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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Erums(m): 9:57am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kestolove: Calm down... Dm me |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Chummynoni(m): 10:00am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MummyD2020:there is no where in my quote i told him to abandon his kids. the lady is a nag, and she doesnt appreciate the guy's effort. although, the money is small but for d lady to be threatening to leave him, her mind is made up already. my comment was to let the guy knows that there is no need chasing shadows. peace* |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Erums(m): 10:01am On Mar 16, 2021 |
justt: Very correct |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by od501: 10:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
osazsky: Well done sir. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Gerrard59(m): 10:06am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Just read that you got a loan to marry but you couldn't do same for condom or abortion? Mr Man, you are irresponsible! https://www.nairaland.com/6035550/nigerians-poverty-certain-acts-perpetuate 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by shomutuski(m): 10:07am On Mar 16, 2021 |
setobaba: Exactly why i mentioned rat race. Bros this man in question sef old pass me oo with 3 years. I run two remote job overseas and one regular one here and i don't even want a relationship now. I'll rather enjoy myself now. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by blackboy2star(m): 10:10am On Mar 16, 2021 |
From your write up, you love your wife but the problem is MONEY... Your monthly income can't sustain you guys, that's the fact... The only solution is to get a better job. Right from childhood i told my self my wife must be working or selling something, i don't like the idea of house wife. Next time input your work experiences after the whole epistle, you never can tell who will help you. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 10:13am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Slynation:Please tell us we need to learn abeg 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 10:16am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Kestolove: |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 10:19am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Angelacruz:I tire |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Prospertochu(m): 10:28am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Laboni: I know that 25k is not enough even that 55k is still not enough I give what I can afford, there's nothing I can do right now, if I get a well paid job I will give her more money to satisfy all her needs , have told her to be patient and this conditions is not permanent all she does is fighting me for more money. if I die now won't she take care of those kids alone? She want me to stop giving my mother that 10k ain't she a mother herself, we have 2 sons what if one day our sons gets married and their wives stop them from helping her, how would she feel. I will not stop helping my mother because they are both important to me. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Jossyfine(f): 10:29am On Mar 16, 2021 |
I never said his wife should prepare both breakfast and lunch. I said she can prepare breakfast or better still (means she can either) prepare lunch and pack for him. See marriage is a whole lot of sacrifice and hard work, all of you single ladies asking God for a spouse, don't ever think marriage is child's play. You must factor out how to put a whole lot of things in place in your home. Nagging can't and has never solved any problems, ask your mothers. When you see homes(marriages) that are flowing with milk and honey, just take your time to study the women of the house mode operandi. Sisters learn from the wise. Shalom � sandygechy: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 10:35am On Mar 16, 2021 |
femi4:Hahaaha please |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Laboni: 10:36am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:I understand you bros and I’m your side. Like you said, there is nothing you can do about it and if she threatens to abandon you and the kids, tell her to hurry and leave because she isn’t adding any value to your life. And like I said, find ways to expand your source of income, even if it requires menial jobs as long as you’re making extra income, it’s something. The truth is that that person that will take care of the kids if she eventually leave will still request money from you and possibly, way way more than what you give your wife and if you don’t provide, it will cause another problem for you. so brace up because the road is still very long and rough. I don’t know the kind of area you live with your wife, but if she can be able to start selling morning food, like this morning white rice, beans with stew and just get a table and chairs under a tree within your neighborhood, she will be amazed the kind of money she will be making in a month. Many women are doing it and they are making a kill. Before 11am to 12pm, she is done for the day and then rest and then prepare for tomorrow... Just a suggestion. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by thelish(f): 10:37am On Mar 16, 2021 |
berrystunn: Hmmmmmm Thank God u said "girl" Not a woman with triplet and extra two mouth to Carter for.. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 10:42am On Mar 16, 2021 |
descarado: |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Kaymansion(m): 10:48am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Though I feel your pain but that regretting word is no no for me, did you think giving a birth to triplets successfully is easy.. just continue praying for her, accept your faith and be grateful for the great gift God has given to you |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Mindlog: 10:50am On Mar 16, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Sadly, they are gambling with infant mortality. 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Malawian(m): 10:52am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:If your kids are old enough to be on their own, let that bitch go. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by setobaba: 10:58am On Mar 16, 2021 |
shomutuski:I own a car and have started making my first millions since last year plus I’m a graduate but self employed, we are in the same age range but yet I’m as scared as Bleep to keep a woman for my wife 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 11:00am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Your mum that opens her hands to collect from u should have a rethink. If she has a source of supporting herself, she should desist from now on first. Yes you should take care of our parents, but in this situation, shes is even supposed to give her quota. Nawa oh |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Prospertochu(m): 11:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
MummyD2020: She is homeless and living in church at the moment, where do you expect her to get the money from? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Mindlog: 11:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Malawian: The kids are less than 2 years old. His mother can not come in to take care of the triplets because he said his mother is presently living in a church after her sister sent her packing from her place and she can not live in his father's family house where he presently lives with his wife and triplets because his paternal uncles and aunts do not want to see her there! 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by showafrica(m): 11:04am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Duru9: Na the problem be this na, the guy no wan responsibility right now. 25k no reach anywhere, the girl go finally leave him but the right thing to do is to find work support her husband instead of nagging. Its unfurtunate some people go hammer the girl finally. Both of them are not matured for this... I pity the kids. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Prospertochu(m): 11:05am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Mindlog:Thanks |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Mindlog: 11:10am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu: Is it not possible to broker peace between your paternal uncles, aunts and your mother, your mother squatting outside your family house is not helping matters because if she was in the family house it would reduce your wife's workload and free her a bit to go out to earn something as your kids need to feed well and good health care to avoid infant mortality. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by showafrica(m): 11:15am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu: Bro u dey fear responsibility, na waiting all man must see be that. U no need to fight the small girl, just carry the 55k open kiosk for her in front of ur house. Seeing people has a way of taking her attention off from you. 25k no reach anywhere. Children dey gulp 12k milk within 1wk, alternatively make she go find work then bring a house help. The issue with work now is her mentality is not stable on marriage. She can easily be nakked with 2k. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Malawian(m): 11:17am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Mindlog:The guy matter tie gele. I am all for the well-being of the kids and not for any aggrandizement for the baby mama/Wife. I advise to take a little more rubbish from the baby mama until the kids are ready to be on their own, then you change it for her. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by 2mch(m): 11:18am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:Have a conversation with your uncles and aunties first. That the help is for you and your wife, so you can grow financially and be able to get your own place. If your mum is the troublesome type, assure them that you will control her behavior. Or you go and bring your wife’s mother. You both need help with those kids, reliable one so you can both plan how to provide for them financially. Your sister also needs to find work. Help her find work so she can assist with your mum too. If it is that they will be selling food with that 10k you give them. Your wife can also go into the food business or day care business while she’s at home. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by mercyymai(f): 11:25am On Mar 16, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: I said when the babies are of age. They can be drop at day care. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 11:29am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:Ok, I didnt know that |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 11:34am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Malawian: Speechless! |
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