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How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by soulwin4life: 2:35pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times. Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note. As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing. I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am. 510 Likes 44 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by kufman123: 2:54pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Congratulations to you. 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by troublemakea(m): 3:09pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise 100 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by jesusjnr2020(m): 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
troublemakea:It's a good thing you've overcome masturbation but let it not just be about that. Let that be a part of living a life that's submitted to God. A life that seeks to please God and desires to do what God wants. Make it a lifestyle. If you do that, don't worry about what's God's trying to do, because God knows best what He's doing even if you may not understand it. It's for your own good and with time you'd realize it and thank Him for it when you see the results. God bless. 96 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by soulwin4life: 3:37pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
troublemakea: Just keep your faith alive, and avoid watching pornographic films, try as much as possible to fight those evil thought. And last never you listen to those deceiving words telling you that masturbation is not bad, it destroys ones destiny, they may not tell you what they are passing through but sure they are not any way fulfilled. Fight evil thought the way you fight your worst enemy, once you overcome it from your mind every other thing fall in place. 71 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Hmmm 61 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by troublemakea(m): 3:57pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
soulwin4life: jesusjnr2020: jesusjnr2020 that was a soul lifting exaltation thanks n I'm trying I'd say but I feel like the spirit have not left me completely cuz atimes the thought of the feeling flashes everyday and Bfr I know it the urge kinda comes but not as hard as it used to Bfr tho the thing would later die down within minutes How can I help fight the thoughts please bcoz tbh I really can't control it, it just flashes n i feel the urge again tho I try to replace the thought with something else but I do have this fear in me that if not careful I might go back to the act unknowingly 9 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Meedon: 3:59pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Check my latest thread, your problems is solved if you do that. |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by jesusjnr2020(m): 4:37pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
troublemakea:Add some fasting to your prayer bro. Fast to the point where you begin to see significant difference in your feeling, because you have the spiritual potential to overcome it. And fasting if able to help you unlock that potential. After you do, kindly let me know how it goes. God bless. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 4:40pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
PhavesGideon:the meme tho 32 Likes
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Righteousness2(m): 4:42pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Praise GOD! Praise GOD! Praise GOD! God Himself has Delivered you my brother. Masturbation has crippled and is crippling so many people. Masturbation cripples the Spirit of a man. And ones the Spirit man is weak, it affects other areas of life.. 87 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Bola146(f): 4:43pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
The Lord is your strength. He will be your guide and strength. Just be forced! 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by troublemakea(m): 5:01pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
jesusjnr2020: OK what should be my prayer points tho I was asked to do a 3days fasting n prayer this weekend till sunday 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by jesusjnr2020(m): 5:40pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
troublemakea:It's not my style to give prayer points because someone can pray prayer points that come from just his mouth and lips, but not the heart which is what God hears. So I believe that prayer should be spontaneous and emanate from the heart. So what's the desire of your heart? For instance, you want to quit masturbation, so how badly do you want it? Let that be heartily expressed to God. He wants to hear it fresh and sincere from your heart. Anything else you want to say to Him but it's best when you pray according to His Will, because that gives you a better chance of Him answering you. So it's important you know what God Will is, and you can get that from His Word. That should guide you in your prayers to Him. God bless. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by DextrousDavid(m): 6:16pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
soulwin4life: Hallelujah ooo Please keep clinging to God o. The moment one starts giving God less attention, he is bound to go back to his vomit. That will not be our portion in jesus name. Listen to this song; "I won't go back" by William McDowell See you at the top! 17 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by kalu61(m): 6:19pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
What's wrong with African man? Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again. Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc. If you were in America where life is much easier and organized, would you have accused masturbation. Africa and Religion! Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church. Because your fear will always stare at you. 215 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 6:21pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
troublemakea:Hello, the thought will come cause its something you have been doing for long, but when the though comes, brush it off, dont let it sit in your mind for more than 1second, its normal for the thought to come and also the urge but resist it, as time goes on, the urge to masturbate will go completely and you will be free, the sexual demons are working hard for you to fall back, dont let them win. Resist the devil and he will flee from you James 4:7. Normalize fasting, reading the word of God(bible) and singing praises to God, also pray in tongues. It kills the flesh and strengthen your spirit man. Read my posts to see the advice I gave people on how to overcome masturbation. 8 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Nigerians ehn, always looking for what to blame their laziness and lack of goals on. If this one wasn't masturbating I'm sure he'll blame it on his enemies. 119 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Chioma142020(f): 6:34pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
soulwin4life: Good afternoon all, is not only man that masturbate female also does that even more than men sometimes. My little contribution is that. 1. Be prayerful 2. Read your bible regularly 3. Stop watching porn or nude of opposite sex. 4. Don't stay lonely If the above doesn't work for you, my brother/ sister go and marry. Thank you. 16 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by PornLegend: 6:40pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Mr man, masturbation is not your issue You are not serious and your life was unplanned That and you indulged in it in excess I masturbate and my life is fine smh 111 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by HopeVictor: 6:50pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Masturbating can be used to clear the mind sometimes.. doing it in excess is bad..keep your mind busy maybe once in a week you can do it. You are either a masturbator or a fornicator..at least masturbating no dey bring STD 52 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Komu1048(m): 7:20pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
soulwin4life: Congratulations bro, I am very happy for you. But please continue to fill your soul with the word of God, fast a lot and keep praying. There is only one way to stop masturbation and it is in Gal 5:16. I am talking from experience, I will be praying and my mind will be imagining a round unclad a$$, I almost gave up that it’s impossible to stop anymore. Until I started studying the Bible , fasting and ensure I’m filled with the Holy Spirit, keep praying. The request of the Holy Spirit can not be over emphasized in the fight against any form of sexual sin. For over a year now I haven’t engage in any form of sexual sin, i now feel irritated by nudes or the thought of it. So it’s a great achievement bro 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by GuyWise101(m): 8:42pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn People should stop acussing my innocent masturbation.... I had nothing in 2014, I started masturbation in 2015 now I am a millionaire with over 5m in my account and I am 24. That you failed in life is not caused by masturbation because many people are into it and are doing fine and living a happy and stress free life. 87 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by naijadrivablog: 8:46pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Felabrity: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by ipobarethieves: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Felabrity: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Revere27: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Praise God... Hallelujah!! Glory!!! More testimonies shall spring forth for you this February 4 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by superCleanworks(m): 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Hambivert: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
You cannot easily navigate or control the thoughts your mind ponder about, but you can sparogatively control your actions. Control Mr. John Thomas and find yourself 86% closer to controlling anything you set your self to control. Masturbation is never an addiction one can stop with just a decision or prayer. However, It takes a whole lot that might comprise a tough decision and prayers. Anyways, this is not an "aspire to acquire the desire you admire, so that you may be like Maguire before you retire" kind of speech ...but I think joining a support group may really help to motivate those who want to be free from masturbation. 3 Likes |
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by theFilmtric: 10:11pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
PornLegend:www.nairaland.com/attachments/8917487_891073134912jpeg3d447a03b7018767599377a60a70f0ac1_jpeg4eb57de8fb2e1681b1b3aedd4bd5466c You sure your life is fine? Meanwhile to anybody reading this bad things in excess kills,so does good things Nothing in excess is good Always be moderate Extremism(esp.Religious) is the problem of the world today Humanity before religion! keep it Moderate! Peace and have a bueno dia! theFilmtricsay 2 Likes |
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