vickydevoka:

Men without money in 9ja in useless. So what do u expect. Nobody want to be shamed

Eggroll or egg? How can eggroll explode?

Please check and correct what you wrote up there. I think you meant egg.

By the way, that was egg bomb.

Desperados:




Haha, i was equally tinking about it cos me sef dey fear u.



i nor want my news to reach nairaland lik,
"MAN FAINTED AFTER GIRLFRIEND SHOWERED HIM TOO MUCH LOVE"


I don close my inner door back abeg







(drops pen).

Lol.... Okey-dokey then.

Oplomo:


If the kind of guys approaching you are dreadlocked guys or dyed hairs with torn-style jeans, then wahala dey for you.

Even guys without these attributes you mentioned are doing it too.

Look at majority of the ones being paraded with human body parts, how many have dreads? In fact, most of them are on low cut hairstyles. So what are we not saying.

Most men are potential ritualist. Sorry to say.

Desperados:



well, i just pick up my pen again because of you and i'm glad you agreed to the fact and simple truth.


About the innocent ones, the only incidents you can be afraid of are cases of kidnap and rape.



So i will advise u to be careful and tread wisely.

There are a lot of things i could share here about guys so you know how to watch ur company wit them.





Since you are afraid of going into any relationship,
i am opening my door once again and giving you the chance to come in and you will get rest of mind.

Lol... You? Nah...

tunjilana:
Let your first few dates be in open places till u know them well enough

Go for people with verifiable careers

If they are into business try to be double sure before becoming very free with them

Reduce your greed

Its not only at first dates one should be careful but also in old relationships because the last news I read, they have been dating for years. So obviously, the lady has known this guy for long but still he used her and had the mind to stay with her corpse in the same room for six days before he was caught.

Its just so sad.

Pejumolabalie:
Simple! Date broke men

They are even the ones with higher tendencies to do money rituals.

Who do we now trust?

obembet:
I tire o...

I don search tire.. but I will join Rev sister soon Sha...

Lol... I tell you dear.

Just serving God and enjoying life is the way to go for now.

Parisian:
You're 100% correct. Infact I wanted to create this particular topic but you beat me to it...

That gender, I fear who no fear them. Honestly, I fear them so much that once I hear "let's meet" I feel traumatized. Meet you why? How? With all the ritual killings going on if I was your sister would you advice me to meet you ?

Lol.. like seriously and he may not even be one of them but no body is ready to risk their life trying to know if he's one or not.

Sad!

Desperados:





(drops pen).

Ouch! That was too harsh. Mind you what you cited is not always the case. Besides here we are talking about the Innocent ones that are victims of this circumstance.

Mrkcee:
This is a very interesting piece & deserves Frontpage.

It's a pity sincerely, I really feel sad that these things are happening and it's happening even more than we know because not all the cases make it to social media & definitely not all are reported to authorities.

It is fast becoming a norm; it's not even a matter of young boys (Yahoo boys) anymore, even older men do it
My advice to ladies out there...
1)Avoid relationships for now.
2)Avoid late nights
3)Do not accept invitations to hotels, brothels, houses, anywhere other than a public place like an eatery.
4)AVOID MEN
5) No. 1 and 4
It's a trend, and just like every other trend it will pass-by.

It is scary and I sincerely pray it passes quickly because many ladies are due for marriage and it will only plunge them into longer waiting and delay if this thing lingers on more than necessary.

For now, Everyone is a suspect until proven otherwise but how? How can you be sure for certain that such an one is not a potential ritualist without moving close due to fear?

Humanity has lost it!

Only God can save his own.

What are your views guys and ladies?

Let's not keep quiet and pretend like these things don't happen or they are only fictional or things you see only on social media. They are real!!!!

Eeeww.. looks like vomit!

What's vegetable soup doing inside jollof by the way? .

oldienavie:

I just can't stop laughing.
You are simply refusing to take responsibility for your own actions.
My dad drinks alcoholic, used to be a philanderer who was always running after women and did not know how to manage his finances with some other things.

I have used him as a reference point in my life to ensure I do not live the kind of life that he lived. Despite the fact that I look like him physically, I have ensured that the life I live is completely different from the life he lived.
Despite that I have the opportunity to practise what he did due to my exposure as I have lived abroad for many years, I have ensured to live a responsible life.
The life you live is your choice, do not blame your dad lifestyle.

So stop giving excuses for your own actions, take responsibility. If your dad has a terrible trait, ensure you do not make the same mistakes he made and make your own life better and be more responsible.

Wow! Very sensible and full of wisdom.
I like your take on this one.

Can we be friends?

This calls for serious concern especially for the female folk as ladies are the ones at the receiving end of this whole cruelty and madness of ritualism that has become the order of the day in our already decaying society.

The rate at which female body parts are being ripped on a daily basis by their supposed boyfriends and lovers leaves me wondering if one can still have a genuine guy/relationship without having to watch your back that he's going rip your organs the next minute.

Right now, its very difficult to agree to date a guy without the fear or thoughts of being used for rituals because the heart of every Young guy/man has been seered with a hot iron and so hardened and desperate to make money at all cost that they wont think twice when presented with an opportunity to do money rituals.

These days if a guy approaches me, I walk as fast my legs can carry me and I'm most tempted to scream "ritualist!!!!
It is that bad.
A guy can not approach you and the next thing on your mind is rituals. Like seriously, its appalling.

Please, with this rising trend of killing and havesting female body parts, is it still advisable to accept guys/ mens advances talk more dating them?. And don't even begin to tell me to go to my religious circle because they are everywhere. Some are disguising as bro in the church. In fact 90% percent of men are desperate to get rich quick therefore can be easily influenced by this evil trend.

What should we single ladies do?
Avoid men totally?

I like my life abeg.

Sad.
.. I

Sad mehn..

Gbam!

Not a good idea to keep such amount of money at home.

Who's this one again?

Confused bunch.

Ehen! ... They have started real life Nollywood movie and I seem to like the action part Pete Edochie is taking. Im fully with him on this one.

Let that unrecognized leech go and look for her own husband.

I'm liking the turn and tune of things with the intervention of Pete.

Ride on Sir. You are not given the role of a tough and strict father-in-law in movies for nothing.

Lalasticlala!!

That is Yoruba style of cooking egusi soup, which isn't totally bad but not ideal.

I prefer my egusi soup without tomatos. I cook mine the native way and if you taste it, hmmm... You'll know the tomato version is a counterfeit.

If you use fresh pepper to fry your egusi before adding stock, it will still give you that tomatoes taste. That's another way I cook my egusi if I don't wanna go the native way. However, egusi with the right native fish and spices beasts the "tomatorized" version. .

Lalasticlala you care to tell us how the snake (egusi) version taste?

It means so many things.
Some may want to weigh you or your net worth to know if you are the type of person they should get close to for some benefits.

Others may want to compare levels with you to know if they are better than you or vice versa.

For some, the quest may be coming from a good place I'm their heart like just wanting to be able to check on you any time out of sheer concern and nothing more.

Strangebuttrue:
sensible comments only pls

For nairaland? Be like you just come.
Wait for more senseless comments because that's what you get here most times. It their way on here.

See this one. You're not thankful to God its not the type of hotel where they kill people remove their body parts for rituals.. madam rester. .

Anyways, me I don't mind such practice because at least, you're assured of safety and security; considering the evil that is been perpetrated in Hotels these days.
One can always go back and rest after the prayer session.

Lazy blob!

Actually, diet is the way to go if you want visible and fast results.

Trust men at your own peril.


I don't blame the women for giving it to them tit for tat these days.

A Dog will always be a dog.

Men are becoming something else. Its even difficult to date a man these days.

Go and do registry with her and use the certificate.

you better si

SMH

Looks like bridal train outfit of those days/yesteyears. Not befitting for her age and status.

Its a miss.