Solatium:







Don't expect much at least for now so that when he begins to show you color you will be able to handle the emotional breakdown.


Just go out and have your full fun with him.
But don't expect much in return.
My opinion

Thanks. Noted.

jaxxy:


U can't be head over heels for someone u haven't meet physically yet. Snap back to reality my dear. U are obviously infatuated.

The best u can have is a crush or catching feelings through not exactly real "yet". Love isnt a real discussion yet here. Snap back dear. Ok?

Thanks. Noted

Ohizfly:



what's the title?

OlawaleBammie:


I give up on u bro


If u like beliv or not, cant remove a strand of hair from my chin.


Check my post from the beginin to the end if u have the tym, if u check it and find where i was approaching a lady for a romantic adventure den i owe u 10k

Bro nuff guys are tryin to yansh Zzor even thou they no he a man..are u sure there isnt somtin u tryna tell me? Bro its a free world. u like men?

400billionman:


Call him baby OR honey.

He will know that you are not ashamed, but in control of your feelings and you know exactly what you want.

You hear ?

Thanks but I will not call him baby or honey. He has a name. I'll call him his name.

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

see this person av said it all..

Especially that last part....it has other bad meaning to we guys nowadays once you start asking for money.its like asking for sex on first date.

Gordieshegz:


Your points are very valid sis.
However, I will advise you are careful about vouching for his seriousness. One week may be too short to be so sure of someone you haven't met yet.

Ask him thought-provoking questions and pay a close attention to the answers he gives. If possible, delay this meeting with him till you have control on your feelings.

When you see a man in his thirties who has a good job and is still not "married", don't just jump at him, ask serious questions!!!

For all you care, he may be married with kids, or just a playboy, or anything.

May our sisters never be unfortunate oo.

Thanks. Noted

99thEnemy:

Tvegas:
Just be yourself and lock your legs while taking time to learn more about him and his background. Thank me in a years time.

Thanks, noted.

WORDWORLD:


Because it is not a straight forward answer. Which shows vividly the woman in her.

Thanks, I just wanna learn one or two things and I have

Thank you world war,
Sorry world wide,
No vex, I mean WORDWORD

Thank you

Too much experience. I doff my hat!!!

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

MeghaneMorgane:


It won't be difficult for me. I have a good job.

my dear,keep it there...

Na today many ladies dey av good jobs and still living off their man

femifemi1:



Forget all these butterflies and jumping tomatoes in your stomach...

The simple way devoid of later regret is to go to God in prayers and fasting (Choose 3 days)

Ask God for directions , he will surely do.

And if you had already being swayed by his handsomeness, note that other angels too are handsome.

Thanks, noted.

sirDUKE:


I have seen your response, believe me, the guy would be so lucky to have you�, so happy that they are few folks out there that hasn't mortgage their morality,you are calm, also you know your place as a lady and you try to respond in a way that isn't offensive , that is rare. In case him no gree try me�

Thanks. I appreciate your kind words.

moneyissweet:
I sense desperation, Are you sure he doesn't want to use you for money ritual.what does he do for a living?

Shine your eyes o... lover girl

God forbid oo. He cannot use me for money rituals.

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

lol, you ladies are the architect of your problems when it comes to relationship. Stop over thinking it, just be yourself and stop studying manuals of how to behave around a guy you fancy, it always fail.


If you like him let it flow. If there is mutual desire to kiss each other at the end of the date, don't hold back or start all those archaic nonsense girlie rules of I won't do this and that with him on first date.


The truth is, I know so many guys, including friends who kissed, romanced and even had sex with their wife on the first date and still they ended up getting married.


Your value worth and personality are what a serious guy considers for commitment, that's after you have passed his physical beauty and attractiveness pass mark.


Sex is never the reason guys dump girls, far from it.


What you ladies should be asking yourselves is: after I had sex with my boyfriend, what else do I have to offer him If you like withhold sex till eternity, if you don't have good value as a woman, you don't take good care of your feminine looks to remain attractive and appealing, you lack manners, you are opinionated, prideful and disrespectful, guys will still dump you, sometimes after the wedding if worst comes to worst.


I have a friend who married a virgin girl he dated for 2 years without sex, and they divorced 1yr 4 months later because the girl's character is horrible. She is just too disrespectful and prideful for any reasonable man to be with.


So being a virgin is never a substitute for bad character, in fact good character is far better than being a virgin.


Like I said, be free with him, be yourself, listen more and also contribute to conversation, but don't be a dummy girl and don't be a talkative too. In fact you don't need any guide, just be yourself and let things flow naturally.


Mind you, every single guy that is financially buoyant have so many options of ladies to pick as wife honestly, so don't take that una feminism nonsense with you, drop it. Men have natural advantage over women when it comes to picking a life partner, feminism cannot change it. It is only a man that decides when to marry and it happens. No woman can decide when to marry and it happens, it can only happen by luck or God's grace.

Above all, don't fret, however it goes, learn a lesson from knowing him, improve where necessary, move on and hope for the best as you meet other guys..


What every well to do Nigerian single guy is looking for in a lady are:

- physically beautiful and attractive (based on the guy)
- respectful and submissive, not necessarily born again as many think
- resourceful lady who can also support financially, so she should have a means of decent income
- friendly and happy lady
- homely lady who can keep the home tidy

IYANGBALI:
yes o. That’s why she is desperate to hook the guy by all means, before the place turns to Red Sea

or pacific ocean

Esales:


My dear you don't owe anybody any explanation, virgin or not, only your partner has the right to know. Let everyone else speculate. I don't doubt that you're a responsible woman, all the best.

Don't forget, you don't have to prove anything to anyone

Let me add this, don't go to social media for relationship advice like this anymore, too many children and bitter women out there.

For your question, if you like him, you should flash him green light but don't let him know how much.

Don't send too many pictures, don't send nudes instead video call with him. If he calls 4 times, call once. If he proposes to you, increase the call ratio to 3 to 1 or 2 to 1.

Let him spend his time and money on you, be very reasonable in your demands. Make him do more things that take his time than things that cost money but he must spend. Always show appreciation when he does. Sometimes give unexpected gifts to motivate him to do more.

For sex, use your head

Thanks a lot. I appreciate your advice

Olayetan:


That job is the real deal, virgin or no virgin can be overlooked

what about bodycount

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

Na the final guys dey get this condition. Why?

Liposure:
or pacific ocean

Be careful. Everything that glitters is not gold. I don't want to hear am depressed I want to commit suicide.

You fell for his cute pictures. You may not like him that much in person

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

yinmu

AbujaCitiBlog:

Let me give you 4 things you should avoid doing.

1, Don't ask for money
2, Don't ask for money
3, Don't ask for money
4. Don't ask for money

Things you should do.
1, Be yourself.
2, Infact, don't restrain yourself but explain to him that you are a real person but that some guys take you for granted the moment they notice that you don't pretend. Tell him any time you notice him taking you for granted you would walk away.
3, Encourage him to be himself, tell him you are not expecting a saint but a normal human being.
4, Ask him his standards and let him know your standards.

5, Finally, never ask him for money, because that is where you people miss it all the time. This insatiable uncontrollable greed anytime you see a handsome guy doing well for himself.
6,Las Las, you will be alright. No be exam na date. Go with an open mind. It may or may not work, it is not the end of the world. I wish you the best of luck! Go enjoy yourself.

Thanks a lot. Noted

IYANGBALI:
yes o. That’s why she is desperate to hook the guy by all means, before the place turns to Red Sea

The narrow path don turn Red Sea. She dey find the unfortunate guy wey go Bang.

zedegit:


I will advise you like I would advise my junior sister.

Don't meet him in a hotel even if he lodged in one nor in your own house. Choose a public place.

Don't stay alone with him. Just know that if he sees your pants and gets into it, it's over.

No matter how you feel for him, never lose guard.

Thanks for your advice

Lordbinsmar:

The narrow path don turn Red Sea. She dey find the unfortunate guy wey go Bang.

if you know you know

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for your advice

me nko? Won’t you thank me?

Yungmil:
You just wrote one of the biggest lie in relationship history.

Many have said this but when it gets hot, they become the ones demanding for it

body no be firewood. Time will tell

I feel you are in love already and not all men have the courage to confess their love first. But if he can’t tell you I feel you should tell him. You can show that by taking him out for dinner on Valentine’s Day, which is #Atokenoflove by appreciation.

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