phineas:


No these ones do not represent the average Nigerian man.Only the jobless ones with a lot of free time on their hands.No succesfull man underestimates the role of a thinking ,smart helpmate to weather the storms of life with them.

Underachieving men with challenges on their perception of self,either in wealth or size cant deal with such partners those are the type that marry a yes yes woman or maid.They are not the average Nigerian man just a small vocal minority.You know what they say about empty barrels

Blueelf:


[s]Do not purposely misinterpret the writer's intentions. You know what he meant
You just want to bash Nigerian Men (as usual, it's getting really boring).

Moral of the story - teach your daughters to be dutiful, obedient and responsible. Don't over- pamper them.[/s]

edoairways:

Wowwww. The article isn't valid enough since it is not empirically proven

babakb:


Of course, our wives are not our equals, we don't need them for any decision making, we provide for them and in return they perform their conjugal and domestic duties.

Full meaning of wife is:
Washing
Ironing
Fvcking
Eating

Gerrard59:


Yes, because there are several questions which it didn't answer. What economic stratum are these men who married maids? How many men have they interviewed factoring income levels, location, age etc., before they came to the headline? What are the implications of a certain strata of men getting married to maids? These mothers weren't asked if they would accept these kinds of men as in-laws. And a whole lot more. Maybe if the media house cited a study that answers at least one of such questions, it will make the article more logical and insightful.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Gerrard59:
This article has been recycled countless times on the FP. Don't you guys get tired?

BTW, like in most Nigerian written articles, no surveys or peer-reviewed studies on how they came about the outcome. Just vibes, cobwebs and coconut in their heads.

FirstbornWds:



Mister... You ain't have to try to appear smart. What has survey, studies got to with this kind of article? Besides, you can see from the style that it's a conversational piece with really no formality.


The article is properly crafted, IMO!

phineas:


No these ones do not represent the average Nigerian man.Only the jobless ones with a lot of free time on their hands.No succesfull man underestimates the role of a thinking ,smart ,connected or spiritual helpmate to weather the storms of life with them.

Underachieving men with challenges on their perception of self,either in wealth or size cant deal with such partners those are the type that marry a yes yes woman or maid.They are not the average Nigerian man just a small vocal minority.You know what they say about empty barrels

edoairways:

Gerrard9 this dude's comment refute the writer's view. Am sure there are still men who aren't moved by domestic house chores

chatinent:
Because we need wives not daughters.


We find wives in ladies whether maids, orphans, or the homeless.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

CHoccolaTE:


That's Nigerian men for you.
Confused, entitled, selfish, vulgar, irritating

Just look at their thought process, they want a slave that can work as a maid and clean up after them and she should also be a provider that hustles money to feed them.

All while being a submissive wife that does not question their authority.

Nasty and selfish useless pieces of shit called Nigerian men

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

SocialJustice:
Lala your attention is needed here.

Most parents these days fail at everything. I have friends who let their kids do whatever they want, I mean whatever. It is crazy. People think the girls above 20 are bad, just wait for the babies to turn into young women.

That said, there are beacons of light in this perpetual darkness-properly trained girls who know their place, abhor feminism and see no reason why they shouldn't be able to manage their homes.

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

christopher123:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thenewsnigeria.com.ng/2017/03/06/suitors-now-prefer-our-maids-to-our-daughters/amp/

Mypeople2:
My dear men are not shameless.You don't expect me to leave a beautiful, a good cook, decent etc lady for an educated Zee world, ROK TV, Telemudo ,Instagram and Facebook lady with ear rings in her nose .Na wife person need nor be babe.

CalliDora1:
Thank God, mum did a good job on us in the domestic area and both parents ensured we had a good and sound education.

Imagine being made to cook at the age of 10 for the whole house.. mum made sure of that and we still lived the best aje butter life ever. Now, everyone is a pro in everything.

Oga, loud it!

Dpundict:
The differences between the maid and your daughter is "Entitlement mentality".

While not disputing this claim it has the tendency of making a man out of your daughter; because through it all, you the parent forget that "NO MAN WANTS TO MARRY ANOTHER MAN" (literally) in the sense of her not being submissive and obedient to her husband in ways that are most convenient for the union to thrive. How can I live with you in peace when you have no regard for me as a man and a husband?................