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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HWY60FxUpng

Aisha Yesufu, a Nigerian human rights activist, says she was the one who asked Aliu, her husband, out before they got along and eventually married.

She brought the revelation to light in an interview with BBC Pidgin while reflecting on her growing up, marriage as well as her personality.

Aisha said her penchant for being in control of happenings around her made it easy for her to initiate the relationship.

“The way I met my husband is a long story. I was the one who asked him out. I arranged it so he can see me as a wife since he wasn’t seeing me as a wife. He would tell you I don’t behave like a wife,” she said.

The co-convener of the Bring Back Our Girls (BBOG) campaign urged women to ditch the mentality that men should always be the ones to initiate a relationship.

“It amuses me when l see women approaching 30 or 40 years old claiming they don’t have any man asking them out. They should go out and look for men of their choice, initiate the relationship and marry them,” she added.

“One advice l would give to young women is that they should stop waiting for men to come and propose to them. They too can do the same.”

The activist also revealed that she’s always ready to satisfy her husband’s sexual fantasies, citing the night of their wedding as an instance.

“One thing my husband would always say is that no time he comes that I tell him no. You know I am an Edo woman, we have to do it,” she said.

“On our wedding night, I told my husband that anyhow you want it, ask me. Any fantasy you have, I am available because that is my primary job, I do not delegate it. Every other thing I delegate but for that one work, I do not joke about it."

https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/aisha-yesufu-i-wooed-my-husband/

Whaay if he discovers that the place has turned to Kanji DAM nko

Walahi , the children of nowadays only snap their kpekus and send it online for money instead of marriage

Good mindset, even better mentality.

Omo see level.

Simply put - a brilliant mind and a balanced thinking.

Amaka Like pple

They can knack their life away

I just hope say Toto no go kee them for that place



But this lady is just an hardworking woman... beta person

Sex is sweet!!

I can only imagine him asking for anal sex.

I'm having a feeling this woman would be a good wife ooooh who can cook and can do



BelieveMe

If only most women would be submissive like her and be bold enough to approach any man they desire.

when you sprinkle some things like education, exposure, family background, and life experience to religion, you will get different results. The difference this woman has is because of her Edo background and level of exposure. No typical arewa lady would ever say this publicly.

Btw, the day I saw an urhobo muslim girl in Kano, i almost fainted.

A balanced woman .....not the stereotype naija ladies.

"If I talk to him first, he will think that I m cheap"

Then, you don't know your worth. You lack identity

DTS nicee but me i don't know why I no de ever serious with any bea wey toast me..

I'm having a feeling this woman would be a good wife ooooh who can cook and can do BelieveMe

My kind of woman - a go-getter who can dare. Very open to trying new things. Someone who goes on to grab what she wants but respects and submits to her guy.

MickzyDonald:
Whaay if he discovers that the place has turned to Kanji DAM nko

shut up

...This is the thing that 95%-98% of women do in their nuptial night
I don't know why yours is being trumpeted to the world abi after that you been go on protest poor man

This girli loves attention

Woman with better brain. She made used of her upper million to grab the man

Money minded!


In essence, our ladies should start wooing guys.

Mi guys, visit my siggy and learn how to make over 2k daily for yourself, before one small girl go come tell you nonsense because of see finish!

Werey.. why are u telling us

Too many information madam, we don't need to know please, is of no use to us,

NEXT PLEASE

Who cares

Ok

Na so e suppose be

This one get sense.

Nothing that i hate like a woman denying the husband sex.

Even my sister should not do it, especially if the man is good.

See as this woman dey fall her husband hands, she even get mind dey tell us say she be tigeress for bed matics.

It worked for you doesn’t mean it will also work for me