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Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:41am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Enugupikin: Marriage is just a form of interpersonal relationship. You don't need to be married to give counsel. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by BluntTheApostle(m): 11:01am On Jan 21, 2021 |
Onyxunlimited: I wanted to disagree with your first post but when I read the example of the maid that you shared in this post, it made me remember a story that I read when I was a little boy. Now, I agree that you are right. But still, children that are well brought up should not have a problem washing the car of a man they know is their father. That is where the problem lies. My dad was not always around when I was growing up. Then to make matters worse, I went to a boarding school for 6 years, and only my mother used to come on visiting days because my dad was either busy at work or out of the state entirely. But still, dem no born me well to disrespect my dad. Even now that I am over 30 years, I don't think I can see my father washing his car and I will be comfortable lying down in a room. I just can't imagine it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by MummyD2020(f): 12:33pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Be wise. When d whole saga turns on you, u will now know that u were formerly intruding |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by brandmix: 12:34pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: Aunty focus on the issue period. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by MummyD2020(f): 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
iInjureHerYansh: See mumu. U wont contribute but will insult someone u probably can never stand one on one. bitches like ur mum |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by iInjureHerYansh: 1:48pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
MummyD2020:The last time I checked I never quoted an untrained ho 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Ufuka: 1:53pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
I don't really understand why people can't call a spade a spade, the wife is the root cause of all the problem, the wife doesn't have any respect for the husband and she encourages the children to follow suit. The man need to stand firm as the head of the family and discipline the wife and his children properly when need arises or else he will continue being a house boy in his house. It's the responsibility of the father to cater for his family, also respect from his children and wife isn't negotiable. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by MummyD2020(f): 1:57pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Tap0lane: Can u guys desist from insulting people? What is it in disagreeing and moving on? Must it come down to insulting someone u have not even met before? But when u all go to work, u respect ur bosses like hes god. Yes hes view is poor to u. Free him! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by MummyD2020(f): 1:58pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
iInjureHerYansh: U are the untrained bastard born by a LovePeddler and whose dad is mentally deranged |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by GetMeRight: 5:07pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Romanoff: Yeah, until one partner decides to off the other partner. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by dbestuncle: 5:46pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Omojesu, you should advice your brother to pray very well and try to amend his ways. from your story he has not played his part well as a husband and father. Being a father is not just about provision of money and basic needs but also includes discipline. How can u earn 300k per month n be paying 200k school fees per child per term omojesu202: |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by dbestuncle: 5:48pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
omojesu202: |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Arsenate(m): 6:16pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
Guys let's learn from this thread. Very important we invest in ourselves first. Ensure you are financially sound at old age because, as you can see from this thread, no matter what you do for your family, your wife can just up and turn your children against you and a bunch of strangers on social media will still find a way to blame you (some bonding bullshhitt and all). Just send your kids to decent enough schools, none of this posh bullshhit schools. Save as much as you can for your old age. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by iInjureHerYansh: 7:04pm On Jan 21, 2021 |
MummyD2020:I don't talk to single moms Ciao |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 8:32am On Jan 22, 2021 |
IbnBattuta1960:Your last statement enough advice for the wise |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 8:34am On Jan 22, 2021 |
omojesu202:Know this and sleep well |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 9:12am On Jan 22, 2021 |
omojesu202:To be honest I will not have 2 grow up boys and be washing my car, I used to wash My dad car everyday in the morning before going to work. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 9:14am On Jan 22, 2021 |
[quote author=Biglittlelois post=98227599] And if eventually the child isn't there at old age, who will you fall back on? Since you care less about your wife? Who will allow a divorce woman to take care of him in old age tufiakwa!! To poison me |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 9:30am On Jan 22, 2021 |
rawitools:Haha in this cold harmattan Abi
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Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Hassanmaye(m): 9:35am On Jan 22, 2021 |
luminouz:You have nail it, |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Ubenedictus(m): 10:02am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin:please who concluded this? rev. Frs. as still licensed marriage counselors till today. so who told you this abeg? |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by Shizzyguy: 4:40pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Men should get more involved. Our role is more than just bringing money to the table. No woman can turn your children against you if you are involved. There are activities that I do alone with my son, I attend his school PTA meetings (since I have been going, just one other man has attended), I sometimes go to pick him up from school. When he started talking, I was the first person that was able to understand what he was saying. He usually stays with me in the evenings till it is time for him to go to bed. It didn't start that way though, I used to travel a lot, sometimes away for months but one of those times I came back home, I noticed a lot of things I thing like and felt were not right so had to cut back on my traveling and thankfully I was able to convince my boss at the time to allow me work 50% remotely. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by srrrr(m): 10:18pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Lordswazz:. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by poik(m): 8:26am On Jan 27, 2021 |
boldx: I do not know your orientation, but i dont agree with you sir. Having a 20 year old boy in the house and washing a car by myself is not normal please. Its not even something you should say proudly publicly. There is a problem. |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by poik(m): 8:35am On Jan 27, 2021 |
srrrr: Sir, when we make assertions like this, let us be considerate and empathetic. How would the man have been able to afford 600k per year on school fees alone if he didnt make sacrifices which included possibly being away from home for some time? Now that the wind is a bit gone from his sail, look at the result. David as at the time of approaching Goliath was barely 19. There are teens foraging a life for themselves in the streets legitimately without parents. A child not having independent sense is not something to be supported or condoned. As long as there was no infidelity in the picture, the wife should be understanding abeg. Inciting children against a parent is bad. Very bad! |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by MummyD2020(f): 10:28am On Jan 27, 2021 |
iInjureHerYansh:Clueless |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by srrrr(m): 11:55am On Jan 27, 2021 |
poik: . 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by ndbros4justice: 10:07pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Reminds me of a family member who his wife turned his wife and kids against him. Man was denied sex for 16years. Pastors and family elders came to resolve the issue yet the woman was adamant. To the extent the case went to court and they were divorced yet the man didn't want his wife and children to be homeless. They stayed around yet teamed up with their mother to fight their father. Even his last daughter who the court instructed should stay with him while the wife and older children leaves was whisked away to a relatives place courtesy of the first daughter. The only person who was kind of close to him was his second son who lived far away from him for a long time. When his second son came back he was happy to display his second son as his son, few weeks later he died. Infidelity can make a woman toughen her mind against her husband especially if he's not strong willed. A man who isn't strong willed and decisive is almost always taken for granted by any woman. I have learnt that from observation. |
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