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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by FBIBOT(m): 12:17pm On Feb 11, 2021
I don leave relationships for una... Funny thing is i enjoy myself now... I don't have to think about anyone else Wàhálà... Just me and my business..

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by AirBay: 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2021
You are in your final year and you are crying over a gal... this generation undecided undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by wisdomkid: 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2021
Jackyz:
rule 1- Fear woman

You truly missed the point.
1. He's insecured.
2. He said she loved him to a fault and he somehow, pushed her away.

Stop all these sterotypes.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by erico2k2(m): 12:18pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
Join or form a reading club to actualise your goal of finishing your Education strong, Let me tell you with good grade good and well-paid JOB, Women will be pursuing you. This was the same advice my dad gave me! and he was Damn right,
That time you will be the one singing that Psquare son **Reason With Me**
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

I want to beat you first, before giving you any advice.

The beating gon save you, before the advice.

Right now, you are a broken man. Women love to prey on broken men. Fix your sh!t
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by ramatintin(m): 12:20pm On Feb 11, 2021
ILovebigyansh:
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.
proper advice. You better stand up before I land my own slap too
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by ABUPHARM(m): 12:21pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by galaxy2020(m): 12:22pm On Feb 11, 2021
The truth remains, she never really considered u as her bf. Move on
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Hushbingo: 12:22pm On Feb 11, 2021
She has found another guy.... She has seen someone else she loves...


Just forget her.... It's not worth it
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Shelumiel: 12:23pm On Feb 11, 2021
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OmovuduTheBeast:


You still dey talk abi?
Your 5k monthly BMC stipend will soon come to an end
Hunger is coming...cheesygrin
[/s] Rubbish
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by AkuOlisa: 12:23pm On Feb 11, 2021
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Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

You sound sooo clingy and insecure.

My conclusion ? You're an insecure SIMP
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 12:24pm On Feb 11, 2021
I think your insecurity is just that you are broke, being in a Nigeria relationship does that to you, you might not be broke broke but certain things she demand and say will make you wish you could do more, I will advice you dust yourself up and make this money . Not because you have to spend lavishly on women in relationships but just so you can be the ring leader in that relationship, your word will be law.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by charlesucheh(m): 12:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
4 months? mtchewwwwm you dey learn..
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by bigjj: 12:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
Why are you terrified? You are still an undergraduate still baffling with school huddled, and you intend to join it with relationships hussle: bro, choose the one you want to go with. In fact, labour market stress is still waiting and you said you are depressed because of what that is not your priority for now. Bro, sit down and reason again.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Gokoyer0(m): 12:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
So you were born in 96 abi? No worries, life will teach you lessons.

It's better you pick yourself up right now and face reality. Labour market ain't smiling in Nigeria right now.

The lady I really loved was taking too much advantage of me back then but she was shocked when I dumped her ass. She is still in shock after she even got married. Hahaha. She is still asking about me from a mutual friend. I can not komma and kill myself on top woman matter.

OP, I hope with time you will stop be a SIMP in women affairs. Unfortunately some guys remain SIMPs forever

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by redcliff: 12:26pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

work on your mindset, you already said it, you are insecure, work on the things that make you insecure, lonely and depressed, then you can go and have a relationship. otherwise, you would always be seen as a wussy
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Ihatethemods: 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2021
gimakon:
Uncle

Let her go. She no deserve all this wahala. Come make we do business make we know as our life go use good. 2 months don comot for 2021, na 10 remain, you no go day look woman, u go come use am scatter your life, while one guy day scatter her toto and she allow am. Life now no need people way go day hustle backwards, You no need all those kain things at this point.

I dated a girl 6 years, thank you way she tell me na to go sleep with several guys, even worse, she even day tell me the kind sex style them day give am, and how many minutes e day take her to reach them house. The kain vein way from my head day come out that time no be here. I had to own up to be a man, I day work for better place, travel in and out of naija now, na she come day complain say I no get her time again, after she don become mama 2... You sef check am na.

So long story short, I paid her back with success. Even her guy way them 2 day do all their nonsense back then, as I left them na so them be, no advancement. The greatest thing you can pay back to these kind of people, na success. Nothing more, nothing less.

Come make we run business. If money enter, we go Cape verde or Rwanda together.
I day wait you!

Lol...I believe you die.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 12:28pm On Feb 11, 2021
Pick yourself up, dust yourself up and focus on your dreams. Your best of payback is to be successful tomorrow

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by gonkin(m): 12:30pm On Feb 11, 2021
So? Move on
Mine of almost 7 months dumped me 2 days ago. I felt sad yesterday but now I feel better. Its hurts especially when you're the type of guy that is so devoted to making your partner happy. I'm the type of mugu that will lend airtime from service providers for myself and purchase for my girl 2k for calls. I'm the type that gave 10 to 15% of my monthly pay to my girl excluding expenses. I'm the type that surprises her with gifts. The type that makes sure she smiles. The type that never cheated, lied or raised my voice. But she still dumped me after not seeing each other for a month. It's girls they are like that. Move on. At least u know the person u was dating. What do want for her to come back so you'll continue?

Wen u fall try to rise up don't drown in sorrow cuz one girl dumped u. Was she giving u anything In return? My own even forgot my birthday. So let got before I come over there to beat some sense into ur skull. It's girls many are like that

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by iezeiyida(m): 12:30pm On Feb 11, 2021
You already got misplaced priorities by abandoning your friends only because of her and spending a lot on her as a financially dependent guy.. And now she left you in your final year, you realised students do or can make money..

Bro you don't need all these relationships worries; focus, pray and make money and your insecurities will be over
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by OmovuduTheBeast(f): 12:30pm On Feb 11, 2021
Shelumiel:
] Rubbish

SHUT UP!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by kilonshele101(m): 12:33pm On Feb 11, 2021
baralatie:

what do you mean by insecurity


grin boko Haram, Fulani herdsmen, banditry, kidnapping, Etc
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by danvault: 12:34pm On Feb 11, 2021
Because of a lady you met four months ago, you said you might misplace your priorities? Bro you are so insecure and needy. Two big turn offs anyday and anytime with women, you really need to work on your self esteem.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by chatinent: 12:34pm On Feb 11, 2021
Be happy bro when people walk out of your life.


It creates space for new ones.


From my check, you are too innocent and jovial for the female gender. No bi so.



Come and have this overnight tumbo, let's think of being men.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by sojfarm: 12:35pm On Feb 11, 2021
Is she you mother

Talk to your mother or a responsible and reliable member of your family. You will get better advice. If any thing happen to you, life will continue.

Wake up and be realistic. The girl you want to die for is enjoying his new boy friend/foe.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Biggers82(m): 12:35pm On Feb 11, 2021
Go to their house and promise the family that you want to renovate their house just take away all their roof and disappears that's the best thing to do to any girl that dumped you sha

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by handsomeyitayo(m): 12:38pm On Feb 11, 2021
Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.
everrich why this now, I know it is not easy to let go , you are pained in your soul..
Why must you choose to fall in love easily, since you are not ready to marry.
You are only dating , you should have remain neutral in the relationship, never give all your soul to a lady ,it is dangerous because if she broke up with you, it will affect your inner soul and it takes time before you survive it.. ladies are trickish,they can play along with you in loving you and you as guy will be so deep in love with them , madly in love with them, you will be carried away with love..
You are about to finish your degree, please focus on your career, am begging you , leave woman matter, because just take God as your girlfriend, pray to him to make you become successful,...
Woman is not worth dieing for..
Just remain neutral, free your mind,
Nah Dem go rush you if you become successful,
Her pussy is not gold, pussy are everywhere, don't kill your self, everrich please let her off your mind ..
You should be happy that you are problem free, why will you carry her on your neck..
I have learnt my lessons, it affects me a lots, but I thank God for where I am..
Nothing in those girls,
Pray until God give your own real wife when the time for you to marry ..
Nh you go dey use them do yanga...
She has seen another person ,she dont know how she will tell you, she uses that as an excuse for you that she is tired of relationship, I have many experiences about dating ,
My bro please leave her alone go and focus your career dreams, make ur self Happy...do what makes you feel happy..
Those girls are wise ooooo...

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Reex12(m): 12:38pm On Feb 11, 2021
dust yourself up and swallow the redpill

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Shelumiel: 12:40pm On Feb 11, 2021
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OmovuduTheBeast:


SHUT UP!!!
[/s] It seems you are jobless this afternoon.
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by uchaymart(m): 12:40pm On Feb 11, 2021
My Brother try to reconcile with her. When shes finally back with you, break up with her..

BTW men are supposed to be the ones who call for break ups and not the other way..

But hustle ooooo make girl no tell her friends say "i left him"

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by MsAllison(f): 12:41pm On Feb 11, 2021
simps deserves to be killed
Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Agbebakun22: 12:43pm On Feb 11, 2021
Lubbish go and die nah cux woman leave u nonesense and ingredients.. Na people like u dey make some girls dey wah dey reason some main guys local.. Oga pack well make I see road jare

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