wahala no dey finish sha

Moferere:
If she gives you the placenta, you want chop am?
You don't have money and still, you are arrogant. All these irrelevant things should stop in 2021.

My friend shut the hell up. You don't play with a child placenta. All you new generation twitter children know nothing.

chatinent:



What is really wrong?

Why does it look like a death sentence? Why the quarrel? What is missing? What happened to that fresh love?

Can we take a second and see the positive things about your partner first before the negatives?

Nice one

I earlier made a post that you must make it cleae your wife to be before marriage that she's going to become a member of your family and not vice versa this is a first step and this is impression you must create from the very beginning. A woman who brings a member member of her family to decide what happens in her home, it's not yet prepared for marriage I also think the fault comes from the man. You have to make it clear from the beginning she's now a member of your family my advice to you is to allow her to stay with her mother so that you don't die of depression when she sees her mistakes, she may change

sunshineV:
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j for jug

Moferere:
If she gives you the placenta, you want chop am?
You don't have money and still, you are arrogant. All these irrelevant things should stop in 2021.

You didn't read through before you judge the young man, he paid the hospital bills except you are his estranged wife.

anitabella:



@moferere.. U are a pig and an idiot.... Foolish fool. Shey na the mother in-law suppose bury the placenta or the guy... Where as the guy no dey na the duty of the guy papa to do am...

Thank you very much for educating the idiot

married people and their wahala sef

This story does not make sense to me. Dem for send you the placenta

ec0malchemist:
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bb for boobs & booty

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The proper thing is for your wife to bring the baby to your house.

By way your wife must be bold to raise her hand to slap you!

Under no circumstance must one tolerate a violent spouse!

oracle009:
OP, you haven't answered a question asked up there... Will you eat the placenta if it was kept for you? It's disturbing and disgusting when 'adults' bring innocent babies into their foolishness. You and your wife, due to your 'foolishness' will cause this innocent child to suffer violence that he knew nothing about. You are already structuring his future for marital instability! Must he bear the consequences of your RUBBISH (your supposed wife's rubbish inclusive)? Must he

Btw... You both should sit down and find a way to reconcile. Your child deserves a better future with a loving family, not the bullshit you have up there!

Pick your wife, settle your home and live in Peace! Life is all about responsibility. Being a father is even tougher! Stop being a fucking coward!

Peace!

You are the coward, fool and ignoramus.

TainyLite:
Last week Tuesday, my wife gave birth to a son which is my second born... She has been staying at her mom's place due to misunderstanding we had around September....

After I paid hospital bills and gave her money for baby items on that Tuesday morning, she told my parents she has buried the placenta... I could not go to see her immediately I was called and I had to send my parents there due to my work...

This is a lady I want to separate from due to her mum trying to take over the marriage and my wife is always carrying her along... Now the woman is demanding I come see the son and apologize to her and sincerely I am standing on my ground that since she buried the placenta I will never go there to go see the child except they come to my parent's place on the naming ceremony....

The truth is I can't afford to live a second with my wife and I really want ur advice before tomorrow....

. Hmmm, a very delicate matter, but reason it this way...... When your son gets of age and he's told that you didn't come see him for days/weeks after his birth, because you had a misunderstanding with your wife ; are you willing to live with that regret; how would you face your boy??

You as a husband and father you have failed. No matter how busy you are, you should be the one to take the placenta of your child and bury it also why do you want to divorce your wife, it is for better or for worse. I am pissed off by you.

Moferere:
If she gives you the placenta, you want chop am?
You don't have money and still, you are arrogant. All these irrelevant things should stop in 2021.

do u understand English, pls go thru his massage again.

Moferere:
If she gives you the placenta, you want chop am?
You don't have money and still, you are arrogant. All these irrelevant things should stop in 2021.

that was harsh

TainyLite:
Think before you comment... If none of my representative were der au did I pay hospital bills and other things..... My parents were on ground nd I was already at work when I was called nd sincerely this is a lady dat slapped me while asleep nd she was pregnant for me.... If I retaliate dat nayt nd she lost her pregnancy or even die what will someone like u say.... Or she stabbed me dat nayt.... Most people do reason as if this life has duplicate....

A lot more is wrong with your approach and character than with hers. Work on yourself. Find your own faults and make amends before trying to force change on others. You are as guilty as your wife. Yes I said so. You can pretend and defend yourself, but nothing concealed is truly hidden. Do not lose her because you will regret it!

guy man, I don't know you b4 .......... but I will advice you like BROTHER, forget those nonsense the devil is bringing.....
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carry your wife live HAPPILY, give your child a sound future ...........

TainyLite:
Last week Tuesday, my wife gave birth to a son which is my second born... She has been staying at her mom's place due to misunderstanding we had around September....

After I paid hospital bills and gave her money for baby items on that Tuesday morning, she told my parents she has buried the placenta... I could not go to see her immediately I was called and I had to send my parents there due to my work...

This is a lady I want to separate from due to her mum trying to take over the marriage and my wife is always carrying her along... Now the woman is demanding I come to see the son and apologize to her and sincerely I am standing on my ground that since she buried the placenta I will never go there to go see the child except they come to my parent's place on the naming ceremony....

The truth is I can't afford to live a second with my wife and I really want ur advice before tomorrow....

You can make your stand but Placenta should not be an issue with u. it means nothing. so far the wife trusts her mum for it, then it should not be your problem. however, you can make your stand and ask your wife to come to see u.

I would like to know, if you beat her or not, if you did not lay your hand on her and it's just misunderstanding, then let her come and beg her yourself, it's not her mom that will be making the demand for you.

call your wife and toast her to come home that u are missing her n the baby

My dear, you should thank Almighty God for your wife's safe delivery. What will you do with placenta? Will you sell it? This is very irrelevant.

To say you won't visit and see your baby, means you are immature.
Remove that unnecessary poverty stricken pride and do the needful.

Kriss216:

You have to go back to the 70s and 80s to find Nigerian girls not entangled with the things of the world.

It's very unfortunate you may have bn mingling with the wrong set of girls.
You are so choked wt their bad love that you never believed there are still good ones out there that may not take material things as their priority.
I will also advise you to check urslf if the problem is from you.

One Love

How long has this been going on? Before the pregnancy or after the pregnancy?

Trust me, pregnancy can make good women exhibit questionable characters...it gets worst days after giving birth.

Please forgive your wife and let peace reign. She needs more of your presence now, not just money. The issue of 'who buried placenta' shouldn't be the reason for a divorce. God bless you!

Before your wife knew you she knew her mum first..as a christain there is nothing special 8n a placenta it is waste smelling product.go and settle your home cux of your children...i once exlerienced or grew up in a broken home its not a good experience for an emptional child.talk to your wife..settle your family..note.there is no way she is abandoning her mum for you.you can only instill a level of control.use wisdom to handle this and thk me latter.though we men are very proud..how did u meet your wife.did u see her walk by you and u chased her cuz of breast or assss.i keep telling people marry a friend...these things will fade away before she gets to 40

chatinent:
You wanted to divorce her because of her mother. Her own mother!


You have been looking for a credible reason to cling unto for the break up.



Now, you see this as a stronghold, hence you deploy traditional rites.


Whatever happened to “for better for worse.”


It is a detestable thing to me reading comments from men who feel are always right in relationships. Have you taken a break and reasoned things from her angle?

You weren't present on the day of delivery due to some personal reasons of yours, fine. Why the rules over the placenta?

Ok, I understand the rites. They should keep the placenta for you till the month you decide to reconcile with your wife?


Which family in disunity will allow the husband's people to come and boss around in the time of delivery when the husband himself didn't show up?


How do you expect a woman to hate her mother because of you!


Even if there are things you don't like, set things straight amicably; you are only a husband not a god!

You are a mere man feeling principled. Release the twist.


Sorry, I don't mince words.

you sure say dem marry ?abi na belle him give the girl two times

Op, there's nothing wrong about whoever buried the placenta of the new born, so far it's affirmed it had been buried! It will cause foul odor if left unburied after 24hrs. Go nd name the baby & stop been stupid

alexola20:
About the placenta thing,I really don't and I don't give a f uck about it.Maybe because my children were born in Europe.
I never had anybody talking about placenta around here.

And for your MIL pokenosing into your marriage,from personal experience,if your MIL doesn't like you and your said wife always following her,I will advise,you let her know your stand and be ready to move on with or without her.
It's a battle you will never win.

You see those MILs that don't like their SIL,there's nothing you can do to please them or make them happy.
They will continue to dislike you..
For your sanity and mental wellbeing,LET HER GO NOW!
You are even tired sef.

The marriage is already threatened because the Op has stuck to a mentality I still don't understand where it arose from:this spiritual attachment to the placenta in Nigeria.
If anything bad happens to him or he has any kind of challenge he would attribute it to the mother-in-law and claim that was what she used the placenta for,'tying his destiny'.
Any fly that buzzes round his ear,any stone he mistakenly kicks and every financial/life challenge now has a ready made cause,his destiny buried with the placenta.
This is a union headed to the rocks,harsh as it may sound.

Marriage these days be like weed, if e good for your body smoke, if e no good for your body quit. Period

Make sure you get the placenta back if it means a lot to you

TainyLite:
Last week Tuesday, my wife gave birth to a son which is my second born... She has been staying at her mom's place due to misunderstanding we had around September....

After I paid hospital bills and gave her money for baby items on that Tuesday morning, she told my parents she has buried the placenta... I could not go to see her immediately I was called and I had to send my parents there due to my work...

This is a lady I want to separate from due to her mum trying to take over the marriage and my wife is always carrying her along... Now the woman is demanding I come see the son and apologize to her and sincerely I am standing on my ground that since she buried the placenta I will never go there to go see the child except they come to my parent's place on the naming ceremony....

The truth is I can't afford to live a second with my wife and I really want ur advice before tomorrow....

TainyLite:
Last week Tuesday, my wife gave birth to a son which is my second born... She has been staying at her mom's place due to misunderstanding we had around September....

After I paid hospital bills and gave her money for baby items on that Tuesday morning, she told my parents she has buried the placenta... I could not go to see her immediately I was called and I had to send my parents there due to my work...

This is a lady I want to separate from due to her mum trying to take over the marriage and my wife is always carrying her along... Now the woman is demanding I come see the son and apologize to her and sincerely I am standing on my ground that since she buried the placenta I will never go there to go see the child except they come to my parent's place on the naming ceremony....

The truth is I can't afford to live a second with my wife and I really want ur advice before tomorrow....

What is wrong with you guys and superstition... What is placenta? What if you aren't in the country and she delivers


Dude forget this placenta stuff and go see your child.... Are you from western side

TainyLite:
Last week Tuesday, my wife gave birth to a son which is my second born... She has been staying at her mom's place due to misunderstanding we had around September....

After I paid hospital bills and gave her money for baby items on that Tuesday morning, she told my parents she has buried the placenta... I could not go to see her immediately I was called and I had to send my parents there due to my work...

This is a lady I want to separate from due to her mum trying to take over the marriage and my wife is always carrying her along... Now the woman is demanding I come see the son and apologize to her and sincerely I am standing on my ground that since she buried the placenta I will never go there to go see the child except they come to my parent's place on the naming ceremony....

The truth is I can't afford to live a second with my wife and I really want ur advice before tomorrow....

THIS IS THE KIND OF WOMAN THAT FITS UR KIND THAT FEELS SO ENTITLED


YOU TO, I AM SURE U ARE ALSO CARRYING YOUR PARENTS , ESPECIALLY MUM ALONG

IN FACT U SOUND TOO ARMMATURE FOR MARRIAGE


PLACENTA THAT THE CLINIC THRASH BY THEMSELVES,, mtceewww