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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by lagdmark(m): 10:38pm On Feb 02, 2021
OP you never talk true watin they do you.
So masturbation turned your life upside down and money begin vanish from your account.
You better go do therapy naa so the thing they start.
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by LMS1(m): 10:38pm On Feb 02, 2021
GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn


People should stop acussing my innocent masturbation....


I had nothing in 2014, I started masturbation in 2015 now I am a millionaire with over 5m in my account and I am 24.


That you failed in life is not caused by masturbation because many people are into it and are doing fine and living a happy and stress free life.
Oga A Lot Are Inspiring To Be A Millionaire Like U,can U Tell Us How U Keep Your Prick When Mustabating That U Are So Succesful? grin

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 02, 2021
When you're in a shitty country... You blame masturbation for your life being stagnant

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Kingrefreshed: 10:39pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts embarassed

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

Don't rejoice yet! Wait till December 31st 2021. Then you can rejoice. Spirit of Masturbation is more stubborn than Boko Haram!
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by KanuSE: 10:40pm On Feb 02, 2021
seanwilliam:
With people like this , Nigeria can never move forward .. imagine someone saying mastubation deh make money disappear for him hand .. hahah rubbish

Lol cheesy ... Nigerians.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by MrCuteking(m): 10:40pm On Feb 02, 2021
No news again on nairaland. A recycling of the old book

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Godblessaplus1(m): 10:40pm On Feb 02, 2021
Chioma142020:


Good afternoon all, is not only man that masturbate female also does that even more than men sometimes. My little contribution is that.
1. Be prayerful
2. Read your bible regularly
3. Stop watching porn or nude of opposite sex.
4. Don't stay lonely
If the above doesn't work for you, my brother/ sister *go and marry.
Thank you.*
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by humilitypays(m): 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2021
The truth is, majority of Africans don't have sense. Black Africans are just too daft, no wonder they remain the lowest of low among all races of the world.

Masturbation is a sin in Christianity, yes we know. If you are a Christian, it is good to live a righteous life in other to have close relationship with God. But living a righteous life or being a righteous person does not expressly mean you will be rich and successful financially, nope. There are millions if not billions of poor righteous people all over the world.


The laws of financial riches is different. Whether you are a pagan, an atheist, a Buddhist, an Hindu, a Muslim or Christian, so long as you practice the principles of making money, by providing values and solutions to the society, you will be financially successful. Your living a righteous life is for your personal salvation not for you to become rich.

Masturbation is never the reason anybody is poor or jobless or struggling with life. Nigeria have no jobs, the available jobs are underpaid jobs. So if you live in Nigeria, your chances of becoming financially free is limited by virtue of your location. This has nothing to do with Masturbation.


Masturbation is not the only sin we commit daily. We fornicate, we lie, we deceive others, we hate, we backstab, we mock and bully and envy others.....we steal at our workplaces, we steal from societies we belong, we inflate prices, so tell me how it's only Masturbation that make only black Africans poor and unemployed


Blame your failed past and present corrupt governments that destroyed Nigeria.


Americans are among the richest people on earth, they have the highest number of billionaires and even good paying jobs for their citizens, but do you also know that Americans masturbate, fornicate and do all sorts of filthy sexual activities from gay to transgender to incest yet they are materially blessed with good things of this world.


Same Nigerian person complaining of evil spirits holding him down and preventing him from getting a good job or buying a car, the moment he leaves Nigeria and enter US, he gets a good job and buy a car and start to live a good life and may even start committing more sexual immoralities while in the US than when he was in Nigeria yet he or she will still be progressing.


Nigerians please fix your country, hold your foolish leaders accountable. Stop worshipping God just because you want money, good job, best wife, best husband, etc. Worship God because you love and cherish God for who He is, not because of the things you want God to do for you.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Silentgroper(m): 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts embarassed

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise
If God did all of these to u, i wonder what he would've done if u had engaged in fornication.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:45pm On Feb 02, 2021
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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Dagrace01(m): 10:48pm On Feb 02, 2021
I don't think masturbation have anything to do with success in one's life..
Though it has its own side effects, but for me it has nothing to do with our spiritual life..
You'll be marveled with the percentage of people masturbating in world's population..
Many are wealthy, rich, comfortable or doing well..
Many are managing, trying, poor or wretched..
It's just about fate, one's time to make it and destiny..
Many people dey soapy oooo, even people u won't believe can do so..
Keep praying for breakthrough and success but don't attach it with Masturbation, don't enslave yourself in that thought, pick up the mantle, focus more on ur vision, diversify and things will come in place..
#Bleesup

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by deavicky(m): 10:48pm On Feb 02, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
It's a good thing you've overcome masturbation but let it not just be about that. Let that be a part of living a life that's submitted to God. A life that seeks to please God and desires to do what God wants. Make it a lifestyle.

If you do that, don't worry about what's God's trying to do, because God knows best what He's doing even if you may not understand it. It's for your own good and with time you'd realize it and thank Him for it when you see the results.

God bless.
I'm not trying to support masturbation or anyway trying to encourage anyone into indulging into the act of masturbation, I'm just concerned with the part that u believe masturbation is responsible for you not Progressing(I'm sure some masturbator even gays progresses). So that may not be true. And also God will not punish you after you have accepted him, so the aspect of God punishing u is also not true. Things has really changed in christianity this days if not the only reason why we should come to God is to redeem our soul and create peace with him to grant us internal life." Salvation ". For ur progress just change ur orientation and also look for something different from what you've been doing, as God is with you now things will surely change for the better.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by KanuSE: 10:49pm On Feb 02, 2021
sayittome:

Some tears ago, I was so honey. Guy any babe I see na so Konji dey hold me. Na so I begin to pray dey tell baba God Say make him help me. In fact, I go tell baba God Say Konji dey hold me o and if Him no help me, I go Bleep anybody that come across my way. Guy I dey God exactly as my body dey do me. I no shame o. Na so God take help. In fact e get one day one babe come dey inside room. Guy this girl remove everything come dey play with me. Guy my dick no gree stand o. Na since that time I begin fear God n respect prayer. As soon as I Waka comot from d babe room, na him God to me say I don overcome. That was the first time I hear d voice of God

I hear you..

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Tonyspecial(m): 10:49pm On Feb 02, 2021
God please help me out, I'm also a victim of the situation

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sheddyboy01(m): 10:49pm On Feb 02, 2021
For me, meditation did the magic, it's really a game changer, i breaks habits with ease

Go to YouTube search for meditation video

Look for messages by Dandapani, he explains it more
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sltn(m): 10:50pm On Feb 02, 2021
Damn this dawg! Not every day you beg for sex from those silly bitches man. Why everybody belive that masturbation is a sin! damn! Okay just to make my mind free from some sh!t bothering my soul is a sin! Smh.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by FKMagazine(m): 10:50pm On Feb 02, 2021
soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.



Great feat
All Glory To God
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by dantrillion: 10:51pm On Feb 02, 2021
GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnn


People should stop acussing my innocent masturbation....


I had nothing in 2014, I started masturbation in 2015 now I am a millionaire with over 5m in my account and I am 24.


That you failed in life is not caused by masturbation because many people are into it and are doing fine and living a happy and stress free life.


Bros when next you dey blow lies, try cover your mouth thanks.
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:51pm On Feb 02, 2021
Cool

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 10:51pm On Feb 02, 2021
Nonsense story. People masturbate and still win betnaija so what are you saying?

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by KanuSE: 10:52pm On Feb 02, 2021
Dagrace01:
I don't think masturbation have anything to do with success in one's life..
Though it has its own side effects, but for me it has nothing to do with our spiritual life..
You'll be marveled with the percentage of people masturbating in world's population..
Many are wealthy, rich, comfortable or doing well..
Many are managing, trying, poor or wretched..
It's just about fate, one's time to make it and destiny..
Many people dey soapy oooo, even people u won't believe can do so..
Keep praying for breakthrough and success but don't attach it with Masturbation, don't enslave yourself in that thought, pick up the mantle, focus more on ur vision, diversify and things will come in place..
#Bleesup

@bolded, what are the side effects of masturbation?

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by TripleAkutigi: 10:53pm On Feb 02, 2021
Sorry 🙇 Man 👨‍✈️!
It's a disturb to Me too.
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by NnamdiChidi(m): 10:53pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:


jesusjnr2020 that was a soul lifting exaltation thanks n I'm trying I'd say but I feel like the spirit have not left me completely cuz atimes the thought of the feeling flashes everyday and Bfr I know it the urge kinda comes but not as hard as it used to Bfr tho the thing would later die down within minutes

How can I help fight the thoughts please bcoz tbh I really can't control it, it just flashes n i feel the urge again tho I try to replace the thought with something else but I do have this fear in me that if not careful I might go back to the act unknowingly Go n marry,anytime such thoughts comes to ur mind,just make love to ur wife

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by OyinO: 10:54pm On Feb 02, 2021
ANYTHING done in excess will SURELY TURN YOUR LIFE UPSIDE DOWN. Sugar is sweet but when consumed in excess will turn your life upside down.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by pegix(m): 10:55pm On Feb 02, 2021
Africans with their belief in all sorts of spiritism, necromancy, diabolism, occultism, telephatic transmission,sorcery, invisibility

Why should u relate masturbation to ur life?? shocked

Thing wey scientists say e fit help.improve health fa

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by KanuSE: 10:56pm On Feb 02, 2021
Klechman:
Hey how did you really do it
What you went through is exactly what am going through now
I really need help


Get busy and masturbation wouldn't be an issue.

Don't be lazy.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:59pm On Feb 02, 2021
Tonyspecial:
God please help me out, I'm also a victim of the situation
Don't worry ur self Bro. Just pray, God go remove am. I for talk one thing na, but make I stop for here
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Gabson001(m): 11:00pm On Feb 02, 2021
HopeVictor:
Masturbating can be used to clear the mind sometimes.. doing it in excess is bad..keep your mind busy maybe once in a week you can do it. You are either a masturbator or a fornicator..at least masturbating no dey bring STD

keep quiet jare

whatever you believe is what works for you
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by justli: 11:01pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts embarassed

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

The most powerful word, for me, in the Bible is, "He who the son sets free is free indeed"

Those words powerful as they are real. If the Lord heals you, he has. But recognize it isn't will power. It's about realizing the powerlessness of will power in this, and resigning to faith in the cleansing power of the lamb.
He will heal you. You will see porn and walk away as it will disgust you. You will not have to fight it anymore. But you have to be wise to flee immorality and such scenes and not tempt the devil
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Feggie3: 11:04pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts embarassed

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise
The stupid thing about Nigerians is that they will demonize masturbation and embrace fornication with full force as a form of healing process or rehabilitation against addiction for masturbation. The madness in this country is beyond any human's comprehension.

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Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by malakaimoscondo: 11:04pm On Feb 02, 2021
Meedon:
Check my latest thread, your problems is solved if you do that.
how do I go about it sir if I wanna check ur latest thread?

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