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Bro, this your friend has passed the phase of friendship, he is now your brother.
From what u have typed I sense they dont have kids yet.
In my opinion, I would say you let your friend know what it happening. He gave you this responsibility and he deserves an honest feedback.
Do this and save a brother from driving down into devil's hell.

Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.

I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.

When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.

I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.

December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.

To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.

A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Reminds me of one guy who went to Germany and left his wife in Nigeria for 5 years...òmó na so I just dey bang free toto

I swear u don bang many good virtues of your future away guy.

There are any unmarried beautiful ladies, why u go carry loads wey no be ur own. . ?

kelvinrhs:
Your friend that left since 2018 is definitely practicing celibacy over there too

Because body is firewood


Turn a blind eye because it's not even sure if your friend is ever going to come back for her


Or he's just waiting for her mistake so he can dwell on that

You've said it all.

That being said, he should allow the replacement man to enjoy his business. He's a man, and men are polygamous by nature. He has to cheat with someone. Why must this reporter rain on his parade? Not as if he and his friend are faithful themselves.

justosee:
We live in a strange world now. marriage is no longer as sacred as it use to be.

No one in his right senses will travel abroad without his wife. better to divorce her and start afresh abroad, if you can't afford to take her with you. unless you can cope with a cheating wife.

Why did he marry her? Can't they stay in Nigeria together or move abroad together?

What have we not seen?.

Let him come back home unannounced and pretend to surprise her. Don't tell him yourself. Let him see it for himself.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Abeg free the woman joor.

Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is?

Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her

it's either you're a kid or an oloriburuku

Check the past of posts of this story writer and you will realize he's just a hired hand catching cruise with us. It's very obvious when these stories are fake. The beginning sentence is always a key to if the story is true or made up. The other inconsistencies are things I will keep to myself. What I know is that based on the writing style, there can't be more than 3 or 4 writers who post these stories. They carry multiple profiles to try and fool us.

BareFacedLies:
First answer this question - If you had caught your friend with another woman would you have gone to tell his wife?

People can ask useless questions sha! What is his business with the wife? Is he a friend to the wife? His loyalty is to his friend and not the friend's wife

GboyegaD:
Why did he marry her? Can't they stay in Nigeria together or move abroad together?

maybe there was no money then.

No child.. but the guy had 2 kids from previous relationship..

Tinyemeka:
Any child from the marriage?

Create a new yahoo account with anonymous details and explain the issue to him in an email.

Your name and any link to you must not be traced to that account.

In that case, u have cleared your conscience.

justosee:
maybe there was no money then.

It's a very dicey situation. I wouldn't decorate anyone to travel and leave the spouse for such a long time particularly, on a status that might get you stranded abroad.

Tell him! It's called shifting the problem off your table. Let the owner of the wahala worry about the solution biko.

Just say it nicely...in fact, take your time to say it. He will eventually thank you for it.

This comment just won the The Most Useless Comment at this year's Headies.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Abeg free the woman joor.

Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is?

Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her

sapphiere:
Mind your business oga.

Allow God to judge and expose her. [s] Don't be a reason for another person's downfall. [/s]

Contradictory statement.
BTW: God won't come down from heaven to expose her, He will use human being. What if God is already trying to expose her through Op?

GboyegaD:
It's a very dicey situation. I wouldn't decorate anyone to travel and leave the spouse for such a long time particularly, on a status that might get you stranded abroad.

that is why divorce before travelling remain the better option

Hardtalk:
Do your investigation properly, get your facts right and get a colleague or friend of yours to act anonymously in telling her husband.

Do not be involved directly.

Nice one......

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Abeg free the woman joor.

Can your friend swear that he is celibate where he is?

Her body is not made of wood besides the weather is cold so she needs someone to keep her warm and occasionally oil her

It’s people like you that go about screwing other men’s wives.
Karma will repay you a zillion folds.

This one hard oooo

thelish:
What my neighbor did some time past that backfire, is what you are advising this guy to do so ooo.
Cos eventually, the man forgave the wife, n confessed to her the source of his knowledge about it..

This is a test of true friendship. Real friends won't hide the truth from one another no matter how painful it is

GboyegaD:
Joblessness is truly a big ish in Nigeria if not, somebody should leave his life to come monitor another.

Everyone in the U.S that you wish to make us believe you are in is employed abi...?

It's best to read and swagger on when you lack anything reasonable to contribute especially when it comes to quoting people.

BareFacedLies:
If you were a good friend you would have been the one servicing the lady instead of leaving the job for a complete stranger to do

This is clearly a barefaced lie.

valentineuwakwe:
This is what you should do.....
visit her and tell her you want to see her....talk to her n tell her you know everything she has been doing with guys..don't say or mention about the guy you saw her with.try to make her understand such actions could ruin her and it has karma too.. (who knows becos of her adultery dem don denial her visa 3 times).

listen to her response n reactions.....if its well, advice her if not free her n save your own life cos she n the lovers may plan to eliminate you so as the news not reaching her husband so you got to be careful in dealing with this.


the husband may not be a saint over there but telling you to take care of his wife does not mean you should dive into her private life or issue....women will always be women so thread softly on this.

thanks

the most stupid advice you can give. The woman will instead report you to your friend that you were trying to sleep with her...a woman that is already hostile towards you? You clearly dont know women.

My advice is to mind your business. A man who left his wife knows deep down she will be up to no good, if he doesnt know then he is naive and it is better to let him live in his naivety. The kind of thing you are talking about is the kind of thing that can send a man into depression...do you want to be responsible for the depression of your friend? If he is meant to find out he will find out.

Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.

I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.

When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.

I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.

December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.

To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.

A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.

For as long as I won't support cheating in any form the truth must be told too,your friends wife needs so good Bleep too.
My philosophy is never leave a woman for more than 3months,she go go look for preeq,if u like give am all the billions of this world.
At the same time your friend needs to safeguard the family future.

Las las dem go dey okay ooo.
just face your warrant bro

Best answer, he just need to give his friend a hint, then his friend will send a family member to go to the woman who owns a shop and do the final touch.

daddytime:
Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy as a full time job.

The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.

He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.

This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.

Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down for Benin and beyond.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...

On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don too see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.

We plant some seeds in life which we overtime deliberately chose to forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.

When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.

If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take a long time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.

It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above, and so many others I worked with when we thought we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.

In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sent a jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero. That was my penance for ruining lives and families with my choice of a source to make money. I was "blessed" with a wife that was a public toilet.

Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.

I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.

The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.

This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than money and the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible.

If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una

Get evidence and show it to you friend. Nobody deserves a cheating wife; not even the devil himself.

NiRfreak:
Bound to happen just a matter of time...I can never travel out and believe someone won't be fvvcking a woman I left behind...Some men can trust Sha

i wonder why some men still dey do that, do u expect her to be watching ceiling at night, women way be say them go office, them fuvck them inside office toilet, na when you travel she no go fuvck.

The minute the man decided to go abroad and leave his wife, he must have considered the possibility but decided abroad was a greater reward.....it's a choice he made. Truth is many people today wont even blame the woman. Why do you want to be troubling your friend thousands of miles away, giving him sleepless nights?

He is the one that left his wife, he must have known this could happen, if not he is stoopid.

Chukwudi4naija:
A statement recklessly used by people who don't reason through situations before making it.

Dat's What U Think. When U Suffer D Consequence Of It, Dat's When U Will Know. People Like U Tends To Learn Ur Lesson In A Hard & Painful Way.

KidDarkness:
This is a test of true friendship. Real friends won't hide the truth from one another no matter how painful it is

But I can't tell my friend or sister that her husband is cheating.. Don't know why, but can't just do it.

Shellsploit:
Servicing the lady because she looks like a ford engine!
Lalasticlala sef.

Is lalasticlala barefacedlie?

Give me gist.