extol1:
if the world could have my kind of man, women will die as a single.
back to op, I feel like giving a resounding slap, so you are depressed because of a man. shame on me

Lol....so funny

U b werey jus 4 months. Go do thanksgivin oga

Ishilove come and recommend a female nairalander for our brother that is hurting.

He needs love.

Mr OP shuuuuttttt uppppp
How old are you sef

uchaymart:
My Brother try to reconcile with her. When shes finally back with you, break up with her..

BTW men are supposed to be the ones who call for break ups and not the other way..

But hustle ooooo make girl no tell her friends say "i left him"

Bruh, u wise die, thats my plan as one recently broke up with me coz of one ridiculous excuse. Thankfully she falling into my bait gradually.

Adonkia:
it reminds me of Mr P's song: Reason With Me

Hahaha...seriously? I did not know.

Never get attached, bleep as much as possible, when it's time ,settle down with one ,but continue bleeping others until you're dead.this is the ideal life of a man

It's normal to get depressed. She has been the lifeline you've be holding on to before now, hence, your current situation is expected.

However, it is important to know that your life and mental sanity matters. You need to learn to love yourself and cut off all forms of communication between you and your ex. It's important so you can get back on your feet.

Remember how beautiful your life has been before life caught you hard with feelings of opposite sex. Don't get weighed down...Be steadfast in your healing process. Add more activities to your daily schedule. I bet it will work well for you.

Finally, remember to eat well, sleep well, hit the gym, develop your mental and physical skills and you will be fine....

If she dumped you, dump her back.
As she wants to get busy with her life, get busy with yours.
Yes u don't need a babe for you to graduate.
You don't need a girlfriend to be happy.
You don't need a girlfriend before you make it in life. In fact, the main person you need to be you is yourself. Then God. Cos gos won't force you to be what you should be.
You decide the kind of life you want, ask God to help and direct you and then work towards it.
If you rely on anyone born of a woman to make you complete, happy, less depressed, focused, then you will not go far.
Your happiness and peace of mind at this stage of your life, is in your hands.
Even we girls these days no longer give a Bleep who wants to stay in out lives and who wants to walk away.
As for you being insecure,you need to walk on it before you think of going into another relationship. No normal human would stay with an insecure felllow.

deltateam:
Ishilove come and recommend a female nairalander for our brother that is hurting.

He needs love.

He should go to the dating and meetup section.

Antoeni:
My first heartbreak made me realise that women actually deserve menstrual pain

Lol. Wickedness taken to the next level.

My guy, no girl is worth all these you are putting your self through. Free her and get another and free her and get another and like that like that. Is simple my brother.

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

She never loved you brother.
If you continue letting that nasty girl ruin your mood you won't graduate with good scores or with your mates.
Get yourself a no strings attached babe that'll keep konji off your mind, you'll be fine with time because there are girls *10 better who'll love you for what this one is taking advantage of.

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Young man concentrate on your studies, then go and hustle your too young for heartbreak. Run to Jesus He will heal your heart.

Nigerian girls are useless and worthless piece of shiìít.

ILovebigyansh:
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.

Better sounding oo!!! lol

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Are you sure you don't have Histrionic Personality Disorder?

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

You Sound So Childish And Immature, Girlfriend Of 4 Months Broke Up With And You Are Depressed? If She Leaves, Move On With Life. Even If She Is Your Wife, Is That The End Of Life? I Don't Usually Comment On Threads Like This! Stop Forcing Love On People That Doesn't Love You !

Nna err...


You broke up few days to valentine n u are not praising God..

Just move on do things that make you happy at least it save you from unnecessary spending especially this season

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Brother, pls face ur studies squarely for now. If you think about her too much, it will affect your grades. Most of the things we worry so much about dont matter again after some time

You also dump her. Equation balance

Take two bottles of turbo king.

She won't be the last to dump you.

But one thing is certain, you will always have another chance to meet others.
So, don't waste time on a spilled milk

Go and make money bro

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Oga, welcome to the board. She isn’t made for you, your girl won’t leave you no matter what. The truth be say e go get one girl throwing her shot at you but you no go look her side perhaps she no reach your standard. Bro go meet her, she is the rib of your bone . You hear

ur insecurity is wot u need to work on cos I've bin made to understand dat woteva u fear most might finally maim u. bro, dat four month was just too small to have put ur world around her except if u pple have bin friends before..... as it is now, u don't need to lock up ur heart for love cos u will still meet d right person. pls always have dis in mind dat not all relationships will lead to marriage. some relationships are to build us and give us experience dat will help us to appreciate our spouse. if we don't have some experiences, we might not know d value of whoever we are later married to. just move on and do Wot makes u api with time u will get over ur hurt and meet d right lady. all d best....

arsenal444:
Congratulations, you just remove wahala from you life like dis so....

Abi this one is high ni
Read what the OP said now
He chased her away due to insecurity and you are talking in the Nonsense

Jackyz:
rule 1- Fear woman

Rule2....chase money, even if e enter hole, follow am enter..

God, school love ehn. I had my first and only heartbreak when I was in sch. Bro, I was so weak and it affected my result a little. What made mine worst is, I stay in the same lodge with the bae and the yahoo boy that collected her will be kissing, cuddling her in my front and the lodge mate go dey Laff me. But soon, I finish sch n I Dey alright.


Bro no think am this time go pass

Life goes on.

Bros take solace in the knacking you knacked the period the relationship lasted . And before I forget, go and read your books kid.

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Sorry man. Start with reading Rational Male.

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.