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My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Don't blame her. She is avoiding temptation. Or she don't want you to find out that she is very wild down there. Just Saying

My brothers should we tell him?

But some churches rules about dating and courtship shall.
What of if the lady in question does not know how to cook or do other important house chores.

Please give her everything, since she has accepted to marry you. You should not put limit to any thing you will do for her, sell the phone u used to type this epistle and give it to her. You are her helper beo

Don't be surprised she has a nigga somewhere
that is giving it to her steady.

Your job is to buy her gifts and send her money, while the other guy's job is to smash her.

Be wise, guys. Don't spend a dime on any woman you're not yet married to.
I cum in piss

Boss spend on her
You will harvest the fruits of your labour soonest

Don't hear won't haters are saying
They are Jealous

Continue being a perfect Gentleman
You such an inspiration

I can bet my balls that your girl has a side nigga and she probably spends the money you give her on him.

She needs 50k to register carry over courses and she didn't ask her parents but she asked you.

My guy she is just using you to fund her lifestyle

Goodluck ಠಗಠ

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

my brother let him learn by himself

Emecson:
my brother let him learn by himself

my brother OK. We keep shut then!

Komu1048:
Please give her everything, since she has accepted to marry you. You should not put limit to any thing you will do for her, sell the phone u used to type this epistle and give it to her. You are her helper beo

Take this advice ops,

Deeper life is sister,
Sister life is deeper...

Akaraks111:
I just finish knacking someone’s girl just now. If you live around Mr Bode street. Surulere. Kike is her name. I just finished bleeping the hell out of her now. Her Dad is a pastor in Gospel Faith Mission Church.

Wtf, na my church be that na

I won't be surprise if she's a chorister sef

Babara1994:
Don't be surprised she has a nigga somewhere
that is giving it to her steady.

Your job is to buy her gifts and send her money, while the other guy's job is to smash her.

Be wise, guys. Don't spend a dime on any woman you're not yet married to.
I cum in piss

lolz, iwas just thinking, a jobless area boy with extra energy or one in her compound/school is making her sing notes.

https://sendvid.com/g22r8wyj

So her parent can not afford N 50k.

My only concern is, she'll eventually become your responsibility when you guy's marry.

Are you sure you can cater for two in this Buhari economy?

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

please do

Pls tell him

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

No sir!

U're the one wearing the shoe so u know where it pinches you.

Boss spend on herYou will harvest the fruits of your labour soonestDon't hear won't haters are sayingThey are JealousContinue being a perfect Gentleman You such an inspiration

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.
I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have see each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.
The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excused. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.
She begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet marry. in fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are not yet to marry.

Note, we are getting marry this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

what do you advice me to do.

If she's having all these excuses sounds to me she just wants things from you.

1. Seems like you want a prostitution relationship.

2. Say no to childish relationships in 2021.

You want to marry someone this year and she hasnt known your house? that doesnt make sense...... na so people dey enter one chance marriage.
what if this op has some demi gods and all sorts in his house. I understand the girls stands but the op already suggested that she comes with her sisters or friends... isn't that fair enough?

op no worry, her pastors would comman check the house on her behalf sha.

Op, you no get common sense.

I command sense into your coconut head.

Take it...

orisunmibare01:
You want to marry someone this year and she hasnt known your house? that doesnt make sense...... na so people dey enter one chance marriage.
what if this op has some demi gods and all sorts in his house. I understand the girls stands but the op already suggested that she comes with her sisters or friends... isn't that fair enough?

op no worry, her pastors would comman check the house on her behalf sha.

Lols, I mean if they have ground rules in the church, and equally in the relationship for no sex, then coming with her sister's is the best course of action. Her excuse is no carry weight.

NipseyHustle:
Op, you no get common sense.

I command sense into your coconut head.

Take it...

my brother I wow are you commenting from heaven? Rip bro!

Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

And she no be deeper life mind you. She's not deep. Deeper no dey marry outsider and she dey school too � Na Street oo

Yippeedaniel:
And she no be deeper life mind you. She's not deep. Deeper no dey marry outsider and she dey school too � Na Street oo

You are very wrong on this. Deeper marry from other churches. About 3 of my friends married from there.