Where is ur ambition wen u are fvcking her mumu

take heart , I was once there , but God saved me from delilah, take heart , and pray hard .

Guys are damn funny! You impregnated her, you didn't see that she lacked ambition... A so called ambitious guy whose konji dey hard for unambitious lady.....spits

Uprightness100:
If the Foundation be Destroyed , what can the righteous do?
Marriage is honorable with the bed undefiled..

When the Foundation has be broken and the bed defiled, whatever you see, you take it like that with Joy and No Complain..

WAIT WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU FOR CHRIST SAKE. YOU HAVE SOLUTION FOR EVERYTHING AND YOU ARE STILL AN ONLINE PASTOR. THE WAY YOU ARE SPAMMING EVERY THREAD IS NO LONGER FUNNY BRUH

Richy4:



Take it easy buddy... You are just sentencing him to BY FORCE MARRIAGE......with hard labour of cooking and cleaning.....

Well.he wasn't forced to move her into his flat or get her pregnant nor was he forced to have intimate relations sans condom, a good one which costs less than 500 naira.

Oh and he was not forced to forget to buy the babe postinor 2 after the action.

He deserves that lady. He should marry her. So that hia child does not curse him tomorrow

Men, in ur 20s don't do exclusive relationships with ladies. Spin plates and build ur wealth and status.

Women are dream killers

in this 21 century you're falling in love with Pusey, sexy and look then what about peace of mind, her skills in the kitchen, her productivity?



almost all straight men love sex but the basic things of going in a date with a lady is missing in your relationship, now you're about to elevate that calamity to marriage at the detriment of your own peace? a lady that couldn't hide her weird life in the relationship, will do worse in the marriage


I won't advise you to leave her and I won't allow you to stay but you've your choice before penetrating dick in her legs, so follow your mind

She is really a lazy girl friend

When u were diving in raw, did u reason all this?. I wonder how you people invest in useless relationships, like is it worth the time and all that?.

my guy manage am like that this life nobody complete.

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told

Speaking from experience, don't rush into the marriage simply because a baby is on the way. Do the introduction and pause things. Take the next one year or two to slowly work things out with each other. Either she becomes responsible or you don't marry her. Be as supportive as possible.
If you rush into this marriage, you will be solving one problem after another. Nobody ll be happy

Why involving us now?

Men pay attention oh, better get a woman that works before engaging into a relationship with her, in this generation it’s VERY necessary to have a working spouse, things rough. Gone are the days of house wife

But you were seen her as being lazy and unambitious when you were filling her tank?

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

Somebody is four months pregnant! You already agreed to marry, set a date for introduction and now you want to back out. How indecisive and selfish can that be. There's no perfect person anywhere. You have to compromise, show understanding and support her at least she's willing to listen. What you should do is have a honest conversation with her and not end things.

Op...don't just condemn her and call her lazy....yes, that's cause sh is now pregnant with an unwanted baby...look at something good about her just like when you met her and focus on to rekindle your love....

If the no-job thing is the p, try setting her up or assist her in job hunt...there is certainly good about someone......

If you get the very kind of gal you desire,you might even die of trouble...independent minded working class gals are also very worrisome..all they give to you is pride that they work here and here.....but many of them are still alarmingly stingy, almost all are uncontrollable by their partner, they shout back during quarrels,never apologise and always rob on your race what their money can do for them with out you..

Yes,you will solve the problem of the gal's laziness but incurs new problems that may lead to multiple divorce...

Guy! Appreciate your babe!

She lacks ambition and you were busy fvcking her?

marriage is not like boyfriend and girlfriend matter oo be wise!

Your complain is untenable.Na today you am.. Moreover you get a perfect woman so also perfect man..Tell her to adjust or make do it ..no cold feet is accepted

First paragraph, and back to title..and I'm done reading the trash.


Nonsense and ingredients.

u no well

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

I don't think your partner is really lazy, just say u are running away from responsibility. Build her and build a family esp now that she's pregnant, that way you live a good life. Is not funny having your kids from different women, ask those born in polygamous homes and they will tell u better

Alwys be careful of whatever you gets free. Olosho would have saved you more money and stress

jondon11:
So I met my girl about a year ago during the start of the lockdown. We bonded real quick...she's easy-going, sorta smart, mad sexy and funny. Two months after we started dating, she moved in with me and began shuttling between my place and her sister's.

I work from home and my place is structured such that there's not much to do to maintain it. Although I work from home, I go out now and again for business and during my time out I run most of the errands...my girl ensures that it's only when I'm going out that she gets whatever she needs, from the market or errands around the area mainly cause she's often in a pant and bra watching a movie or just being lazy. She's a good cook but a lot of times I found chow coming late or not at all, and there was always raw food to prepare...sometimes her excuse for not cooking could be she couldn't get one ingredient or the other either because she didn't have cash on her or some other reason...there's mobile money just outside our gate and if she doesn't have the money she can call me to make a transfer but the main issue was laziness. I swept and mopped like 80% of the time, ran errands like 100%, cooked like 20% or the time (starved like 20% or sorted myself out someway), she did dishes 80% of the time and I brought like 100% of the money we lived on.

She is doing her MSc and our relationship started during the lockdown so she wasn't going to school. She was job searching (more like job waiting) so this gave her a lot of idle time which she spent watching Zee World or being on social media. I soon found a way to engage her in the job I do from home, and with the money she had saved in the bank (over 400K), she started work with me. I purchased a laptop for her for this purpose and so she could develop herself in other areas via online courses but she didn't do much work...working like two hours daily, very late at night...I sometimes complained but tried encouraging her as much as possible, especially when she made some success.

I'm sure you'd ask why I stayed in the relationship despite all of this? I was pussy whipped, had no other options given the nature of my work, saw some potential in her ( I know, a stupid thing to say) and thought I was in love (I'm 29 and shouldn't have been that stupid).

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

Since then till now, we've been quarrelling non-stop, one issue after another of which it's mainly me raising the issues. Maybe it's the tension that comes from knowing I might be starting a family with so many unresolved issues. I've raised my concerns and told her she'd need to be more responsible in the relationship if things will work and even though she tells me she knows, I know deep down she doesn't mean it or might not be up to the task of being a married adult. From some of our talk she expects I'd take care of all the financial responsibilities and have suggested a couple of times we get help for chores (we've moved to a bigger space now) but I told her in clear terms that that's not how I imagined my life...having help for chores and the likes, besides, it's just a two-bedroom flat.

I've purchased some of the things we'd be needing for our wedding and we're supposed to do an introduction this coming week but I'm having cold feet and just want to call it off.

I'm bringing this here to know how I can manage this situation...I can be lazy but I'm a really ambitious person so this pushes me but my girl is not just lazy, but unambitious. How do I manage the situation...there's a child involved now and will need to consider the child but at the same time, I can't take on this much stress nor have my ambitions cut short because my partner is lazy.

What can I do??

if you ask me, I don't think she is lazy. She might be having a mental illness like depression or adhd that makes people lack the motivation to do things like house chores. Just discover what she loves doing and you'll be stunned.

Abeg no lady is perfect
Build her
Every woman tends to be lazy
Work together
Treat her like ur child
Give her rules and take her rules
Buy her washing machine, vacuum cleaner
Women are not slaves

jondon11:
So

Fast forward to December last year, we discovered she was pregnant, a month pregnant. Told her we should keep the child and get married...she suggested we could abort since we weren't quite ready but I said what was a couple more months gonna make a difference?

This is what caught my attention. Very strange. Usually it's the other way round - you ask her to terminate because you don't think you guys are that serious or not ready and she wants to keep it. My suspicion is that she's not that into you and didn't really want to take things to the next level. 'Her mind no dey there', hence her not feeling motivated to do all those things that you are interpreting as laziness. Most women are not powered by strength like men. Most women are powered by motivation and emotions. If they are not happy, they can sleep in bed all day but when happy and motivated, they can work for days non stop.

It looks like you forced her hand into this marriage/ next level thing.

Congratulation

meobizy:
Happy Father’s Day in advance. I hope you saved enough. Pampers don dey cost for market.

bros, u wicked!

She got ambition when you were fvking her abi ....

wen u were fucking her raw she didnt lack ambition shey, yeye dey smell







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