ANDREW91:


No go learn how to cook and manage home..stay here dey disgrace urself.

. I laugh in chinese

Psalmistproject:


It's not by force madam. You can remain single and do the same chores for yourself and still go to work and hustle for your living.

If you are already married, stop nagging and forcing your husband to do house chores because you are the one bringing in the money.

Don't you know that a man performs better when encouraged and giving room to think for himself?

ojebi, na man we marry not kids that needs to be pampered

Aabheaven:
why blame the male gender or was the article written by a man. Or is it that u lack understanding and uncouth. Such Ill mannered piece of thing. Put your frustration someone daft thing

. Don't get too worked up my dear. All na cruise

OK....I'll respond:

NoToPile:


You still don't get it and you are twisting your reply. It was a simple question - Are you ready to lay down your life for your wife as Christ did for the church?

From the post you quoted, I said " yes".

There was a reason why husbands love your wives comes before wives submit to your husband. A woman will hardly ( genuinely) submit to a man who doesn't love ( the way christ loved the church)her

Husband will love and wife will submit its that simple.

1. When we say husband, we're not talking of a boy in adult body with over-sized phallus dangling BTW his legs.
2. Theres no place in d scriptures dt said dt d condition for d wife to submit to her lord is dt he loved her first! ......and dt if he doesn't love her she shouldn't submit to him!
3. "Husband love thy wives, wives submit to ur husbands" is God's commandment which shd be carried out so long as they are married, irrespective!
The man is to love his wife even if she doesn't submit to him;
The wife is to submit to her king even if he doesn't love her!

Now I will ask clearly are you ready to lay down your life for her as Christ did for the church?

Already answered!

I believe you have a full grasp of what Christ did for the church if yes as you have stated then you should know it might actually be easier for a woman to submit than a man ( of this generation) to love his wife as God has commanded it.
It is also difficult for a woman not to submit to that man that loves her as God commanded.

That was why God commanded men to 'love', not 'reason' with their wives. Women are emotional beings whilst on d contrary, men are logical beings.
Any man who hopes his wife shd reason with logic (like him) will only give himself braintumor!
That's why God asks a man to love her despite her fickleness!

Love her- she submits she won't even disrespect you.

And 1st Corinthians 13 also shows us characteristics of love ( maybe a part)

Again, no where in d scriptures which indicates that a woman's submission to her husband is predicated on his love for her!

Are u sure about thT

teacherbim:

Do you think is all about endowed? Wise men don't give a shit about that

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

One man's meat is another man's poison.
My younger brother is doing well in his business, but his wife cooks rubbish. He only eat a good food when ever he comes to my house. He is not happy about it. Yet the woman is educated.

richie240:
OK....I'll respond:

From the post you quoted, I said " yes".


1. When we say husband, we're not talking of a boy in adult body with over-sized phallus dangling BTW his legs.
2. Theres no place in d scriptures dt said dt d condition for d wife to submit to her lord is dt he loved her first! ......and dt if he doesn't love her she shouldn't submit to him!
3. "Husband love thy wives, wives submit to ur husbands" is God's commandment which shd be carried out so long as they are married, irrespective!
The man is to love his wife even if she doesn't submit to him;
The wife is to submit to her king even if he doesn't love her!


Already answered!



That was why God commanded men to 'love', not 'reason' with his wife. Women are emotional beings whilst on d contrary, men are logical beings.
Any man who hopes his wife to reason with logic will only give himself braintumor!
That's why God asks a man to love her despite her fickleness!


Again, no where in d scriptures which indicates that a woman's submission to her husband is predicated on his love for her!

@bolded In a christain marriage it is assumed the man will love his wife, it is a commandment more or less. If the man doesn't love his wife its supposed to be an exception that's the angle I am coming from

A feminist that keep her husband private from any media and will advice our fast-food girls why they are equal with men is that one a feminist?
A feminist that will clean the mouth of the husband after eating and will tell you to not take shits from men is that one a feminist?
A feminist that wash all the dish, was husband cloth, sweep and clean everywhere in the house on a regular basis but will be telling you that it should be 50/50 on social media, is that one a feminist.
Love is a scam, just like you fall in love with a guy for a reason, you can also unlove for that same reason.
Love fade when a person withdrew from doing what attract the opposite to he/she.
Time change character and attitude so marry a girl who have the core attributes of a wife so when time pass, you still have a reason to be with each other.

Over to noodles cooking ladies.

Righteousness2:
Are the maids not Human beings?

If the daughters are busy slaying themselves in Immorality and emptiness , what do you Expect?

those maid can fxxck

Something is wrong somewhere....
Consult garba sheu

Why won't they when the rich parents train the maids and overpampers their own kids. Them never see anything

Derrylatei:
Well written article. It's an unarguable facts that most parent makes their maid better wife material than their beloved daughters. Parent needs not to over pampered their daughter.

Most maid are home bred by their parents or relatives before they are expose to homes.
No family or homes will employ or seek the service of a maid that can't cook (or cook rubbish) can't do proper washing or lazy to work they will throw you out sharp-sharp without waiting for the next day.
maids are people who are exposed, eager to do these things which require their services and in turn expose and educate them to do these things for themselves in the process learn new things too.

It is more of breding whether parental or non parental depending on the stand point of view.
The argument is flawed.
Everything in life is a learning process and experience, the fact that others are learning and the rest aren't makes a huge gap and difference.

Dididrumz:
Just imagine Tonto Dike giving birth to a girl child, what does she want to teach her?

lol

Sty1esLawyer:
Stupid! Aren't the maids human too or they shouldn't allow men marry them because they're maid to some foul-cunt-smelly lazy urchins?!

I'm afraid you didn't get the message.

"They train their maids to be wife material whilst leaving their daughters to figure things out by themselves".

This is on the same level with paternity fraud. Men train other men's kids as theirs (which they do not know) equipping them with all they need to survive life because their wives lied to them. Whilst women train other women equipping them for life (marriage) whilst leaving out their daughters. In the end, the kids on both sides lose out.

When parents refuse to be what God designed them to be and take up the role of 'over-caring' gods and goddesses to their children, the maid will be made but the duaghter will become a dolly bird or bimbo.

Hmmm. Hmmm

Dirakamara:
Only a mumu guy go settle with an illiterate, almost all gals nw are graduates, gals just need to work on their characters and just that

And u think it's that easy? Just work on character like that? My brother don't be fooled please. There are many among these maids who are graduates, smart and submissive. What a man needs is housewife material that is matured in character, not all these mummy's pet that will be stockpiling dirty pants in one corner of the room.

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

Smartness dey sweet and e go belleful you.

djon78:


I don't understand how some of them don't understand this.

Most marriages that you hear divorce and break up comprise of the type of ladies you mentioned.


The ones that give a man peace are those the article highlighted
The person may not be a maid but a well domesticated woman
She can be a graduate but highly domesticated

These are the kind of women that will give a man peace in his home
Not the ones that have become toxified by her environment and upbringing
Bringing only sorrow to men that marries them
It's all about wisdom simple

Exactly

CalliDora1:
Thank God, mum did a good job on us in the domestic area and both parents ensured we had a good and sound education.

Imagine being made to cook at the age of 10 for the whole house.. mum made sure of that and we still lived the best aje butter life ever. Now, everyone is a pro in everything.

Oga, loud it!

Be like say I don find wife o.
@CalliDora..are you single?

This thread is excellent for differentiating genders

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

How do you feel after splitting this rubbish?

Those maid pussy is till very tight that's why

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

chai thus one pain am.....lazy people crew....na your type dey wash spaghetti before cooking

Debalanza:



How do you feel after splitting this rubbish?

cappucino925:
chai thus one pain am.....lazy people crew....na your type dey wash spaghetti before cooking

Gerrard59:


If you like shout to the heavens but it's not a well written article judging from other magazines and articles I've read online. Those writers ensure certain statements/statistics are backed by verifiable data not OKOTO MEOW conjectures. However, if you believe this article is factual, fine and good.

lol @ okoto meow

davidadenrele:
I hope DJ Cuppy is reading this!!

Lol. She is reading and laughing.

chatinent:
Because we need wives not daughters.


We find wives in ladies whether maids, orphans, or the homeless.

I need two daughters O!
And Gods willing two sons

christopher123:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thenewsnigeria.com.ng/2017/03/06/suitors-now-prefer-our-maids-to-our-daughters/amp/

B4 nko

The truth is most of these madam pikins can not last five years in their matrimonial homes that's why there are so many single mothers on the street today trying so hard to snatch peoples husbands.

chinchonglee:
Knowing how to cook and clean to me can never be a criteria to marry a girl.
What turns me on is smartness!

Have you heard the saying...The way to a man's heart is his stomach?