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Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 12:41pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476: Simple, by loving her. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by jadyclem(m): 12:41pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
HisMajesty1:Good as you don already know say you're stuck with them. All those team 'foreign ladies' wey specialize in bashing Nigerian girls and dem neva fit even get opportunity to cross enta Niger go realize las las say na d same babes wey dem don bash tire online be their only option for marriage. Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by COdeGenesis: 12:42pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: bbb You just went to quote half scripture to validate your false misconception of the bible. What you quoted above was in a different context. See the full passage here. It clearly stated that women should submit to their husbands. VS 21 was a follow up from VS 18 - 21 when he was addressing the church and how members of the church should live a life of purpose. VS 22 was specifically for Married Folks 15 Be very careful, then, how you live--not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. 18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head his same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their [b]own body, but they feed and care for their [/b]body, just as Christ does the church-- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 For this reason a man will of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In t[b]leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' 32[/b]This is a profound mystery--but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by addictiv(m): 12:43pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
When you date someone who wants to be with you but doesn't need you, then you ll understand what a relationship built on mutual respect and love truly is. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by pansophist(m): 12:44pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Men have no problem dating financially stable women, but their arrogance, non-submissiveness, disrespect and lack of obedience makes them impossible to appease, and are better left alone. And may God help you if she is from IMO state, then you'll have a little taste of hell on earth. Never met a submissive, virtuous woman from that place. But again, a man must be the kind a woman can submit to. No matter how much she makes, it must be irrelevant to you, and you should carry your financial responsibilities and never look at her money. If she adds, good, if she doesn't, ignore. Otherwise, she will believe she has power over you and lose respect and attraction. Women submit to power, the content and ingredient of their love is deeply rooted in power dynamics. Any man with a proper understanding of hypergamy will do well coexisting with so called independent ladies. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by sharone21(f): 12:48pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
doxijaw: Yes, same with women- look elsewhere. Una go come go jam South African women, later come dey complain say dey are vindictive. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Smile4mee01: 12:48pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
If as a man you marry a woman richer than you, you did not marry her o. She settled for you. See ehn. Women operate under Hypergamy instincts, it's hard for a woman to respect a man she outperforms financially. That's why at the least they marry a man on thier finaicial level. A man can see a poor girl hawking and working a low paying job and marry her. Ie. Christiano Ronaldo wife 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 12:54pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:Thats why men tend to go for the poorer spouse |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Mummymahdi(f): 12:55pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Some men enjoy their women contributing while some refuse the wife to contribute so she wont see any reason to look down on them. For me I can contribute to my family as much as I can, most times I do finish my money 100% b4 asking for anything, am d kind that never begs dur ing courtship and even after marriage. So he learnt to give me without me asking. My problem is how men clip the wings of most woman when they are opportune. They feel insecure or what to let the wife prosper? I can't comprehend |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 12:56pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476: That one becomes control now. The same poorer ones you guys complain are always asking for urgent 2k and transport fare? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 12:57pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:Simple becus u are a woman i guess. To make a richer wife get submissive to you is like a very broke man aiming for billions in 2 years to come. It will take the grace of GOD or maybe u are the backbone to her wealth. ITS NT AS SIMPLE AS U TOT 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 12:58pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476: Like I said, if you have to make a woman submit to you, there is already a problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by jadyclem(m): 1:01pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476:Submission is not earned, submission is given. A woman that truly loves you would have less difficulty submitting to you. Also, both men and women submit to each other. As a man, any time you respond to your wife's need, listen to her concerns and put her first, you're indirectly submitting to her at those instances and vice versa. Submission has nothing to do with your woman obeying all your others like a zombie without her having any say, it's more about how you both treat each other, relate with each other and respond to each other's needs and concerns. So if she loves you, submission would come naturally to her irrespective of whether she earns more or less. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:01pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:I dnt agree with u here. A woman can easily becum submissive to a rich man without the man forcing her to go against her wish. some girls asking for urgent 2k are richer than the guy that is been askd for the urgent 2k "most times is selfishness becus women believe they are meant to be enjoyn in every relationship". NOT ALL WOMEN 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by madridsta007(m): 1:02pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
IamBroke: Men do not want to date rude and insolent women. Whether financially stable or not. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by chatinent: 1:03pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
JastSiryin: You have a point. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:03pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
jadyclem:U said sumtin gr8 bt the part u talkd abt respecting all ur wish like a zombie isn't part of the submission i am talkn abt. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:04pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:I GET IT NOW |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by pozehnani(f): 1:05pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
So it's a slowpoke you want? If you want a woman to worship you, then be responsible for her 100% . As long as she's independent and responsible for herself then don't expect her to be 50% submissive to you. That's just the truth of I'm going to be honest with you. So you being "afraid" of approaching them is not out of place because you go hear am if you dare to cross their path. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 1:05pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476: So a poorer woman's basis for submission is cause her husband is to her than her? That's my point, there's s condition attached to it. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by fynex(m): 1:06pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
IamBroke: Don't know about other men, but me, I don't fear them... Is there anyone available? |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by toprealman: 1:07pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff: |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:08pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:IF U SAID SO |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by larryking540: 1:08pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Divoc19: you tell her wait ,don't do dis ,and she still choose to do watin day her mind ,when it back fires she will want you to help her out for solution and if you don't give a fuvk she says you arent careing ...... forgetting for she to date a guy older than her there are some end result the guy has encountered back to back which she hasn't ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 1:11pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Kelvin3476: Then what happens when the rich man no longer has money? Will the submission still remain? |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by larryking540: 1:12pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
pozehnani: na war zone such ladies go carry come marriage o ....don't forget,you can't turn a man to a puppet Bec you get money pass am ,last last he go tell u to pack out ,I know many ladies will jump to such a conclusion of leaving the man ....don't trade your family Bec of your money,it doesn't end well |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Toks2008(m): 1:12pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
IamBroke: I dont mind having a financially stable lady cos most of them love for the right reasons and they wont stress you asking for money to buy this or that. BUt i will prefer to date a humble lady from a lowly background so that i can be a source of blessing to her and her family and even if she misbehaves latter, it will still be on record that GOD used me to fulfil a purpose in her life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:14pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:Most will remain submissive. I will always say not all WOMEN |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Annistars: 1:14pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Who told u they are afraid, men too are looking for all ready made. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Kelvin3476: 1:15pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:WE BOTH ARE SAYING THESAME THING IN DIFFERENT WAYS. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by pozehnani(f): 1:16pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
larryking540: Well... Thats the demon behind money. It makes people think higly of themselves than others especially if they don't have the spirit of God. |
Re: Why Do Men Fear To Date Financial Stable Women? by Romanoff(f): 1:16pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
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