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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Slimslimqq: 6:23pm On Feb 12, 2021
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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Meritocracy: 6:23pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

You want to show you don't love him but you truly love him. I know you will end up open your leg within 2hr he comes because your heart will always control you attitude. Best of luck.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Vikinatty(f): 6:23pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


That is what I'm doing oo. Though it's hard.

Well my dear if a guy truly love u, it doesn't matter whether u show it first or not. some guys even prefer the girl to show it first and he will love and cherish u for ever. I am talking from experience. pls dont pretend inorder for u not to miss ur destined man

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Zenithpeak(m): 6:23pm On Feb 12, 2021
At this point dear, you are lost! completely lost in his love and no redemption dynamix can redeem you from his charm.

Just throw your hands up in submittion to the total will of love and joyfully experience the joy it brings.... No dey form hard to get or parade yourself like someone that is not sure of what she wants.

Love is a natural feeling... express it lavishly.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by PointZerom: 6:24pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.


Hope you will still love him by the time you realises that the Hood in his Man is too small and inactive.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Benwallt(m): 6:24pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Funny enough, I could be a virgin grin
but you are not.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
What's Ur Problem? Can't U Just Chill? Abi U Don Shit 4 Church?
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Esales(m): 6:24pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

My dear you don't owe anybody any explanation, virgin or not, only your partner has the right to know. Let everyone else speculate. I don't doubt that you're a responsible woman, all the best.

Don't forget, you don't have to prove anything to anyone smiley

Let me add this, don't go to social media for relationship advice like this anymore, too many children and bitter women out there.

For your question, if you like him, you should flash him green light but don't let him know how much.

Don't send too many pictures, don't send nudes instead video call with him. If he calls 4 times, call once. If he proposes to you, increase the call ratio to 3 to 1 or 2 to 1. wink

Let him spend his time and money on you, be very reasonable in your demands. Make him do more things that take his time than things that cost money but he must spend. Always show appreciation when he does. Sometimes give unexpected gifts to motivate him to do more.

For sex, use your head wink

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by moneyissweet(m): 6:24pm On Feb 12, 2021
I sense desperation, Are you sure he doesn't want to use you for money ritual.what does he do for a living?

Shine your eyes o... lover girl


MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Bellotelli: 6:25pm On Feb 12, 2021
[quote author=MeghaneMorgane post=98998847]Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.[/quote
Confused creatures
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Buzx: 6:25pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


You're getting me wrong. I'm not pretending I don't like him. Like I said, I already organised some fun activities we both can participate in when he comes. But I don't want to come across as liking him too much so that he doesn't begin to take me for granted. I'm just being cautious.

Do you think he doesn't know you like him already? You have already showed you like him. Restraining yourself will be weird after showing him you like him. It's a big turn off for most guys. Just be yourself, be normal, but so don't over-do things. You'll be fine.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Bellotelli: 6:25pm On Feb 12, 2021
Very confused gender cheesy
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by CSTRR: 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
mariahAngel:


You're moving too fast.

Whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not sleep with him!

Udo!
If that is the guy's end game, she will.

I don't think she is the very smart type.

Boys are too bad nowadays not to exploit any emotional weakness.

Pant go shift Las Las.

Na when the boy leave am you go hear the gist about how he used and dump and how all men are scum.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by henrixx(m): 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.
lmaaaaao best comment
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by yommys01(m): 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Almost how I married my wife. I zoomed picture on Facebook, after talking for a month over the phone we met in person. One year later we got married.

Out third daughter arrived last November.

Don't be afraid. Trying is worth it especially if you are sure of what you feel.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Rawhumper(m): 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
You are very very funny....u have time ooo so how does this concern us?

I dont see any prob here so better create more useful threads please and save us the stress.










quote author=MeghaneMorgane post=98998847]Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.[/quote]
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by paschalj4(m): 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tearsgrin

grin grin grin It will definately end in tears.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by hstar: 6:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
WORDWORLD:


I like your choice of words wink
Why please?
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by duality(m): 6:27pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.


No problem.

Tell him straight up. No sex till marriage

Seek God's face and invite him into the whole thing.

Tell God how you feel and ask him to guide you.

If you you play your part according to God's word.

You will not fail and nothing wrong will happen.

ANY OTHER THING, IS MAN'S WISDOM WHICH WILL FAIL.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by 99thEnemy(m): 6:28pm On Feb 12, 2021
A305:
Young lady, reel your feelings in. Do NOT let him sense your desperation for him otherwise, "your pùssy will bare the brunt."

You being desperate and forward. (Requesting for pictures and proposing to him to meet up with you), what the hell are you doing young blood?

You just made it easier for this guy's game theory and if he is calculative enough, he would fúck you, come on your face before you two starts debating about commitment.

Safe to say your clit is throbbing due to his handsomeness but use protection. And learn to hold down intelligent conversation to attractive a high value male not handsome look.

chiisos grin grin grin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by XDaBOSS(m): 6:28pm On Feb 12, 2021
E b like say this one done see who go de press her mumu button ooo...
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by NOwazobia: 6:29pm On Feb 12, 2021
It is now obvious that the numbers of babies we have in this country are far more than the numbers of youths in the country, considering that we have the late (not demise) babies and the early babies. The op is a good example of a late baby in this context.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by u3fine(m): 6:29pm On Feb 12, 2021
The guy may also be active on Nairaland and MAY have read this story.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:30pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


If they snatch him, then he was not mine to keep grin.

I have seen your response, believe me, the guy would be so lucky to have you�, so happy that they are few folks out there that hasn't mortgage their morality,you are calm, also you know your place as a lady and you try to respond in a way that isn't offensive , that is rare. In case him no gree try me�

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by yanabasee1(m): 6:30pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.


Be real and be yourself...Like you've said that you love him, let the love show...

A man will have to think about crossing the line with you because he'd be certain that you love him...

Don't let your actions give him double thoughts ..

Do the real thing and let him know you for that... Because, he must have gotten another girl over there and the only thing that can make you have a place in his heart is if he finds you so real to contend with...


Don't let anybody advice you to hide your emotions... Because you might just hide the thing that he's looking for in you....

I know that you are based in Abuja and you might even by receiveling an advice from the said guy here as well....
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:30pm On Feb 12, 2021
Nairaland is full of funny characters, I swear down.

Una no go kill person for here.

grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by JayCynic(m): 6:30pm On Feb 12, 2021
All these feminists that claim "I'm a strong and independent woman, who needs no man" Just one dude appearing to be serious, you're already falling heels over head, or head over heels whatever. And your so-called falling has nothing to do with him or his personality, it's just the fact that he seemingly wants to get married.

Just say it's marriage you want and it's your desire to get married, not the man thats giving you unhinged feelings, stop deceiving yourself.

I honestly pray it ends it in tears for you and the dumb fool.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by 99thEnemy(m): 6:31pm On Feb 12, 2021
vickydevoka:

I so much love your condition. Na so one idiot gal toast me for my shop finish, begin bill me de next week. Trust me, na so I block her

I thought it's only me this kind of thing happened to oh! grin grin grin

This one billed me for her birthday! na so I travel from Makurdi go Imaginary Abuja the form busy grin grin grin

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by femifemi1(m): 6:31pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.


Forget all these butterflies and jumping tomatoes in your stomach...

The simple way devoid of later regret is to go to God in prayers and fasting (Choose 3 days)

Ask God for directions , he will surely do.

And if you had already being swayed by his handsomeness, note that other angels too are handsome.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Tvegas(m): 6:32pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi, Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Just be yourself and lock your legs while taking time to learn more about him and his background. Thank me in a years time.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by EUEA: 6:32pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control


yeah dat very true.b yourself at every time dont try to pretend.u got dis girl we re bside u

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by superCleanworks(m): 6:32pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

** He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better.

But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

first you had to hide your identity over an affectionate matter like it is a crime.

next you want unknown faces to teach you how to package for someone who is being serious and taking the bold step in coming to see you as if it is your eternal right. but when you see an unserious person you will BE YOURSELF abi.

Thirdly... You are going to blow this thing with over packaging.

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