BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

Notin is really wrong with our way of life when it comes to bringing up a child, our way is the best with good morals but the problem is in the education and the environment. Our leaders have killed everything here in Nigeria, no good school apart from the private primary and secondary schools and most of them in some part of the country re not up to standard, they just have nice building and equipment. Our universities are finished, honestly there is notin left of our universities except maybe the private ones which u must be well to do before u could afford it. our health care centres are zero. if u hav the money to live abroad then pls do. Don't mind people telling u otherwise.

Jashub:
Africa no get homosexuals reach west.

But dem Africa get sha

Jashub:
The only the I see here is the exposure. As for practical learning, you can do that anywhere. Even in China

Mr. MAN. Lets compare notes. Nigerian youths in diaspora are the ones making people notice that shithole.
Nigerian kids in diaspora are the ones winning awards and scholarships.
Name one in the Niggeria that did anything worth noticing.

That reknown robotics engineer, foreign Nigerian
The girl that got offers from different ivy league schools, foreign Nigerian
The girl that wrote the book flesh and blood ( cant remembered the exact name)

On the other hand lets talk of the popular Niggerian youths and what Niggerian youths love

Bobrisky
James Brown
Okiemute
Denrele
Hushpuppi
'Dem go flog me tire' girl
Awawa boys
One million boys
Cultists
Youths gang raping girls
Any BBN ( soft porn) contestant
Pastor Suleiman
Can you name one foreign Nigerian cross dresseer as popular as the first three I mentioned?

JosephXavier:
The best way to train your children is by teaching to distinguish right from wrong, how to be resourceful, respectful and hardworking

And try to leave enough money and inheritance for them so that they won't be build8ng from the scratch

I need to screenshot and laminate this your comment. "That building from scratch without any atom of help" Is reason why Africa is still backward.

generationz:


White people are eons of years ahead of us, they are technologically advanced, medically advanced, development in first world countries gave way to human right laws, women right laws, laws that protect children and make it possible for them to have a good education in love, laws that protect the old, order, development...

And you are still asking if you should raise your kids like them

So my kid can walk out on me while am still speaking, make stupid decisions and ask me to mind my business under my own roof, wouldn't feel obliged to say MIGWO when they see elders and absolutely become spoilt brats without them knowing. All that while shielding them from the reallity of the Nigerian way of life, making them smart gullible dumbasses as soon as the step out my door and most importantly from under my wings........

No thank you, africa way it is. Afterall I did not turn out too bad

Ghostmode2two:
But dem Africa get sha

We get, but na coded. Oyibo no dey code their own...na fulltime exposure. And if you want your children to be "exposed "like that, then send them abroad. But pray you have the stomach to endure whatever they turn out to be.

if you believe in values and morals you can teach your kids same anywhere in the world, there are lots of good responsible American kids, just because the system gives you freedom, does not make it less moral or having less value than the African system.

BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

Africans, especially Nigerians have zero values. People with values in Nigeria are hated. If you want to stealing under your watch you're evil for not letting them to steal.

They are most holiest unrighteous hypocrites in the world that are very religious.

No I don't want to raise my kids the African way and not even in Africa.

Very naive way of thinking. I feel very sorry for you

Jashub:
We get, but na coded. Oyibo no dey code their own...na fulltime exposure. And if you want your children to be "exposed "like that, then send them abroad. But pray you have the stomach to endure whatever they turn out to be.

Do yiu call bobrisky coded?
Abeg make we hear word

Jashub:
We get, but na coded. Oyibo no dey code their own...na fulltime exposure. And if you want your children to be "exposed "like that, then send them abroad. But pray you have the stomach to endure whatever they turn out to be.

It would be the failure of the parents

Horlufemi:


Africans, especially Nigerians have zero values. People with values in Nigeria are hated. If you want to stealing under your watch you're evil for not letting them to steal.

They are most holiest unrighteous hypocrites in the world that are very religious.

No I don't want to raise my kids the African way and not even in Africa.

.very pretentious people. To them pretending you are righteous automatically means you are righteous.

Then how many of them on average have this ? You need do your statistics wella... Don't wish yourself bad things in life. Not all that glitters is gold!

BadRadio:
Exposure, practical learning... and more

Raise your kids the lords way.... the human ways has crashed

mulero23:
Then how many of them on average have this? You need do your statistics wella... Don't wish yourself bad things in life. Not all that glitters is gold!

Certainly most of them. Look at that shithole. Even with your money you cant get quality education. Is it not the "well raised" children that are constiuting a nuisance in countries like Malaysia?

BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

If you have taken your kids from Nigeria to the western world before, you wont be asking this question

Africa is too primitive, naive and backwards? How is this okay? If a white person says this you'll be screaming racism.

Don't be silly OP. You can raise your child anyway you choose to without being a raging racist and an idiot about it.

I've lived studied and worked in the UK in the past, I've got family in the US but I won't stoop that low to call Africa primitive. It's your child afterall. Raise him/her however your choose.

There is no best way...so just raise your child the right way.

Why would you want to wear someone else's identity? That's living a lie and its self hatred. They will grow up to be called coconuts ( white on the inside and black on the outside )

What's important is education, exposure and opportunities they get in those countries.

Jaqenhghar:

Mr. MAN. Lets compare notes. Nigerian youths in diaspora are the ones making people notice that shithole.
Nigerian kids in diaspora are the ones winning awards and scholarships.
Name one in the Niggeria that did anything worth noticing.

That reknown robotics engineer, foreign Nigerian
The girl that got offers from different ivy league schools, foreign Nigerian
The girl that wrote the book flesh and blood ( cant remembered the exact name)

On the other hand lets talk of the popular Niggerian youths and what Niggerian youths love

Bobrisky
James Brown
Okiemute
Denrele
Hushpuppi
'Dem go flog me tire' girl
Awawa boys
One million boys
Cultists
Youths gang raping girls
Any BBN ( soft porn) contestant
Pastor Suleiman
Can you name one foreign Nigerian cross dresseer as popular as the first three I mentioned?

Nkoyo Ngozi Iweala, Chimamanda Adichie, Asa, prophet T.B Joshua, chinua achebe, Wole soyinka. We hav gud pipo 2

Jaqenhghar:

Mr. MAN. Lets compare notes. Nigerian youths in diaspora are the ones making people notice that shithole.
Nigerian kids in diaspora are the ones winning awards and scholarships.
Name one in the Niggeria that did anything worth noticing.

That reknown robotics engineer, foreign Nigerian
The girl that got offers from different ivy league schools, foreign Nigerian
The girl that wrote the book flesh and blood ( cant remembered the exact name)

On the other hand lets talk of the popular Niggerian youths and what Niggerian youths love

Bobrisky
James Brown
Okiemute
Denrele
Hushpuppi
'Dem go flog me tire' girl
Awawa boys
One million boys
Cultists
Youths gang raping girls
Any BBN ( soft porn) contestant
Pastor Suleiman
Can you name one foreign Nigerian cross dresseer as popular as the first three I mentioned?

Bros do not be deceived. The Nigerians in the diaspora that making us proud are not even aware that they are Nigerians; it is our dumb newspapers that keep saying they are Nigerians .


Infact, if you were to ask them personally, they would tell you they are citizens of their host country. So let us get that straight.


Lastly, the Nigerians that you mentioned are only doing the rubbish that they are doing because of foreign influence through social media. And you cannot use that as a yardstick to speak bad of Nigerian youths.

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BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

Raise your kids the God’s way. Whether African or American way. They will all fail you. Only God’s way will give you peace of mind

BadRadio:
Truth is that I am African but I dispise the standards in Africa. Africa seems too primitive, naive and backwards in terms of everything... and I've usually thought of raising my kids the British or American style.


of what importance is an African parents culture and tradition in raising their children the African way rather that the British or American way?


Would it be sensible if a child is a genius in English language than mother tongue.

Are there disadvantages.

Seems that you have already made up your mind, so why ask for strangers opinions on the internet?

Jaqenhghar:

Do yiu call bobrisky coded?
Abeg make we hear word

Bobrisky own na coded. Compared to what we have outside Nigeria

I am sorry, if I may ask have you lived or stayed in the so-called western world and see things yourself? Sometimes, you know experience is the best pointer!

Jaqenhghar:

Certainly most of them. Look at that shithole. Even with your money you cant get quality education. Is it not the "well raised" children that are constiuting a nuisance in countries like Malaysia?

Latinos,Arabs and Indians raise their kids in their respective tribes when they reside in western countries

doxijaw:


We are not ahead morally, infact we are fast becoming worse than them morally but still academically backwards.

Your average Nigerian sees immorality has advancement, progressive, but ignore the academic side.

Eg naija homo's will say Nigeria is backwards because they don't accept them, nudist, strippers, druggies,prostitutes also use similar arguments.

Culture and academics are two seperate entities.

No. We have immoral people just like they do, but we don't normalise immorality and impose it on everyone like they are always doing. There is a world of difference. At least we have a sense of shame when it comes to immorality; except when we try to be like them and adopt their foolishness under the guise of forward sounding labels like 'human rights', 'women's liberation', 'freedom of speech', 'free market' etc. Notice how much they use nice words like 'freedom, knowledge and liberation' to give inferior Africans a false sense of security, just like the biblical myth of Satan did when he allegedly got Eve to eat the apple.

We do not ignore the academic side. We just never sit down to think whether their style is adapted to our needs. Because of our inferiority complex, we simply believe that they are superior and we keep trying to emulate their methods to fulfill our needs. We fail to understand that their world is built on the basis of greed and hyperconsumerism which is not our culture here. So we are using the proverbial wrong tools for the right job, and we will keep failing in that sense.

Someone is suffering from mkpi-riori-iti kwomplex.

Here's a better question: do the British and Americans raise their children the African way?

Come and see spoilt children and you go weak.

Jashub:
Apart from homosexuality and vulgar language, what other thing do they have that is superior to ours?

A lot more. The common sense that is rare especially in Nigeria.

We wey them rub with African mud, African beating, African food, wetin we brought to de table?

Abeg raise a child right.

Shikenan