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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by grim33(m): 11:59pm On Feb 10, 2021
wink cheesy grin Mgtow guys mgtow ... it will 100 percent end in tears...

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by mosdii(m): 7:05am On Feb 11, 2021
blinking001:
Mosdii over to you
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by mosdii(m): 7:11am On Feb 11, 2021
Robertgreene1:
intresting...very intresting indeed..but I'm js waiting 4 mosdii 2 show up wit dt his grail message...mosdii nigga re u there...

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Lifeisgoody: 8:11am On Feb 11, 2021
I understand your feelings right now, but you'll be fine. Trust me

Start thinking about her negative sides and mingle with friends, mostly female friends.

Lastly, be determined for success in your career and you will have everything including the girl at your finger tips #FACT

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by LandMann: 8:36am On Feb 11, 2021
The only thing I can tell you is that you shouldn't hold back yourself from mourning her departure or your loss.

If tears come to your eyes please let it flow freely. Find a quiet place and cry out all the pain... Don't hold yourself back from releasing the grief.

In about a month or two, you'll be stronger than you are now.... Gradually, you'll lose your feelings for her....

During this time, find something new to learn and try to give it all your time... Learn a skill or study very hard to get good grades... Avoid things that will remind you of her... Delete all pictures, numbers and anything that will remind you of her... If you have her stuff return it or get rid of it quickly... Focus on developing yourself and becoming more knowledgeable or skilled in whatever interest you.

Most importantly don't hold yourself back from grieving and releasing the tears in those alone moments when thoughts of the times you guys shared together comes crawling back into your heart.

Cry like a baby and let it go.

Come back to read this post after one year and you'll see the wonderful things you have achieved and how you've been able to move on and not die because of one girl when there are millions of others.

Please, don't try to get into another relationship anytime soon o... You'll make the wrong choice or end up hurting an innocent girl.

You'll surely smile again bro.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Lukaku12: 9:02am On Feb 11, 2021
Bro I understand this feeling....it's a feeling where nothing in the world makes sense anymore..but you are better than this..you can make it work out...you can be the best.....just try and let go of the pain although it's not easy especially when you have devoted your time and all towards that relationship thinking it was on long term basis...but don't you worry....better days ahead

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:17am On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by tosaino95(m): 9:52am On Feb 11, 2021
yanabasee1:
You're insecure, that isnt the reason she left....


Anybody that have doubts about it's partner is totally working on instincts....


OP, you have a whole lot of good days ahead of you...You are barely done with your schooling....The labor market is waiting for you and all you're worried about is a woman that you can't sincerely tell if she loved you...

I had kept a relationship for 7years and I fought to keep it and tried to have things work for good but I had to let go as you don't have to keep people who don't want to be in your life, because they'll always leave when the have the chance.....
Your case worse pass OP case.
You kept fighting for relationship 7 years as in a whole 7 years, and you're still giving him motivation speech which i find to sensible enough undecided baba you fall my hands hand ni oh

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by seunmohmoh(f): 11:57am On Feb 11, 2021
You should be happy... No need to spend your money on panrara.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by majamajic(m): 11:57am On Feb 11, 2021
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Antoeni(m): 11:58am On Feb 11, 2021
My first heartbreak made me realise that women actually deserve menstrual pain

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by xtervaganza(m): 11:59am On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
the only problem you have is that you don't have money.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by BlessedNuel: 11:59am On Feb 11, 2021
E be things sha
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by udemzyudex(m): 11:59am On Feb 11, 2021
no be new thing, sorry ehn.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by twilliamx(m): 12:01pm On Feb 11, 2021
Ogbeni man up
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by imoni1010: 12:01pm On Feb 11, 2021
U are a simp
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by shadeyinka(m): 12:02pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
Why go into a relationship when you are not really ready. It takes hard work to build a relationship.

Why do you want a girlfriend NOW is the question you need to ask yourself?

Finish school, work on your career then think of settling down with someone is the wisdom you need.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Living05: 12:02pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw

You need to identify the root cause of your insecurities and consciously deal with them. Research online for therapists around you or find therapists online to guide you on this journey

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 12:02pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities

Make the bolded your priorities for now & save yourself of some lifetime regrets.

This is just temporary

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by fatymore(f): 12:02pm On Feb 11, 2021
Four months and you are wailing. Please pick yourself up... I read it somewhere, love yourself above all, don't put your happiness on the shoulder of another, so when they bleeped up, you don't get hurt. Just go and watch Malcom or something, it is trending on Netflix...lol
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Bodyodour: 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2021
You don't knw what God has done for you.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Eriokanmi: 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2021
Congratulations. You're free from unnecessary distractions. Build your wealth first and not relationship. It would fall in line in due course.

This valentine, just go to a nice eatry or shopping mall, relish it with the best delicacy you can think of . Love yourself. She would come back i promise after her eyes are clear to see the difference . The onus is on you to let her go and face life squarely. I hope you'd just do this.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by surebona(m): 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Bro you will be fine on the long run, lost my girl of 6yrs.. shit still killing me but I find solace in reading bibles and trying to make a good life for myself...

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by ghidhehorn(m): 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2021
There is life after Valentine
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Saynotoapc(m): 12:04pm On Feb 11, 2021
Go for Thanksgiving and thank God for gift of life.
Also remember Emeka who got to realise his girlfriend was cheating on him with his flatmate on Twitter.
Bros you now see why you need to thank God.
Fear woman

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by gambia(m): 12:04pm On Feb 11, 2021
Go and live a free life young man and make some cool cash.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by yankison(m): 12:04pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Go and Find me New York client info ...SSN and phone number ..or any state .. And stop thinking about girls..when you make money u wknt be lonely
.na konji de affect ur brain
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by IbrahimSkiba(f): 12:05pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.




Chai,. Baby it's alright... God will give you the strength to come out from this heartbreak

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by bluefilm: 12:06pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
[s]I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised.She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her. All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start[/s].

You are a SIMP.

You are beyond help.

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