married man's children because he broke their heart.

Start thread for men instead

https://www.nairaland.com/4940890/killed-boyfriends-son-after-losing

MJBOLT:

don't let anybody deceive you with the useless mantra of "change your circle", how many circles will you change the truth is all these girls are hoes,if she's not hoeing for you then she's hoeing for someone else.

Leshurr:
The reason why most African American women are single is because they embraced the concept of liberal feminism which has led them astray.. (being hyper aggressive, thoting on Instagram etc.. ) now black men are dating out of their race en-mass, leaving them at the bottom scrambling to be chosen in the dating market.
This would've easily been the fate of Nigerian women too if Nigerian men had other options. Just imagine if there were women of other races in Nigeria.. hmm.
Sorry guys, but you are stuck.

emmaodet:





Sorry sis but there is still one option left.......... Not marrying at all (Babymama way)

Angelacruz:
my dear,u spoke well

Princeofasia:
bro na VI i dey live now. i am talking of the very high brow part o. u will see a girl that u think is decent. make small findings and u go see say na proper olosho. abi na the ones wey their papa get money? those ones just Bleep anyting for satisfaction. abi na the self made ones, those one bleeped their way to the top and will still keep fucking their way to stay there. even my cousins wey i dey destroy with cash, when i mean cash i mean cash wey be say even if them hustle them no go ever make am, but i go still dey see them dey display olosho tendencies. this whole thing is looking like 99% of naija girls are oloshos . our mother excluded. still waiting to be proved wrong

Billyonaire666:


I've lived in VI, Ikoyi and now Lekki, so I know what you mean. Social media has legally normalized and popularized sex trading. To be frank with you, I will not recommend that you marry any girl from Lagos, cos as you know, no be only you hold bar for this area, so most girls can fucck if the money is cool. And there is money in the neighborhood.

Step outside of Lagos and do not take a car with you, rent a flat and take a walk in the evenings. I got a girl that way, It is called Ned Nwoko Strategy in higher cycles. Even if you wanna marry 10 wives, use same strategy to locate your virgins my brother.
Thank me later.

WilliamsDeGreat:



All of them are doing runz

Just go to okay store or app store and download inmessage app and see people's serious girlfriend available for hook up. Or go to any big hotel and see young girls age 18-23 doing runz

Nigerian girls are useless to be honest with you

Princeofasia:
i have a reason why i dont like the paby mama sht. if you have a baby maa, u will be paying her for upkeep while another man dey Bleep am. instead of a baby mama, i rather look for someone that i will pay and impregnated , she delivers and she goes. possibly without ever seeing my face.

Princeofasia:
see am na CHoccolaTE
https://www.nairaland.com/6361374/ex-said-son-mine-please

CHoccolaTE:


All you wrote doesn't change the fact that men destroy their families with extra marital affairs.

Princeofasia:
i have a reason why i dont like the paby mama sht. if you have a baby maa, u will be paying her for upkeep while another man dey Bleep am. instead of a baby mama, i rather look for someone that i will pay and impregnated , she delivers and she goes. possibly without ever seeing my face.

CHoccolaTE:


All you wrote doesn't change the fact that men destroy their families with extra marital affairs.

CalliDora1:
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@ the bolded cracked me up.
Well... A good girl is a good girl. I mean.. any girl who has decided to remain good is because she wants to and not due to lack of opportunities because opportunities abound, especially in this era of social media and online networking hookups floating here and there. So it's not a question of lacking the opportunity, dear. If you're good, you're good.

chinchonglee:

I nor judge anybody dumb head!
The girl like me, we began office romance.
I never knew she was married and pregnant until december last year... The moment i knew i stopped. I dnt even talk to her anymore

CalliDora1:
Change your circle. Move out to more decent places and you will see wife materials. It's because you men like to look in the wrong places and go after sight that is why you keep meeting Oloshos.or what do you expect when all you keep looking at are girls dressed "hot" with revealing clothes? Those are the kind of girls you're easily attracted to, reason you now have this wrong notion.

Don't generalize. Get in the right circle and you'll find what you seek.

Blessedchild24:
Only one remain for my area o, come quick b4 her eye go open

emmaodet:


Funny enough, most ladies on NL would have cursed the lady's husband assuming he is just co-habiting with the lady and reluctant to marry her.
They will say it is because she is not yet married, that is why she is flirting and if the man don't want her to be messing around, he should do the needful.
Now the man has done the needful and here is a lady with pregnancy fooooling around

karkinase:
Bad economy...I can tell you for free that the number of girls who have delved into prostitution between last year and now has Quadrupled. . As long has parents dont provide for and monitor the girl child strictly the numbers will keep soaring..

CalliDora1:


Even in Church, you men will still go for the ones that are provocatively dressed. I know what I'm saying. You Carefully avoid the decent sisters and still go for the ... You know now.

Can we just stop pretending and deceiving ourselves. You know the good ones but always think they are not your spec. We know una, abeg lol..

lymelyte:
you are just going round in circle because you don't want to accept the truth

CHoccolaTE:


@bold,

No be una say women should also be breadwinner like men if women no provide then they are liabilities?
Are you men not the ones saying women should not depend on men for money and stop being leeches? So now you are saying the same women should not chase wealth like men but should focus on being mothers.

The whole premise of stingy men association is because men refuse to spend on women because they believe women should work for themselves.

Nobody is encouraging prostitution but saying women should not chase wealth like men is so stupid and idiotic because the have nobody to depend on but themselves

You males started insulting them for focusing on home building instead of hustling.

Ayaaz:


[s]First of all, i didn't say women shouldn't chase wealth, women have been making money long before the advent of feminism

What i did was simply diagnose the problem and that is that values have changed and that women now choose to compete with men as opposed to complimenting men's efforts

It's not black and white, you don't have to prostitute to get ahead, making your own money isn't a license to prostitute, you can work hard and grind just like the generality of men do

Alot of women have taken women's freedom as the freedom to prostitute, you can't honestly justify female looseness by arguing that men are to blame...if you want freedom, you must accept responsibilty for your uncoerced choices because social freedom doesn't equate freedom from responsibilty

Lastly, don't accuse me of what i'm not culpable of...i believe motherhood is more important than a career for women and that it's a man's job to provide resources for the running and functioning of the home

I'm not against a woman working, particularly in these times, but it's not her burden and a man who shames a woman for not providing financially is shameless even though a sensible woman who earns, should assist the husband

Miss me with that bullshit[/s]

Princeofasia:
this your argument is far from my point. We are taking of bringing another man's or woman's child to the house

CHoccolaTE:


Just look the long stupid thesis he wrote to avoid admitting that he posted thrash before.

Ayaaz:


As usual, i am brainless and refusing to take responsibility

It's trash and not thrash...they're distinct, brush up

I am a Deluded child

Leshurr:
I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands.