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castro316:
My man lissten to The best advice. Marry the love of your life and keep your marriage of social media. In marriage there is no age barrier as far as you both have good plans for each other. Its better marrying more mature women because they have more to offer than dependent small girls. You have got to a new beginning of your life don't spoil it with the advice of your mum. No marriage doesn't come with hardships or individual differences. So ride on bro

LoveThemChubby:
All i see U say here is how you cannot leave her because of what she has done for U but i want you to sincerely answer these questions:
1. If she no longer has the capacity to cater for U, will you still love and want to be with her?
2. Is her provision the only motivating factor behind you wanting to be with her?
because from what you said, your mom also likes the benefits you are getting from the lady only that she sees your settling down with her as a disaster.
FINAL WORD: please carefully analyze the situation without sentiments. Perhaps you might agree with your mom that even though you enjoy her benevolence, settling down with her is not the best idea. #Selah

chihes:
Are you sure you really love this girl or is it because she is rich? Why I asked this question is because you mentioned alot about her money and the things she has done for u. Pls check yourself. I dont think your mum is refusing you both getting married just because of the age-gap. Personaly I dont see anything wrong about that once there is true love. But my dear at 24, I think you are too young to marry a rich lady who you contributed nothing to her wealth. I dont think you are man enough to handle her. If you were to be a lady getting married to a rich man at 24, its ok but a man...Ha! I wonder how its gonna be. Maybe mama is right. I think you should slow down and work towards making your own money for now.Just tell the lady to be patient and build up yourslf first. Dont worry about her age, if she is truely yours, everything will be fine and work out perfectly. But be a man first.

VictorRomanov:
You mom dey save you plenty heartache. It's clear that you re inexperienced. It's not even the age gap. It's the fact that she's going go be the breadwinner. And you re very comfortable with it. It's only a matter of time before she begins to make decisions you re suppose to make. Or put simply, begin to overrule your decision as family head. Think three times. If you can't, ask those who are into it.

Thegeneralqueen:
Dude always feeling like a boss when he got nothing

Thegeneralqueen:
No one wants to date you a broke boy doesn't deserve to have an erection

Preshy561:
money is good naw,I have a standard and I cant settle for less.

Preshy561:
thegeneral queen,easy with prexhbills abeg.
lmao,those your memes are really funny.

Shugavee:
Nothing like wife material abeg!!! Irresponsible men n women stil get married!! Even if u get such qualities from a lady that's no guarantee of a happy marriage!

Thegeneralqueen:
Same way I wonder who is toying around with your destiny boy


No wonder your mum isn't in support of your gold digging attitude......
https://www.nairaland.com/4445976/mom-doesnt-want-me-marry#66608986

Prettyyemi:
shut d hell up...
The essence of marriage is to procreate..
God said be fruitful and multiply..
So d most important thing about marriage is procreation,and how do we procreate??
Through sex of course..
Though it's for married people only..

midolian:
dont be fooled by his rant brother, he might not even have a loaf..i know his likes

emperortony:
Are you sure its her and not the money you really love

yeyerolling:
parental blessing has no impact on the success of a marriage. Call her bluff

FromZeroToHero:
men age like wine while women age like milk. God created Adam first before Eve so a man should be older than the woman. in the next 20 years when she must have finished giving birth she will definitely look far older than you as if she is the one that gave birth to you. secondly for you to move into a woman's house and for her to agree to sponsor the marriage is an error. you will loose your authority and respect as the head of the Family because from the look of things she will still be the one to cater for you after marriage.

Thegeneralqueen:
And you have to quote the owner of this forum to prove your point this shows that you dealing with low self-esteem issues oh poor boy

faithfull18:
Why?

fancy4eve:
pple wey get money no dey talk, so shut up

Richies4gud:
everybody is a king behind keyboard, even the ones that can't afford standard food.

Thegeneralqueen:
Oh yes you don't have a job same as you are......
which cars so it has gotten to a point where you're no longer ashamed of yourself the cars that belongs to that commissioners daughter is what you're calling your car dude you just played yourself

Seun:
time waits for no man. when you realize it's too late, you'll regret the time you wasted on social media.

donstan18:
Mad women full Nland ooo

faithfull18:
Educative.. Have a look at my profile.

yeyerolling:
U had mention she is rich and u stay with her. Guy u be gold digger.

Thegeneralqueen:
Coming from someone who doesn't have a job boy the level of your stupidity keeps getting bigger...... I'm happy for you

Darkseid:
While I don't see anything bad in marrying someone older than you, you need to have something that would make her respect you. In your case, she is older, richer and you are also living in her house; honestly bro, I just pray you don't become the houseboy after marriage.

Shugarlord213:
Marry her she is obviously better than some jobless girls with Mtn 1200 subscription

Make your own money and do your normal for her. If your mama no free no send am too. Na your life now not hers..

Thegeneralqueen:
Go back and keep sucking your sugar mummy's pu**y it's not yet beak time

Thegeneralqueen:
What the hell is this dude inhaling I guess you're high on lace blunt that's why you can't see clearly...... I hope you're still sucking the p***y of that commissioner's daughter broke boy

Thegeneralqueen:
It only takes a dreamer nothing to quote one