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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:12am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:What is right is to condemn such evil acts. Not to justify it! There is a reason Nigeria is one of the top unsafe countries to live in. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by MartinsD12(m): 9:17am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:If one should have a boyfriend she should be able to expect things that comes with it, human beings are unpredictable, but my point is she invited her own problem she should bear the consequences of her actions it's very clear to understand. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:18am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Guess we will never know. As to your comments, it's obvious you only want to fault the lady without condemning the evil act...there is a term for such people; Rape apologists. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 9:23am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:For how long have people been condemning...eh? Till tomorrow people condemn, but there are still rape victims. Insteady of condemning why not change the strategy of how people date and conduct themselves? Why not change the value system on which our women and men place on alcohol and sex...? If all these things are done, I am sure cases like these will be unheard of |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Roddd(m): 9:25am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy: Yeah! See how a lady diagnosed with cancer got help from redditers 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:26am On Feb 08, 2021 |
MartinsD12:The trust issue should not exist normally, it's just how rotten this world has become. Bearing the consequence is really not as easy as said..the aftermath makes some to loose the will to live. Betrayal itself hurts talkless of the eventual rape. I hope she finds the healing she needs if she was truly raped. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 9:26am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:You kind has been condemning since the act of rape began but what has it achieved? Nothing. So why not change the strategy of how people conduct themselves when dating? Why not tell a woman not drink...why not give godly counsel of how courtship is done. Or is there anything wrong in doing that? |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by rita25(f): 9:27am On Feb 08, 2021 |
go and do STD test pray you aint HIV positive then take postinor 2 to avoid pregnancy then DUMP his sorry ass if you are hiv negative and then from henceforth only start dating rich boy who will rape you in dubai and still buy you gift...BUT if you are HIV POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont breakup i repeat dont breakup stick to him but sleep with his dad brother and sisters boyfriend ...nobody has monopoly of been EVIL |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Rocktation(f): 9:29am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy: But why do you even bother with that dude? Anyone can see that he's either being very immature or is in fact, a kid. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Maobichek: 9:33am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999: Good morning, I carefully read your story and I understand clearly how you feel, I sent you a mail, reply and I will advice you specifically on what to do. ignore ppl mocking and taunting you, DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE, it won't help you , your family , love one etc, thank you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by adebayo10977(m): 9:34am On Feb 08, 2021 |
richmond500: Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that. So street touts are also useful and essential..... But what if they lynched the guy at the end because they do over react to issue......... |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:34am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Where did you keep this before True though. It's exactly what I have been trying to point out. When the misplaced value placed on sex is fixed, visiting one's boyfriend/girlfriend will never result to a traumatic experience as it does in this age. It's a country full of corrupted minds, rotten system and misplaced priorities. But then, I will never blame the op while overlooking the guy's evil action. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by vincentjk(m): 9:36am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Liposure: Something like that. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by lovchalice(f): 9:36am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Don't listen to all these nonsense boys here on NL First thing is to take a contraceptive to prevent unwanted pregnancy Secondly pray seriously that he should not infect you with any disease Thirdly cut any communication with the coward Lastly stay strong, move on with your life, better days ahead You will be fine You will find love and a genuine man I did after being abused and abandoned with pregnancy. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by MartinsD12(m): 9:39am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:There is no trust in relationship nowadays, even some married couples don't trust themselves talk less of boyfriend, girlfriend that kind of relationship shouldn't be trusted at all, it's just a play ground with people with their intentions and needs to they want to be fulfilled, majority of girls having boyfriend these days are for the guys to pay their bills and majority of guys having girlfriend is just for sexual needs it's a trade by barter so she shouldn't be surprised the guy got what he wanted that's why I say it's a play ground, am sure the guy is spending on her and she said she plan giving him sex, it's very funny I don't know her age but sex it's not something you plan giving one infact it's a natural thing that can happen anywhere there is no planning there. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by tymicjay77: 9:40am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999: That is a sad incident u have faced, but there nothing much to do about it than to abstain from the guy.. if you are thinking of arresting him, also remember you need concrete evidence to support your claim. But I will advise you let go and try not to trust a guy easily. A real guy will not pick offence if u try to prove difficult in getting. So make your game tight next time while you also watch out for a genuine love... Get over it and be strong |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by RRodwave(m): 9:45am On Feb 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by AbujaCitiBlog: 9:45am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999:Why should you loose the will to live over sex? Women should be calming down. Sex is not the end of the world. Be sure first, that you were raped. Bottle of wine was obviously cocked, at what point did he slip in the drugs. I suspect that both of you got drunk and had sex, but you in typical slay Queen fashion wants to make some money off him due to nefarious advice from your colleagues. Leave the man alone, become a lesbian. Let's hear word. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Aabheaven(m): 9:47am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Queenslander:define rape, rape is sex without consent. So what does aunties are doing is not rape really? By the way who told you young men don't get raped that men dont speak up doesn't mean it does not happen. As a learned fellow, u can ask Google about stories of male rape victims in other to be enlightened. Don't be arrogantly confident in what u don't know. Go and seek knowledge |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Impregnablefolk: 9:47am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Of u intend having sex with him on a future date, then why r u angry DAT he touched u. If he's worth access 2ur body on a later date y conceive suicidal thoughts because he touched u b4 dat period. I come in peace; but if u need a reparation 4 my comment "Let me see what I can do" |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 9:47am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:Keep? This was the point I wanted you to see but you kept making it look like I was insensitive to what happened to the lady. I also wanted you to know that condemning and not letting people take full responsibility for their actions only tends to give room for such to continue to happen in society. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:50am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Roddd: When a forum is full of matures minds and experts in various fields, it's never a miss to seek for help... and you will be marveled at the number of hours these people devote to provide help and useful answers daily. For me, I do more of quora, and every minutes on the mobile app is a learning moment. Nairaland is just to update myself on news and get info from few useful threads. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Realadey(m): 9:51am On Feb 08, 2021 |
No, don't talk like this. I know u are deeply hurt, the only one u can trust is God, even your parents may fail u, everything and everyone on Earth may disappoint u, only Jesus never fail. Please stop thinking about suicide, it won't solve anything, all I see in u right now is depression, please don't let that situation get better part of u. The guy needs to be punished and u need to heal, I pray to God to help u out of this trauma u are in Jesus name. Girl9999: |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by YoungBruzzy(m): 9:51am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Durentt: Chisos a ***?? I better run for my dear ass |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dannyilo(m): 9:53am On Feb 08, 2021 |
I don't want to sound like I am not sensitive enough but I think you are overreacting. More so, thinking of suicide and involving other people will make it worse. Yes, he was wrong but why not call him and ask confront him before taking further decisions? Yes, its possible both of you were drunk. He made a mistake but it doesn't translate to killing him. His response from your interrogation will determine your next line of action. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 9:57am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:Taking responsibility is default in this case. No need to stress that. Is she not passing through the trauma herself? She is here because she is confused about what to do, not because she needs someone to scold her. Help her out first and when she heals eventually, you can then let her see the errors you think she made. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by YoungBruzzy(m): 9:59am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Queenslander: That's a lie from the pit of hell.. I have a friend who was gang raped by four girls all because he was a Secondary school student then and they we're in University, he now summon courage to ask of them out..The next thing that girl did was to invite him over to her house where he was chopped by em all (4 girls) .. So women too dey rape.. Its just that its a shame for a man to claim being rape by girls. So they normally keep it to themself. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 9:59am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Dayzzy:I do not think she is here for help ; she is probably here for sympathy. For if she were, the police station and her parents would be the first place to go. But let me leave it at that. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by debbydams(f): 9:59am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Heterodox:I v went to an herberlist because of my ex before I almost sacrifice my life for him I gave him my everything ndwhere is he today? |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 10:00am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Rocktation:Lol... I only wanted to understand the rationale behind his opinion. Turns out he is not as cold as he sounded initially. |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dayzzy(m): 10:08am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:She will have to let them know eventually. I hope she has good parents. If the parents won't show a bit of support for her, then it's not a good idea. When the only set of people that could help throws one out, all hope will be lost and that's an imminent danger. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:10am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999:Sister! about your experience, switch to church, it never late before you go hate everyone; men are good but when you're carried away by what you know and see as Love in your own understanding; you jam Wall. LOVE took you away, do you think hatred will do you good. You sold your virginity by 18 because you wanted to explore thereby opening doors for devil to enter. Go for deliverance if not ,you might be attracting these kind of human beings oooh. The best teacher in this world is Experience. Sorry and don't kill yourself "Jesus Christ loves you and cares for you, you can start asking God for forgiveness ,so that you will start afresh " Also, for your impatient dating partner too. Live moves on. |
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