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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by sodiamond: 5:36am On Jan 17, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
Since you now know what she'll do and don't like it, you'll just have to make sure robbers don't get to her, don't you? If after defending with all your power they do go through you and get to her, it shouldn't worry you then because you'll be dead. Just make sure it happens over your dead body. That is a non negotiable duty that a husband has to his wife.
Pls borrow me your sense grin.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by bluefilm: 5:42am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Chai... Bros you can lie for Africa o!
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by letitrainnow(m): 5:57am On Jan 17, 2021
God knows best.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by chidiebere123(m): 6:00am On Jan 17, 2021
Righteousness2:
Beware of what you think or imagine!
As a Man thinks in his heart , so is he..



True talk bro

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Forreellinc: 6:02am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?
E better make e die o, it's not easy leaving with the trauma
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by samx4real(m): 6:03am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Her comment shows that she is cheap and petty, but you don't have to it personal.

Is just her own opinion.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by GhostWisperer: 6:08am On Jan 17, 2021
Both you and your wife are stupid....

And Nairaland isn't the place for mature or reasonable advice.. way too many shallow kids here.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Map1(m): 6:12am On Jan 17, 2021
CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.in a situation like that if she die,she die for nothing,I don't know why we always see every problem as a problem,I always love a real women not a pretender

Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by ugofulfilled(m): 6:14am On Jan 17, 2021
ubola:
You are myopic in your reasoning. You live to fight another day. A lady in my neighborhood was hacked to death for refusing to let go her iPhone in a robbery situation. She died and the phone was still taken, now how do you justify this.

This scenario is different from the one under discourse.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Kakamorufu(m): 6:15am On Jan 17, 2021
there are things one doesn't need to say out. it's better to keep mute than spit shii

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by testimony1089(m): 6:21am On Jan 17, 2021
Some people are too weak for marriage walahi! Small issue that u are expected to solve jokingly with ur wife, u are now bringing it to whole wide world looking for solution? Pls my brother ur family need u to man up not this feeble minded Sapien. Ur wife was just being honest and clean with u with her survival instincts. It's just a bitter truth u have to take and be a man bro. Don't allow ur thoughts to create a big problem out of nothing for u...

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Ghidey(m): 6:21am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Your wife loves herself and all around her including you but you hate your wife and wish her death.
would you prefer death if you or your sister were in such situation?

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 6:23am On Jan 17, 2021
dearygally:

Avengers madam...so you can console her husband who will then be a widower... slowly you will nah become the new wife.

Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Fiscus105(m): 6:25am On Jan 17, 2021
rooftops:
..it is really easy to say she is a hero, can you do such.


So many unguarded utterances are destroying marriages, even if she would do it, she shouldn't have said it expressly, not even when her husband doesn't ask her opinion about the issue.

Such wife will open leg for other man with any issues far far lesser than the scene they watched on film

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by NairaMaster1(m): 6:29am On Jan 17, 2021
MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
grin
Chill Bros. Assuming it's reversed and you were in such life and death situation and you have seen this criminals kill someone who resisted, will you resist too? I bet your answer is NO.
Stop being petty abeg. Go find better thing use your time do before your wife see you finish. cheesy grin

She would have kept it to herself. I know you understand the concept of "if you want to live long keep your mouth shot"

If I am pointed gun to make love to my daughter I would rather die.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Eje2019: 6:29am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?
Your wife is rightly wrong�
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by jpaulin: 6:30am On Jan 17, 2021
CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Uncle you don’t say such, what you have just said is dumb. If you don’t have anything to say just move.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by humblemikel(f): 6:31am On Jan 17, 2021
CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.


Shut up there...
Will you die for your virgina to stay alive?
Abi will the husband die if the ball was in his court.?
No one prays for such nightmares
So don't come here to condemn someone's wife to feel good about yourself.
God forbid, if this happens to you, they robbers won't even ask twice and you have already succumb.
Nobody prays for bad thing.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by firstladyp4(f): 6:31am On Jan 17, 2021
Abeg leave that thing, who dying a hero help? Highest they will talk about her one week case close and the man go marry another wife life continued person wey die don die leave children behind. She talk her mind abeg.
CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Pharaoh4rin(m): 6:43am On Jan 17, 2021
chaloskyx:
HMM SHE MUST LOVE HEFTY DUDES LOL PROBABLY ONE OF HER BDMN FANTASIES

Your head dey there
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Princeofasia: 6:44am On Jan 17, 2021
if robbers come to rob me and they want to Bleep my wife or kill her ant everyone, i will slap her if she says no. i will tell her to ask them to use condom. she can suck their preek as they like and save her life abeg. some people dont just hve sense. sex is too overrated
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 6:44am On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


And who told you rape is pleasure? Forceful sex with six guys can never be pleasurable, stop using porn to judge. Men who rape are hardly 40 secs men, most take drugs before embanking on that journey. And fvcking a woman without getting her in the mood will hurt and bruise her insides. Now imagine that happening over and over again until they sixth person
She would get medical treatment nd d pain would go, wouldnt it?
ask 4 getting shot nd dieing, she dies forever.
what if she had kids huh, would she just make dat decision to die leaving d kids all alone; in a situation where she's a single mom.
Lets be realistic, it's a robbery i.e a get in, get out fast job. They wouldnt want to stay long on d pussy nd i'm pretty sure all six of them wouldnt last up to an hour.

It's still nt worth getting killed for.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by AKWATGOLD1(m): 6:47am On Jan 17, 2021
She belongs to the "Cheerful Giver Association of Women"
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by desthan(m): 6:49am On Jan 17, 2021
Well, I think your wife was been in-sensitive to say she died for nothing just because she believe that if she had given up her pussy, it could have save her life.

Robbery situation are always un-predictable. She could still loose her life even after allowing them have her way. There was no need for your wife to rub it on her as she never asked to be robbed/raped or dead.

People should always be sensitive before making comments like that of your wife, and always pray you do not experience such till your time on earth is over.

A wise man would says, you would never know if you are saying the right thing or making the right decision until a particular scenario plays itself out.

Be guided folks as talk is always cheap.

No be every matter dem dey yarn, e get y undecided

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:58am On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


I'll rather die than go through that ordeal. One guy, maybe, anything higher than that, I'll choose death.

Don't tell me as the husband, that you will look at her the same way after the rape? That you won't look at her everyday and not remember this event? That she can move on with her life happily after this event?



I'd absolutely not put the blame on her for being raped at gun point, I'd help for medical attention and and make sure she's mentally good and she would continue to be my wife and I would never let the rape come in between us because it's totally not her fault, death doesn't do you any good

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by femi4: 6:58am On Jan 17, 2021
Rape victims are still getting married, achieving their goals after the unfortunate incident.

It only make sense to grab the opportunity to live another day if it's presented to you at the point of death
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Agugbadin: 6:59am On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

A recent report I saw revealed that 62% of married Nigerian women are likely to cheat in the marriages. The highest in the world.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by franugo(m): 7:01am On Jan 17, 2021
Righteousness2:
Beware of what you think or imagine!
As a Man thinks in his heart , so is he..

How does this Bible chapter relate to the op?
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by franugo(m): 7:04am On Jan 17, 2021
Heartdanny:
So you would want her to resist them and die? kwata kwata 6months you don marry another wife and soon we will be hearing "stepmother poured hot water on a child of 10yrs and the father joined in beating the child"

No be kpata kpata again?? grin
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by adeadeyera(m): 7:04am On Jan 17, 2021
drizzypat:
you really don't have to go harsh on him.. He's jst asking doesn't it feel off?

Is everything OK at home?
Was I harsh on him?
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by franugo(m): 7:06am On Jan 17, 2021
VictorUSA:
That's nothing 2 worry about.But make sure u investigate whether she has a side boo.Maybe 1 day she wee ask him 2 come as a robber and then demand 4 that apple wey na only u suppose chop.she go pretend say na rape.shine ur eyes, be wise,be smart.

This is the second most useless comment so far... grin after righteousness of course cheesy

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