Jack005:
Does your life depend on her? Why are you forcing yourself on her.. Is it by force? Have some self esteem bro, I don't care what she has done for you in the past, this is the present, you deserve to be treated better.. Stop acting as if you can't do without her.

femi4:
It's a shame we still have men begging to be love in this age. You want to go into slavery all in the name of relationship

femi4:
It's a shame we still have men begging to be love in this age. You want to go into slavery all in the name of relationship

infogenius:
Op, my one sentence advice is that YOU LEAVE HER ALONE. Relationship is not by force but by choice.

Don't let her make a fool of you.

AkandeJoseph99:
Lols, I'm not heartbroken, just that I want to be there for her because she used to be there for me, I have plenty girls I can date and many if them visit me. I'm very happy with myself...

AkandeJoseph99:
Lols, I'm not heartbroken, just that I want to be there for her because she used to be there for me, I have plenty girls I can date and many if them visit me. I'm very happy with myself... I feel like she's going through something she doesn't want to tell me and I wanna help her

AkandeJoseph99:
honestly, I don't want to date her. I have girls more beautiful and intelligent (intelligence is what she lacks) that want to date me, though I don't have a girlfriend sha

AkandeJoseph99:
Hmmmm, I actually really feel like I'm her fool always. Honestly even though I haven't been getting the treatment I deserve

AkandeJoseph99:
Lols, I'm not heartbroken, just that I want to be there for her because she used to be there for me, I have plenty girls I can date and many if them visit me. I'm very happy with myself...

Richadv:
Fvck dis bich bro shes not good 4 your health .you go only kill yourself with bp
Why are you do attached to her sef?abi she do you kayamata? Kilode

Bro share your money making format ee let's smile to the bank together

*Increase the volume of my speakers playing truth be told by toosii 2x

kc4christ:
Bros run cos u said in one of your reply 'where she said it haram to date a christain' haram means forbiding just like BOKO HARAM which means book is forbiding

Richadv:
Fvck dis bich bro shes not good 4 your health .you go only kill yourself with bp
Why are you do attached to her sef?abi she do you kayamata? Kilode

Bro share your money making format ee let's smile to the bank together

*Increase the volume of my speakers playing truth be told by toosii 2x

Xenry:
Seriously, I'm scared of your SIMPness. No offense please

Twelfthman:
Lol I know her type. She will come back crying and confessing of how she fucck up when her other boyfriend leave her. . . 3 years later she is still stalking you on social media and begging for a comeback

Bro love is not enough. Respect matters a lot in relationship. The red flags here are too much to be ignored. The only solution is to leave her the Bleep alone and move on with your life. There are plenty of fish in the sea even better than her in looks and character.

Whenever she comes crying back ( i bet my left ball on this one ) just tell her you have move on...
If you not strong enough you will fall back into the pit and be move by her crocodile tear. Nah you go suffer am

You giving her too much attention, Starve her of that attention and move on. You are not a bad person all nah manipulation tactics to quit the relationship for a better offer as she doesn't seam to love u. Don't get confuse trying to understand women because you cant. Be logical in your approach and don't get caught up in her emotional brouhaha. Just quit the relationship for your sanity and move on

thebosstrevor1:
Why do fools fall in love.

So you wanted to use company shares to buy her love

She didn't add anything to the growth of the company neither does she works there but you want to give a share in your company to her

Your mumu na highclass

Your friend told you to leave her. They have given you the most sensible advice ever.

Love is not by force

Casham:
Bros, this is what is called "real love". You've done what I can never do. You may not be dating her, but you've given your all. One thing I learnt from a friend: MOST GIRLS WHO FORM 'HARD TO GET' USUALLY KNOW, SUBCONSCIOULY, THAT THEY ARE BELOW YOUR LEVEL. From what I see, the girl really want you (NEED YOU actually), but 'water go always find im level'. My advice: since you have no intentions of dating anyone right now, let her be. Love her from a distance. Give her the chance to learn to know the kind of "friend" she is losing if she is not ready to mature out of her apprehensive mindset. I know it is not easy letting go of someone you really care about (I've had friends, both male and female, I really cared about, but who chose to go belligerent; so I know the feeling). It is either that or you have to learn to be the man in this friendship and take charge despite whatever accusations she may come up with.
But what do I know! Maybe you can even fix me up. I am about to graduate and I will need a fix.

Truvel:
Simpism Is Ur Problem. 4rm Ur Long Epistle, U Sounded Like Someone Who Is Still A Babe In D Dating Industry. U Are Too Needy, U Are Too Nice, U Call Her Too Much, U Text Her Too Much, Infact Everything Were Too Much. D Girl Would Av Been Urs But Ur Simpism Made Her To Turn U Down. Not Dat She Doesn't Love U, She Loves U But She Don't Want To Date A Woman Wrapper.

meobizy:

Why don’t you date them then? You have to walk before you crawl. I assure you that once you enter a relationship, your fantasies regarding her will die. Being single is your greatest disadvantage here.

AkandeJoseph99:
I am really not interested in dating presently, I am in the age to make things happen and uit might be difficult to give enough attention to a woman. I dont want to date her again too, I can choose to have flings with girls from different races but they all know its just casual. She is the only girl that ever made me fall in love maybe because she is naive. lol. I dont know and honestly I dont want to date her again

joshboo:


Oga free the babe for a while, show her how you happy and doing just fine without her.. Post other girls on your status and other social media platforms you know she has access to, not saying it would win her back but definitely table go turn. Girls love a guy with an aura of mystery... I know how you feel but with all the history you downloaded there chasing Her further would take her farther away from you.

Gaiusc:
Boss no offense but i just gat tell you this, you're a SIMP. Infact, the term was created someone like you. Grow Some Balls and stop behaving like a p*ssy

Yusufisraelj:


OP, a long read, that's not short brother


Well well well

You see your lady has a mindset issue, fundamentally speaking, from your tone, you sound agreeable and a person of reason.

What I will like you to investigate is how she grew up?

Who are her clique of friends bkos these are the board of directors, when you are asking her out her clique of friends must matter, how she sees life must also matter.

Behind all those fasad is a deep resentment for wealthy people subconsciously or a limiting mindset that tends to see close friends who are successful in a bad light.

Your lady's mind is as important even more important than her body.

Well you shouldn't dwell too long with her, relationship is for two willing people, understand what she's not saying and let her see reasons.

Stop trying too hard to please her at all cost, lady way wan do no go make am hard for you, just be yourself and maintain integrity.

AkandeJoseph99:
If I dont call her she will call me complaining of how bad her day was because I didn't talk to her

AkandeJoseph99:
Yes,I think she has mindset issues or maybe she feel like shes not receiving enough attention. She once complained bout how her dad did not do something she asked for despite his influence and how friends don't stay long with her and how we would have gone separate ways had it been we were dating and how she feels like I am too rich to date her (that was on a day I asked her to send her account number so she can go and buy a car after she complained of fight with an uber driver), she rejected the offer and told me taht if she takes things from me she will bwcome subservient. I once stayed in Abuja and asked her to meet me in my house there but she declined and said we should meet in a hotel. I told her to come with her sister incase she is scare but she told me she wast scare and that she would come, she later didnt show up and told me she was busy with her mum, so I had to wait for her an extra day at Transcorp, she later told me that I should just go and should stop wasting my money because the hotel is too expensive So we decided that I should book a flight and she would come to Lagos, I said okay. The day she was supposed to come she picked up a fight with me because I posted a happy birthday on whatsapp, I really think she shouldnt have issues with me because of that but she said I once told her I like Ethiopian girls and the birthday girl was Ethiopian, I told her sorry and that she should remember she does not want to date me and I am also not dating that girl. The next thing she did was to send a screenshot of the girls profile where she posted my picture and say I lied to her that I wasnt dating that girl was the reason she wnts me to stop talking to her as at that point in time. After that issue she later told me she refused to see me because she is scared of being kidnapped...I found that kind of funny and told her that hearing that from her made me angry, she said sorry and that she doesnt mean it and that she will meet me anytime I come to Abuja again. I really think she has psychological issues. I know I can solve most of her issues and even make her dreams come true but she doesnt k ow how to concentrate or talk real issues, she will loose concentration and later blame it on me. She claims she likes me because I am intelligent but she cant have an intelligent conversation, she prefers talking about candy crush games, celebrities, etc. She doesnt even have a hubby and then she told me I am the closet person to her, just that she keeps misbehaving. I would have used those around her like her sister, mum or brother but she is angry with them all and gets angry if I ask about them or asked about them from her. She will be like, so ypu want to leave me and start talking to my sister. Alot of people might think that I am a simp but I am really not a simp, I am just trying to think from a logical perspective. I feel like she is not happy right now as we are not in good terms but she feels intimidated, probably because I was once an average guy that later became bigger than what she thinks after we had issues and came back a bigger person, I really dont know. But I know she has issues communicating and relating to people. I also think boys play her a lot because she told me about some.