Gang90:

The moment I step out of this house, that's the moment the moment I ask for my share of my late fathers property, the truth is, if they can have sex in my room why can't she wash it, I didn't say I hate her, I said she disgusts me, which right now she looks more disgusting to me,

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

Kayberg:
I won't be saying much about your brother and his wife making use of your room while you were away. They might be sending you a message, or they ain't aware you might be returning that soon.

One thing is, if you have the capacity, get an apartment and try leaving your brother's place. I imagine you saying you don't like her, hit the point, you hate her; and that ain't healthy for your soul.

Even if she doesn't respect you, learn to ignore whatever will poison your heart. When you ignore it, they will have no impact on you no matter what they bring along. You'd have that inner peace.

But one thing I'll advise you on is, to be a priest as you said, you will have to put up with many things. I am way older than you and I am also a virgin but I won't go into details on why I am still a virgin.

If you tend to find people disgusting to you, you still have a lot of work to do on your person. I'll be frank, being a priest even isn't what you need now, but being a workman for the LORD in His vineyard.

I still have a lot to say, but I'll pause here….

Marpol:


Your problem is not the sex. You dislike your brother's wife.

Just remember you will marry one day and expect your brother to like your wife!

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

DavSagacity:
Dont mind the guy Jare. everything disgust him. As if he is angel Michael

emrain:


Mumu, at 26 you still think you're a baby. Don't go and rent your own house, stay there and be crying over sperm on a bedsheet you did not buy. Idiot.

SURElee:
Big and respect demanding 26yr old living with his brother who doesn't see his brother's wife as one flesh, kindly move out. If you have money to be considering going to a hotel to stay, please go out and go rent your own space.

So that the couple can have freedom to perform their conjugal rights wherever and however they feel like it in their own space.


Begin look for house.

litaninja:
Why would it be abnormal for a couple that either pays the rent or owns the house to want to have sex in ANY part of that house??

Gang90:

Thank you, I had been on transit that's why I had not been able to reply I'm now in another city

smiliyB:
Well said!!! You deserve a big applause

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

lefulefu:
hope u have left that house.what ur brother and his wife are doing is giving u enuf hint to leave their house.u should try and pack and if u don't have enuf try and save and leave there as soon as possible.if u can't save then go back and live with ur mom.there is no shame in living with ur mother wen u down and I said I have a lovable mom.pack for ur own sanity and peace of mind.

shaboti:
Na your papa when nor get sense

lefulefu:
so cos u are the one the one who owns d house dat is enuf excuse having sex in another person's space?
If u gave out ur BQ to ur brother or ur nephew is dat enuf reason to go and poo there?
Sometimes it pays to be humane.if u are tired of someone staying with u just tell d person u want him to leave instead of acting like an ass .

Kylce042:


Ya so sounding like a gay.

Marpol:


Your problem is not the sex. You dislike your brother's wife.

Just remember you will marry one day and expect your brother to like your wife!

smiliyB:
I have been reading through your chats, I can't really tell why you hate her so much but what I'll say is that's not really nice....and another thing, you should hold your brother accountable too, she didn't have sex in your room by herself, they were two of them. In fact, you should hold your brother more accountable than the lady, he suppose pick the bedsheet and make sure your room is in order as his brother. Don't just say the lady doesn't respect you, your brother doesn't respect you too.

AND As a priest you claim you wanted to be, I expect a more forgiving spirit from you, let some things go, free your heart from bad feelings and negative, that's the kind of heart God's Spirit will love to live in.

Bankerboy:
Guy you have a problem, why is it dat you hate ur bro's wife dat much. Ordinary bedsheet. . Is either you remove it or you wash it or you pack out for them. . U've almost rejected every advice here , what do you want us to do 4u nw?

Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

MissprudenceD:
Why do you hate yourbrother's wife? Why aren't you holding your brother accountable for what has been done? You are old enough to stay on your own, its even more disgusting to me that you brought their private affairs to the public to judge, what were you hoping to achieve? You want people to insult your brother's wife too? You are too big for this, making a big deal out of nothing, if you are so disgusted, get the Bleep out of their house. Your brother and his wife did absolutely nothing.
Grow up and stop complaining here abeg

YorubaPrince:
Gang90, You're completely MADDD! You're such an ingrate and hypocrite. You're living rent-free in your brother's house yet, complaining about meagre stuff. You claim to wanna be a Priest yet, have so much hatred for your brother's wife. Just imagine this Fool!

Again, You're MADDD! You're one relative or in-law every normal human should pray against having. Damn!

Gang90:

You maybe right, thanks for the advice, I'm now in another city they should leave their life while I pursue my peace and life

IamAsiri:


He dislikes her so much that it can't help but seep through his statements.

@OP, why do you dislike your sister-in-law that much?

YorubaPrince:


But dude, go and check yourself... You're one rigid and complex individual who needs help especially if you're still planning to be a prophet as you claimed.

Gang90:

Say what you want to say, I had taken my decision, if I hate her, it is my right to hate anyone, at least now I'm no longer in the house can you still have a reason why i should not feel the way, I wish ?