dasauce:
Na so... i have a cousin who travel to the US in 2019.. he already knew The type of wife he heard... he sent her some divorce proceeding last year... mama rant to every family member.. but dude just said, he has his reason.. He told me his wife was a cheat.. that he has some evidence against her some five years ago.. that's why he made plans to leave her in Nigeria..

Shameless women

aroundtheearth:
Stay out of it. I'm sure your friend is no saint either because he himself probably has someone in the U.S by now.

Just imagine! You lots don't have shame anymore!

dasauce:
Let him know now before he takes that Jezebel to the US... That woman might show him her true color when she eventually gets to the US.. and for a fact their law protects women at every fvcking instance... so before he'll make a grave mistake of bringing her in... he should know

Alright.i will try and get back to you guys

coputa:
No matter how close you are with your friend, never dabble into his matrimonial affairs.

In most cases, they will settle and by then your friend will tell his wife you are the one that reported her and she will in turn tell her husband that you chasing her

By then the friendship you have built over the weekend years will hit the rock.Issues like this deserve a blind eye and a deafened ear

I tell you...If he doesn't have a pictorial or video evidence, he should forget telling the guy cos..the woman will deny it, could plan to hurt the guy...could even tell her hubby in the U.S that the guy has been the one chasing her that cos she dint give in that's why he went on to damage her reputation...In cases of infidelity that can affect a woman's life and future..a woman can destroy you....just lay low and be wise. Even with video or picture evidence, the woman must not know that it came from you.. otherwise be ready for anything..

coputa:
No matter how close you are with your friend, never dabble into his matrimonial affairs.

In most cases, they will settle and by then your friend will tell his wife you are the one that reported her and she will in turn tell her husband that you chasing her

By then the friendship you have built over the weekend years will hit the rock.Issues like this deserve a blind eye and a deafened ear

Who’s advice should I listen to ?
Some says do and some don’t. I’m confused

OcVoice:
Any child yet?

Tell your friend please. I hate nonsense!

One of the reasons why the other guy said he won't marry.
You build a house for you and her, bought a car, travel abroad to hustle for you and her, you even tried bringing her over but she was denied. She had the guts to cheat on you. The guy dey even drive your car and sleep your bed!

Some women are she-devils, Demons, heartless! Na prick go kill some of them! The kind of story that would discourage one from getting married

I’m telling you. So pathetic human being. My friend is really struggling so hard in the state ,he send 50k every months for her warfare and even open a big shop for her.

Deathisfree:



I’m telling you. So pathetic human being. My friend is really struggling so hard in the state ,he send 50k every months for her warfare and even open a big shop for her.

Do they have children?

Deathisfree:


Who’s advice should I listen to ?
Some says do and some don’t. I’m confused

First answer this question - If you had caught your friend with another woman would you have gone to tell his wife?

Hardtalk:
Do your investigation properly, get your facts right and get a colleague or friend of yours to act anonymously in telling her husband.

Do not be involved directly.

op I think you should do what this guy I'm quoting said

Deathisfree:


Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm
I own a 3bed room bungalow ,,my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8years ago and we’ve been a very good Neibour

When my house got to roofing ,this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega,we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me

December 2018 ,my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving,I drove him to the airport,he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunate the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around

To shorten the long story. I work in a company,I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday,my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now ,I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of there house

A woman sells provisions in our street ,she told me about the guy few weeks ago,she said he always come buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop. He came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux ,I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street
I am so heartbroken,my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness .right at the moment I don’t know what to do ,I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice

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this is the mistake men keeps making.wont your wife continue to need food.sex just because you are not around?,

it is a hard choice,no doubt,to come back and meet a truly health wife or to come back and meet a sick wife.when will men learn that marriage is not meant to dehumanise a wife.now u are complaining that some other guys smooches her and it doesnt matter to you how much health is added to the wife by the ass smooch alone.life abhors a vacuum.

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


Reminds me of one guy who went to Germany and left his wife in Nigeria for 5 years...òmó na so I just dey bang free toto

once a man travels out ..banging his wife becomes a given...a sure banker....
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I've done same when I was processing Visa back in 2016 in Abj...met this babe at the Embassy we both had visa interview same day...we started talking, exchanged numbers and checking on each other...she happens to be a girl desperate to go meet her fiancee abroad..after many visa attempt and denial. To cut storyy short, we went on date, started flirting on whatsap..invited her to my place...na banging end am before she went back to Lagos..very calm and decent looking gal....So when u are abroad. forget yur babe must be knacked...unless she's just formating u..

NiRfreak:

once a man travels out ..banging his wife becomes a given...a sure banker....
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I've done same when I was processing Visa back in 2016 in Abj...met this babe at the Embassy we both had visa interview same day...we started talking, exchanged numbers and checking on each other...she happens to be a girl desperate to go meet her fiancee abroad..after many visa attempt and denial. To cut storyy short, we went on date, started flirting on whatsap..invited her to my place...na banging end am before she went back to Lagos..very calm and decent looking gal....So when u are abroad. forget yur babe must be knacked...unless she's just formating u..

Na normal thing my brother. I one had one like that too. Her husband was in southy doing dirty deal. Na me they help am oil him babe Back then in school.



But wait. How was your visa processing ,,declined ??

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Abeg free the woman joor.

Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is?

Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her

No matter how hot you may be, never touch a married woman.

Get solid evidence ,then send it to your friend. Remember your friend asked you to take care of his family. So do not betray him. Anybody telling you not to report, he or she is a cheat too,so don't mind them bra

Deathisfree:



Na normal thing my brother. I one had one like that too. Her husband was in southy doing dirty deal. Na me they help am oil him babe Back then in school.



But wait. How was your visa processing ,,declined ??

Yep...the country had one strange policy that year..e no easy

Deathisfree:


Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm
I own a 3bed room bungalow ,,my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8years ago and we’ve been a very good Neibour

When my house got to roofing ,this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega,we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me

December 2018 ,my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving,I drove him to the airport,he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunate the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around

To shorten the long story. I work in a company,I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday,my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now ,I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of there house

A woman sells provisions in our street ,she told me about the guy few weeks ago,she said he always come buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop. He came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux ,I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street
I am so heartbroken,my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness .right at the moment I don’t know what to do ,I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice

Women are use.less, tell your friend immediately!!! Very usel.ess creatures!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NuXQyvXQfus

Inasmuch as she may be wrong in cheating, your friend prepared the grounds. haba it's too long na and konji no dey respect anybody. My advice, have a heart to heart talk with her and advice her to change her ways and also advice your friend to either come back or do a serious follow-up for her to join him, as you really don't think the distance is helping his marriage. Alow them catch themselves by themselves, just play an advisory role.

If your friend was the one cheating.. And the reverse was the case.. Pls be honest bro. Will you tell the wife?

make I book space I smell fp

With your phone in your hands, get as much audio and video evidence as possible, even if you don't intend to tell him right away.
It might be handy some day if things gets out of hand

Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy as a full time job.

The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.

He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.

This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.

Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down for Benin and beyond.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...

On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don too see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.

We plant some seeds in life which we overtime deliberately chose to forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.

When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.

If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take a long time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.

It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above, and so many others I worked with when we thought we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.

In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sent a jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero. That was my penance for ruining lives and families with my choice of a source to make money. I was "blessed" with a wife that was a public toilet.

Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.

I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.

The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.

This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than money and the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible.

If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una

I no blame the wife, him dey leave since 2018, body no be firewood. Meanwhile no be surprised say he get girlfriend or wife for USA

Lalasticlalala watching the thread...It about to hit FP

Deathisfree:


Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm
I own a 3bed room bungalow ,,my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8years ago and we’ve been a very good Neibour

When my house got to roofing ,this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega,we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me

December 2018 ,my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving,I drove him to the airport,he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunate the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around

To shorten the long story. I work in a company,I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday,my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now ,I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of there house

A woman sells provisions in our street ,she told me about the guy few weeks ago,she said he always come buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop. He came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux ,I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street
I am so heartbroken,my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness .right at the moment I don’t know what to do ,I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice

let him know is really he's ur good friend as u have stated.
mind ur business, I mind my business is what have turn our country into a banana republic now.

TELL HIM IMMEDIATELY

Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.

I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.

When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.

I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.

December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.

To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.

A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.

Mind your business oga.

Allow God to judge and expose her. Don't be a reason for another person's downfall.

What is your own business oga

That's not good, I will suggest you mind your business

Hmmm this is so bad. Alert him anonymously

You leave your wife and travel abroad?? You think women have that patience?? Their elastic limit or yield point is very low... And worse is when they aren't children of God

Weather you are home or abroad, a woman will cheat on you within 30 mins under your roof.

Don't you sleep, Don't you go to work? All you men need to open your eyes and focus on your success and stop worrying about who is chooking your wife because it must happen weather u like am or not.