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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Drsnives(m): 9:52pm On Feb 25, 2021
Nawaooo
Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by tillaman(m): 9:54pm On Feb 25, 2021
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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by ActingGMD: 9:55pm On Feb 25, 2021
Good job
Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Yippeedaniel(m): 9:56pm On Feb 25, 2021
O men, finally e don happen.... another episode of the ghetto soap operas
Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Blakpot: 9:57pm On Feb 25, 2021
Freestainworld:
The wedding is finally the talk of the town now that he has called off the wedding.

grin

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by linearity: 9:57pm On Feb 25, 2021
You are the true definition of your brother’s keeper.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Kirkman: 9:59pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
He told them. But they said if he ain't get no money, that he should not bother taking their daughter home....
Ehn! Ehn! So indirectly they told your bro if he nor get money, make he hide him face.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by TSBO: 10:00pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:

because I was typing in a haste!

Oya modify now.. Give us the full context.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Starzo: 10:00pm On Feb 25, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Another woman bashing thread.

How much are you people paid to create these stories? Do you really think women don't have terrible stories to tell about men on a daily basis? The technique is old.
you're too old for this

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:00pm On Feb 25, 2021
Kirkman:

Ehn! Ehn! So indirectly they told your bro if he nor get money, make he hide him face.
The matter tie wrapper sad

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Pyhonist: 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
Well are talking about a called off wedding Bro. It's actually the talk of the town.

Nice job Bro.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by livinbygrace: 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
Truth be told,over 80% of today"s women have nothing to offer than poosy and that is why most men are not thinking of settling down anymore.
You see a lady,with no income,no skill ,virtually nothing to contribute and will be looking for an unfortunate ready made guys to transfer and cater for all her generational problems.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by sonnie10: 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?

Are you a man or a woman? E get why I dey ask.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
TSBO:


Oya modify now.. Give us the full context.
You can't modify op when it hits fp

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?
so him been dn pay something before?

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by samguru(m): 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2021
Michelle55:
You did the right thing bro.. Anyone expecting a plate of rice on my wedding day will wait till eternity because I ain't doing that shit.

If you want to celebrate with me, wait until after I've fought and conquered the stress, phases and struggles of my marriage with my husband by my side, then I will throw a big party for y'all( just come, eat and celebrate with us) I don't need anything from you undecided

Celebrate your post marriage and not your pre-wedding!!

If he ends up using his life savings to please the wife and her family, what will he use to feed her after the wedding? No be only talk of the town, na talk of the nation e go be undecided

Some people with unrealistic expectations sef yet they won't add a dime to make that dream a reality.. Mtcheew!

This is the kind of person I need in my life.
We share the same ideology

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by BRATISLAVA: 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2021
Starzo:

you're too old for this

You seem to know my age. How is that?

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by SirMichael1: 10:03pm On Feb 25, 2021
Michelle55:
You did the right thing bro.. Anyone expecting a plate of rice on my wedding day will wait till eternity because I ain't doing that shit.

If you want to celebrate with me, wait until after I've fought and conquered the stress, phases and struggles of my marriage with my husband by my side, then I will throw a big party for y'all( just come, eat and celebrate with us) I don't need anything from you undecided

Celebrate your post marriage and not your pre-wedding!!

If he ends up using his life savings to please the wife and her family, what will he use to feed her after the wedding? No be only talk of the town, na talk of the nation e go be undecided

Some people with unrealistic expectations sef yet they won't add a dime to make that dream a reality.. Mtcheew!
Post marriage? Is that even a thing? There's nothing like post marriage, rather post wedding because marriage is a process that never ends until death do both couples part.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:03pm On Feb 25, 2021
Some in-laws/parents/families are the curse following their daughters...


Bye bye to rubbish.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Kirkman: 10:04pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
The matter tie wrapper sad
My God continue to oil your head with blessings. You are the true definition of a brother.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Princeps: 10:04pm On Feb 25, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Another woman bashing thread.

How much are you people paid to create these stories? Do you really think women don't have terrible stories to tell about men on a daily basis? The technique is old.
Shut the fu*k up. Silly femi-nazi!!!

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by bizzibodi(m): 10:05pm On Feb 25, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Another woman bashing thread.

How much are you people paid to create these stories? Do you really think women don't have terrible stories to tell about men on a daily basis? The technique is old.
They are not after yo gender....d gist is about expensive wedding prefered by d bride family.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Eastcaostboy: 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?
your bro nearly play all his card.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2021
sonnie10:

Are you a man or a woman? E get why I dey ask.
Male.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Blakpot: 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Another woman bashing thread.

How much are you people paid to create these stories? Do you really think women don't have terrible stories to tell about men on a daily basis? The technique is old.

Don't waste ur strength.
They won't change, its a culture here.
Even the girls here are cool with it.

Having been on NL for some time, I'm now desensitized to bias against women.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:07pm On Feb 25, 2021
patoski39:
so him been dn pay something before?
Yes o. 300k to be precise

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by ubola: 10:07pm On Feb 25, 2021
100trillion:
My senior bro wedding was schedule for the 30th day of October 2021, his wife and her fams were on his heads, telling him to make sure the wedding is the talk of the town, that, he should rent a big hall and make sure food; drinks; meats; kola etc. are available.

So last night he told me, I asked if his wife contributed anything, he said "Monetary" No....that she said she'll bring ppl to cook food and handle things women are meant to handle.

I told my him: Snr bro, make marriage simple. Don't take loans for wedding, don't use all your savings on wedding just to please people. People come to eat, drink and leave you in povery. Manage what you have. If your wife can't help you to think straight, then she ain't wife worthy.
This afternoon, in my presence he called his in-laws and called off the wedding....thank God he has not complete the dowry.

Hope I was right?
You are toxic. For inflicting pains on someone else's daughter may your generation receive a double portion. You had the chance of advising your indecisive brother to reduce the cost but you went ahead to poison his effeminate mind. Karma is surely waiting for you.

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by briggson07(m): 10:09pm On Feb 25, 2021
osamz007:
MAKE THE WEDDING THE TALK OF THE TOWN

something HERDSMEN cannot do


Davido don line hair sotay e hair line don enter e
Ogor

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by Nobody: 10:10pm On Feb 25, 2021
ubola:
You are toxic. For inflicting pains on someone else's daughter may your generation receive a double portion. You had the chance of advising your indecisive brother to reduce the cost but you went ahead to poison his effeminate mind. Karma is surely waiting for you.
You disgust me

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by onyenatruchi: 10:10pm On Feb 25, 2021
The future is Male and Female undecided

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Re: How I Saved My Brother From Marrying Into An Entitled Family by bhella10: 10:11pm On Feb 25, 2021
ogub:
Calling off the wedding shouldn't have been the first thing to do he could have met with his prospective in-laws and tell them what he can afford to spend for the wedding and hear what they have to say
Don't worry. That's a smart move. They will call him back to cut a deal. Never be predictable

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