Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

You still feel like dumping the thingy? Ok continue. Someone is not proud of you before her ex and here you are asking a dump question. End whatever you have with her right now. By the way, are you of the age of marriage? if not, why a relationship in the first instance? I have constantly advocated that of you don't want to get burnt, don't go close to fire.

Casham:
I am not ugly, I am very dark skinned. I have met girls who laughed at me and swore they can never date a "devil" like me. I have also been 'toasted' by some REALLY BEAUTIFUL Queens who gushed all over me. Believe it or not, but I have been 'raped' by three ladies at once. All I am just saying is, even if you are 'ugly' for real, you can still be attractive to someone who respects you. The chick obviously doesn't respect you or is only tryna scope her way back into the exe's life. She's still in love with the idiot. And you sef, no dey sneak enter people privacy.

gbam. u sayeth my mind. Its was never about the OP.

lefulefu:
ur case just reminded of a girl who mocked her own boyfriend at the barbing saloon i went for a hair cut some few yrs back
she came to charge her phone
was telling the guy cutting my hair how her boyfriend is so caring and he"s the one paying her school fees plus sending her rent money but that the guy is too ugly for her liking and as soon as she finishes from school she would do away with him
from what i see in cases like this most times the ladies are never attracted to the guys and the guys use money and material things to keep the girls in the relationship
i am very sure dats how ur own case is
just dump the girl and try to improve ur appearance
no man is ugly

The barber surely knows the guy, hope he told him. This is the type that will marry a fine guy tomorrow and any small challenge, she will start looking outside. They are as unstable as water. Even if they marry a Mr. Nigeria and Dangote combined, they will still look for one excuse or the other.

U have spoken well my brother

Dliquidmetal:
I think it's most guys that are responsible for this behaviour in some ladies,its stupid trying to hold a girl in a relationship with your money because as for me i see no reason to even date someone who dosent love me from the onset. If babe love you even money go hard her to dey ask you but if she dey demand all the time that's a red flag to me and many other but many chose to ignore this signs and keep wallowing in self denial.

digitalgeorgy:
oga, if you wowo then she is not lying.
console yourself with the caring aspect she spoke about.
abeg no let you wowo nature cause wahala for that fine relationship oo.

Modified...
The quote I've received for this comment is one of the reasons I hardly comment on nairaland.
I have always been told that I am the ugly version of my brothers. Even my gfrnd don tell me that same thing over and over.
I always believe that as far as I hustle hard and make good money, I won't be disrespected because of the looks.
So I have never allowed it affect my emotions or my relationship and I have never opened a thread on nairaland for it.
Please no body should quote me again abeg una...
Me too am ugly...

But on a real, your post was senseless

[quote author=skyreaper post=98449624]Please do, trust me. She doesn't respect you and a lady that don't respect you can't love you.[you have said it all bro op I will advice you do away with her it obvious she is still shagging the Ex and telling her Ex you are ugly is a big red flag bro ]

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

...... If she can tell her ex how ugly her present is, if she can also tell him she finds it difficult kissing you, there's no telling how far she might go..... Quit the relationship bro.... Any relationship that makes you feel bad about yourself is not worth it. If she loves you truly, no matter how you look, you will always be like a king before her..... Go and get someone that appreciates your look..... This one is equal to body shaming...... If na girl them do now, the feminists for naira land go Don begin dey quote laws...... Bros for the sake of your sanity, leave the relationship..... If you no see who date, love yourself...... It's better than being with someone who had the guts to tell her ex u are ugly..... How I wish na her female friend she even tell e for good but her ex?? Its a no no bro

Op I will advice you do away with her it obvious she is still shagging the Ex and telling her Ex you are ugly is a big red flag bro

People are always saying “nobody ugly”, they’re only broke.
Mehn, some people are really ugly.
Look around you’ll see them, rich but looking like shit, but the good thing is that they make up for what they lack in appearance with a loaded bank account.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Aire iUseless...All Of Them

including your sisters...

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

Get rid of her fast, fast

It is that you don't like honest people or what. Yes u ugly, person tell another person say you ugly e come dey pain you. Don't you thing you would have been more pained if she said you are handsome when you yourself know you are ugly?
Calm down jawe. But if you want to dump her, do so and get an ugly babe who wont notice your ugliness because she sees her ugly self in you.
As for me, no one is ugly in this life

lefulefu:
ur case just reminded of a girl who mocked her own boyfriend at the barbing saloon i went for a hair cut some few yrs back
she came to charge her phone
was telling the guy cutting my hair how her boyfriend is so caring and he"s the one paying her school fees plus sending her rent money but that the guy is too ugly for her liking and as soon as she finishes from school she would do away with him
from what i see in cases like this most times the ladies are never attracted to the guys and the guys use money and material things to keep the girls in the relationship
i am very sure dats how ur own case is
just dump the girl and try to improve ur appearance
no man is ugly

He should have uploaded his picture let's see for ourselves.

Dump the hoe ASAP

wany:
handsome

Many girls will tell you that the guy is not handsome, that he looks too serious, that his beard is this, that his lips is that, that he looks bushy, some will complain that the way he carved his eyebrows is this or that, others will say he is short, his chest is too broad, bla bla bla.....you ladies are born to be confused sha no doubt.....only teenage boys worry about their looks cos to most girls, its useless.


Even before Obasanjo became an army general and head of state, I heard that the guy de command beautiful ladies like kilode....that he de even collect people girlfriends even as an ordinary soldier......is Obasanjo that handsome That's to tell you how women reason when it comes to a man's looks....what another lady may term handsome maybe boring and unkempt or tacky for another lady.


Only guys have a standard for measuring a female's physical beauty.....ladies don't have a generally accepted standard for measuring a truly handsome guy, I speak with audacity

Freemasonry:
People are always saying “nobody ugly”, they’re only broke.
Mehn, some people are really ugly.
Look around you’ll see them, rich but looking like shit, but the good thing is that they make up for what they lack in appearance with a loaded bank account.

LOL. Person wey ugly come no get money ontop ugliness e means say wahala dey.

lefulefu:
ur case just reminded of a girl who mocked her own boyfriend at the barbing saloon i went for a hair cut some few yrs back
she came to charge her phone
was telling the guy cutting my hair how her boyfriend is so caring and he"s the one paying her school fees plus sending her rent money but that the guy is too ugly for her liking and as soon as she finishes from school she would do away with him
from what i see in cases like this most times the ladies are never attracted to the guys and the guys use money and material things to keep the girls in the relationship
i am very sure dats how ur own case is
just dump the girl and try to improve ur appearance
no man is ugly

You're right boss, that's what i often advise guys at the initial stage of relationship try not to put money and material things first, and see the way she react.
Most(not all) ladies these days are looking for meal ticket and one who can sponsor their life-style not love or relationship.
She's your girl friend not your wife. You owe her nothing. Even if you want to give her something(money and gift) it should be from your own volition.

We rise by lifting others

digitalgeorgy:
oga, if you wowo then she is not lying.
console yourself with the caring aspect she spoke about.
abeg no let you wowo nature cause wahala for that fine relationship oo.

Modified...
The quote I've received for this comment is one of the reasons I hardly comment on nairaland.
I have always been told that I am the ugly version of my brothers. Even my gfrnd don tell me that same thing over and over.
I always believe that as far as I hustle hard and make good money, I won't be disrespected because of the looks.
So I have never allowed it affect my emotions or my relationship and I have never opened a thread on nairaland for it.
Please no body should quote me again abeg una...
Me too am ugly...

See a certified psychiatrist asap

skyreaper:
Please do, trust me. She doesn't respect you and a lady that don't respect you can't love you.

Respect and Trust is everything in a relationship.....Well said

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

Abeg post your pics lets confirm your true status

Y should she say dt abt u to an Ex,dtz very disrespectful and it also means she is still in love and fucking d Ex and would do dt at d slightest opportunity, imagine she doesn't kiss you and you kept such a girl,a woman can open her legs for you for many reasons but if you want to know if a woman fancies you it is d kissing part,my man dump d girl immediately,don't tell her what you did,these bitches can be crazy(b4 she reports u to police) just tell her she is too ugly for you and then quote exact thing she told d boyfriend abt u

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

Invite her, have rough sex with her then ask her to dress up, pick her things, go and never come back that it's over between you, tell her to go and meet her handsome ex

Sorry bro

you don't have self esteem too because if you'd, a lady comment about your look won't even beat you


if you like be handsome and don't know how to fúck and have kukushi, na one ugliest guy with big gbola go dey sample your woman anyhow


that lady doesn't have any feelings for you, love is in the heart not mostly in the look

LeeSantos:

is his wife complaining he is ugly.?

so u no know say Lara don devorce am carry money run back to cape Verde??
She even take control of the assets wey e got for there

lesson: money can never buy u love. It will get u the prettiest woman but you'll just be like cash-app to her

Nobody is talking about the fact that you hacked into her WhatsApp. Somethings are not meant for your eyes

Send your pic make we see whether you fine...

But man no need fine o if u get better money...

Mann11:

You would rather I crossed an express road with my eyes closed??

Hahaha.. This one na confirm wisdom. Dont let anyone deceive you about privacy bulshit. Any relationship you enter guy do all you can to be ahead. It will save you a lot of time and resources.

LeeSantos:


it will be insane to hack a girl's phone in those developed world cus most of them are true to what they say. they tell you want what they are after, what the want and they let you know the truth why they can't continue. so there wouldn't be any need hacking such girls phone. except only for those who are emotionally and psychologically depressed.

here in Nigeria, it different. my friend drank gf said something when we were together without her boyfriend " I only want his money" I never told my friend until he filled victim and learnt his lesson.

if a girl come to me and truly tell me what's is after. I better I had known so I know if I am capable or not. and not come giving false hopes. and later making me depressed.

You're talking rubbish, if you do that in a foreign country you're getting sued. And what's with the rubbish that white girls don't cheat, your inferiority complex is astounding

hmmmm!

is a good thing that is why you need to avoid boyfriend and girlfriend and give your life to Jesus so that your life can be better and focus on your career

give your life to Jesus.


Jesus save

Freestainworld:
Also chat one of your friends and tell him your girlfriend is not pretty, after that allow her get into your WhatsApp and see it, so she will feel what you just felt.

very smart move...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It is that you don't like honest people or what. Yes u ugly, person tell another person say you ugly e come dey pain you. Don't you thing you would have been more pained if she said you are handsome when you yourself know you are ugly?
Calm down jawe. But if you want to dump her, do so and get an ugly babe who wont notice your ugliness because she sees her ugly self in you.
As for me, no one is ugly in this life

sis how do you advice oga to go ahead dating a girl that admitted that she can't kiss her man?
Yes it's better he leaves her and gets an ugly babe -at least he won't lose his self esteem.