Health Wise it's not right because she can infect the child with mouth disease.

I don't know why a mother will chose to kiss a baby in the mouth.

The cheeks and forehead is fine but definitely not the mouth. Let her stop it. It's not healthy.

This question is not necessary since there's no solution on ground to tackle it.

So if you finish collating this info and data now what will you or anyone do to help the situation? So, not necessary.

aujile:
I think what he saw is called fiofio (I don't know if it's the same you referred to as Oyile) not the regular beans he cooked instead.

Yeah. It's the same as oyile.

ahnie:
Hello op,pls I need some clarification.pls is ukpaka same as ugba?



The igbos in the house too can still clarify.
Thanks!

Yes they're same. Ugba is general igbo while Abians call it Ukpaka.

Elvis778:

It's Achicha,
they used a beans called Agbugbu otherwise known as fiofio(looks more like peageon pea, u can also use peagon pea, that's the akidi u know)
then the second major ingredient is dried coaco yam (dried Ede) that's pounded and made to look like gritty sand
Then red oil
Onions
Yellow Pepper(for the flavour) and
Ukpaka
Very simple Ingredients.

Ok.
Yes fiofio is what Edo people call Ukpele.

I love that achicha like kilode... But in my place we don't use this beans. We simply use nchuanwu ( scentleaf).

Nice.

gammarays:

I knew I couldn't get the exact ingredients especially the small beans so that's my improvised version

Oh.. I see.
Cool though.

It's a Ghanaian delicacy I guess.

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Country hard. Guyman gats settle himself.

It is well.

Is it not the same thunderstorms Neimeth forcasted last week that is still rampaging the community? ..

Let parents know their children indoors for now. Biko.

So sad.

Lol

I see, I saw
I see the beans, agwa
I take the pot ite
I cook, me siwe ya

I cook the bean agwa ya mewe ihun owuon
Owuon
Owuon
It ite gi o di kwa nko?
Owuon, owuon...

Hahahahaaaa

After all the effort put into making what you saw, ended up like normal porridge beans...


On a more serious note.
I think your mistake was from the kind of beans you used and the ingredients. In the original one, it looks like they used black beans the Edo people call oyile or ukpele.

If it's not any of those beans, then they used kporokporo stem to achieve that color.

WEEDdemgirls:
I pity the innocent girl that last met you.

Pity her for what?
Is she suppose to be sleeping around with someone she's not married to?
Mtcheeeeewwwwwww...

Return my foot!
Shey with his menia job that cannot foot all the bills?
Let her not return it. In fact, if he dares to touch her again, let her dump his sorry ass and go plan her life with the 2m. What?

She even played the good wife by telling him about it, he now wants to form one commando and be flexing his muscles on the woman.
Ya rie nsi ebawan.

Ishilove:

This is for those of you who want your partner to propose in public because you have seen it on social media. It's all fake and prearranged.

Don't believe most things you see online.

He was not talking about marriage engagement. She meant engaging her "services" to play a role in his comedy show.

..

So sad.

Let her stop the job before she lands herself in the hospital.
I know she needs the job to support and take care of the home but the robotic lifestyle it's causing her to live is not healthy for her and the marriage.

If she refuses to stop, then you'll have to adjust to the new noriand work your way around your sexual life and other aspects her demanding job is affecting.

Remember, Sex will not give solve her financial problem.

Adamgeneral12:

Say if she open up patapata shebi na him we go see how we go direct her,may be there is an error somewhere.
Make we just dey advising her as you said so that baba God no go go give person query

I know sometimes it can be very overwhelming and you want to give up but sometimes one needs to encourage oneself assuming there's no one to encourage you.

David encouraged himself in the Lord when he lost all to the enemy in the battle. Then he prayed and inquired of God if he should pursue after them?.

God told him to pursue, over take and recover all and he did. He didn't turn to Satan.

Na to dey encourage oneself in the Lord be the thing.

Adamgeneral12:

I know that she already move out of track of salvation,why we need to put her back on track is for the benefit of us all that saw and read her post.
Oga,if we ignore her and let her dive into any bad thing it can affect us or someone negatively.

Her choice can only affect HER and her alone. Nobody would be dragged into it because she has heard the gospel, therefore has no excuse to justify her actions. And the Bible says only those who endure to the end shall be saved.

Even at this juncture, she still has the grace to change her mind. From some words of encouragement here so far.

No one is judging her. Only advising her to chose the right path like God already did.

KELVINXY:


How Gullible.!

Lemme tell you a story in which you Our dearly loved would be the victim…

Once upon a time..
You are or were a tenant in a compound
And unfortunately you are not in good relationship with one or two neighbors (and in this story our dear readers here have no idea why or where the hatred emanated from or rather were not told, probably because they are hearing it from the other party),

So as your story continues…..

One day
A new tenant packs into the next apartment and it turned out the 1st people the new tenant met were those ones that doesn’t really like you because of their personal reasons or previous misunderstandings,
so they got all friendly with this new neighbor, tell him/her all sort of shady things about you ( which may or not be true about you).

So upon your arrival to the compound,
This new brainwashed neighbor already has this bad image of you..he/she will definitely see you as a bad person and automatically starts avoiding you and possibly hating you too without getting to know you or even hear your own side of the story..
In this chapter you are the Devil.

The End.

SMH.

Dtruthspeaker:


Most people already belong to the-evil, so there is nothing to sell.

They are just securing and guaranteeing that they would never divorce the-evil, that is what they are doing.

Yeah. You're right.

Kobojunkie:
What interview? Michael Jackson confess to what? Nonsense.. all of that na yeye rumors bad belly people spread about the poor man.

https://www.quora.com/Where-did-the-conspiracy-that-Michael-Jackson-sold-his-soul-to-the-devil-come-from

There was one time he said on stage after performaning that he sold his soul to the devil.

Well.. .

Kobojunkie:
What proof do you have of this claim you made of Micheal Jackson selling his soul? Why would you even believe that a true story to begin with?

Have you not watched some of his interview where he confessed to it. Besides, from all he was going through, one can tell he didn't have peace.

You may want to watch his sad moments and the things he said during those times.

With all the money he made in Southy, he can't get a property of his own?

By the way, was it willed to him?
Let him better not provoke the spirit of his dead father.

Prodigal son.

Some are selling at 10 and some are selling at 20 per one. Though the ten naira piece is like bottle cork. ( No jokes here) and its very flat.

Crazy.

He's gone bunkers.

You no dey Taya for women matter?

Rest abeg!

AloneTK:


Cruel thing to do bro!
Body shaming a fellow human isn’t right.
You could have just read through and move on.
Making toxic comments is unhealthy.

My apologies if you feel offended. My piece was born out of concern and the need to draw your attention to what you wrote up there.

You don't even know who you're defending. That woman there has the baddest mouth and character.

I remember when I newly joined this forum, I always see her abusing guys and discouraging girls from having anything to do with men. Then she was using her funmiyastic moniker. In fact, she was a popular feminist. I never knew it's because she didn't have a man in her life.

Women... Hm!

Mogadishuu:
See I don't have anything against you or your new found love/ bae but I am glad you chose to change bae.

You and your former dude (jalodo or whatever his moniker was) that found each other earlier on nairaland are fcukingUGLY. Yes the truth is bitter ... Two Ugly people should never make babies.

No jokes, y'all both ugly and I am glad you both went your ways. There are enough monsters in the world already than for the two of you to make baby monsters.

Lolzz