My own be say, any woe-man or FEE-male that i brought home after paying your family demands for you coconut head and you later vormit that trash in my house, I will ko ko ma pack your stuff and return you to your good parents.
When they ask me why, i will simply ask them the day i came to their house for their daughter, if i had come to their house alone if they would have accepted my request. If they say NO, then why is their daughter telling me to cut my family off?
I will not come for her again.
Atleast you respected her enough by paying house for your mum instead of her staying with you that she won't like.

Forumobserver12:


Even if he experienced financial set back, isn't it part life? Why must he attribute it to his mother being fetish?

Op's wife is a manipulative and evil woman, I thank God that I don't have such wife, God knows I cant tolerate such woman as a wife...

Yeah, she is.

[i][/i]To be honest, this man knows what he is saying, probably he loves his wife.

No good xtian would seek for divorce, cos once u do, u have sown a bad seed spiritually in your children if u have one.

Seek God's guidance, most people attacking u here about your wife, can't manage there homes o. Na lie na month most of them get. If woman tell some of them to sit down there, instantly they will.

Not let people spoil your home. Cos no matter how, u are your wife still have more than 60yrs to live together. But mama have less than dat years. So talk to her or seek councel from your pastor or your imam

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Sorry, I will be blunt. You have a very bad woman as a wife. "My before wife dey dey, but there is nothing like My before family"

Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

Which kind d advice be dis sef? So she born am she no dey fetish dat time na now wey one home divider come now she cone no say she is fetish.... fact is the wife is the fetish not the woman....

You must not let your wife know what you give to your mother. That's the only solution. Just avoid it to enter her knowledge.

Always remember. In this matter of a man relationship with parents visavis wife.
Your parents were the ones that took the risks and made the initiative investment in you (assuming you man is now an enterprise ),. When there was no guarantee of success, they still had the faith in you toiling till now that you have become a profitable venture, a going concern, admirable enough to attract a late-comer investor - your wife who turns around to take control. Isn't it funny

budaatum:


I am a feminist. I want to disagree with you. I want to disagree with you so very very much, but, but, but, I hate dull brain so the dummy must think!

No wonder. You bloody f*cking feminist psycho

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Your mother was not fetish when she was feeding you from birth, clothing you and taking care of you.

It is now you are repaying she will become fetish. Take control of your house and put that woman under your roof in check. Else you will have unnecessary issues.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Your wife is a witch and she will soon start taking your matter to babalawo

you said it all

MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

Another woman wrapper , fetish ko fetish ni .
As for that woman , your children wives will call you a winch too no be curse na simple law of attraction .
But Bobo, Her own mother must be a saint that pray for you that make everyone dey ok I guess ..
Get sense o oga oponu

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Oga poster you are very stu**pid and a foolish goat.

MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

You see, I am a woman for that matter but EE, you see all these shallow women that think marriage is everything they could achieve in their life time, na them dey mumu this and mumu. They see marriage as empowerment and use it o oppress whomever they can afterall, they are now in charge. Let the society continue to enforce them by telling them and their husbands that after marriage, their wives and children are their priority. Through such talks, those daughters of Jezebel now think they can do and undo whoever they find around their husbands. Confused society. How can a reasonable human descend this low and talk about a fellow human like this not to talk about someone's mother and the OP is there looking at a fool denigrating his mother and he dey even reason with the foolish daughter of Jezebel. Maybe, they need to tutor OP that women are arch rivals, whether old or young, big or small, short or tall, in what ever spec you find them, they employ everything in their arsenal to Mar or undo their rivals, including character assassination as the the major tool.
Mr OP, continue to reason with the foolish woman until she kills your mother. Nonsense. I am a woman but I can't deal with the shallowness of majority of us and makes sure I avoid them in my space.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Bros your wife must be Lady Morgana in "Merlin".

Account opened on March 10, 2021

Thread created on same day

Moved to front page post haste...

Hmm

I dey nod my head like Agama lizard....

Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

OP this is very useless advise

Run from people like this

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Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

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Trash

Your soul is a waste in that body

I won't say more

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Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

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I mchoose never to comment on topics like this because they are always nonsense and made by very weak crippled spirits who have no iota of aura strength.

You are already under a spell from your wife and it's a matter of time.before you become a spirit doll . You are so weak your aura is like dust and very soon the only real protection you have (your mum) will be cut of from you then your end of days begins.

You don't deserve any advise but to be mocked for such folly
Bye

Man!
Don't be lost!
Respect your mum and give her money but not through your wife.She will has no plan to harm you but protect you even from your wife not to collect your brain

OP I’m sorry to tell you that you are not a man, you’re just fortunate to carry prick in between your legs. If you allow your wife to come in between you and your mom or you allow him to take control of your life, you are finished, I swear you are completely finished

She’s being fetish to protect you.. if u know where ur mama don put leg to mk sure u succeed..

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

. Give me evidences that the woman is evils then I can advise you. For now she is still Innocent and deserves your care always

BigDick70inch:


Just imagine!!!

What useless advice r u seeking??
Yo mum was not fetish............while spending her hard earned money on u...........jux to see u prosper..........but now dat u lil bit comfortable..........

One daughter of jazabel,daughter of a thousand dad............is somewhere trying to pit u against her abi??I hate dull brain!!!!

Think dummy!............

May.........thunder fire that yo leprous fingers u used for typing this sef...........Amen!!

Infact........u really need to be dragged on fp..........
Lalaclala!!!!!!!!!!

My brother just imagine. Leave am make him yield to his wife. Since he doesn't want to be a man. He will be the one that will still come to nairaland to complain of his wife do this nd did that

Your wife is correct since u no get sense ,come I dey sale sense I fit even borrow you if u no get money to buy........ My brother just be prayerful.... My guy ones you do what your wife suggested na big bottle u enta so journey of no return

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Please remove that.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Pure lies, if your mother is a witch, you won't be alive till today. You're the man in that marriage, take charge and tame your wife

adadike:
Chuxx 84, can you even listen to yourself? Your wife is manipulating you! If she can not call her own mother a witch, then she dare not call yours a witch. Even if her mother is a witch, yours is not and will never be a witch. She is manipulating you big time . Your wife is wicked and your wife is also a witch because any woman suspecting her mother in law to be a witch just to make the son hate his own mother , is a big time witch. Biko, the next, time she dare even imagine such and you didn't handle her fucck up, I go vex for you o. Don't give her money meant for your mom, give your mom money by yourself and pls don't stop giving your mom love and attention. How many years do our parents even have to spend with us here on earth?

These women do these things forgetting their son will someday marry and they'll become mother in-law too. If their son's wife would do this to them, would they like it?

Your wife is manipulating you.

She is jealous of the money you give your mum.

It is not all money you give your mum that you tell your wife.

Guy , you are a man , act like one . ( if you are wise enough , you will understand what I mean by this )

Well, before I advise you I will tell you this and make sure you tell your wife that as she is treating your mother claiming she is a witch indirectly so shall her own in law too will do o because one day her own son too will marry and the wife will do thesame to her that's if her womb is still functioning.
My question is this, why is it every man's mum is always problem to many couples as claimed by these our new generational ladies and not their own mothers? Thanks

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Giving your mother money all the time is not sustainable. Instead, try setting up a business or some investments for her.

I don't even know what to say about your wife. I don't know how she can be so disrespectful towards the woman who gave birth to you and brought you up. The way she speaks to you shows how much disrespect she has for you too. You must be a very soft man.