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1dafullymade:
niz one op...indeed u can learn to love someone

yea,thanks

Chizzy20:
nyc1

thanks

During a seminar, a woman asked,"
How do I know if I am with the right
person?"
The author then noticed that there
was a large man sitting next to her so
he said, "It depends. Is that your
partner?" In all seriousness, she
answered "How do you know?" Let me
answer this question because the
chances are good that it's weighing on
your mind replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle…
In the beginning; you fall in love with
your partner. You anticipate their
calls, want their touch, and like their
idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't
hard. In fact, it was a completely
natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything.
That's why it's called "falling" in
love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was
swept off my feet."Picture the
expression. It implies that you were
just standing there; doing nothing,
and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and
spontaneous experience. But after a
few months or years of being
together, the euphoria of love fades.
It's a natural cycle of EVERY
relationship. Slowly but surely, phone
calls become a bother (if they come
at all), touch is not always welcome
(when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,
drive you nuts. The symptoms of this
stage vary with every relationship;
you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you
were in love and a much duller or even
angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner
might start asking, "Am I with the
right person?" And as you reflect on
the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that
experience with someone else. This is
when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a
relationship is not finding the right
person; it's learning to love the
person you found.
People blame their partners for their
unhappiness and look outside for
fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment
comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But
sometimes people turn to work, a
hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or
abusive substances. But the answer to
this dilemma does NOT lie outside
your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall
in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better.
But you'd be in the same situation a
few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a
Relationship is not finding the right
person; it's learning to love the
Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or
spontaneous experience. You have to
work on it day in and day out. It takes
time, effort, and energy. And most
importantly, it demands WISDOM. You
have to know WHAT TO DO to make it
work.
Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are
specific things you can do (with or
without your partner), Just as there
are physical laws Of the universe
(such as gravity), there are also laws
for relationships. If you know how to
apply these laws, the results are
predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not
just a feeling.
Remember this always: God
determines who walks into your life. It
is up to you to decide who you let
walk away, who you let stay, and who
you refuse to let GO.

hahahahaha.See the old man's face sef.Lawd have mercy.Can't these people find better things to do than rape all these innocent girlsGuess ts high time we started having strict laws on rape.

Solution for those with pubs and shower.People that don't have showers nkoLike people who bath in streams.*winks*

ahn ahn,guys no bad reach this na.At least I cook well and people give kudos.Op,see me for a bite

sexycat:
2 in one event, marriage plus send off party. Nice way to save cost

bad guy!Can't stop laughing

nickz:
Cold ke
I llove the weather
The only problem I have,is anytime water touches my skin it automatically turns white
PS:I hate creams/lotions and all that shiit

lol.you have no choice na,brov

Ay and girls.Both look good though

congrats to her

aristocrazzy:
Men you've said it all, only few who read this will apply it actually to the relationship.
Its easier said than done.

hmm.Relationship is hardwork.Most people don't want that.Just the easy way out and ts not that

Apart from love, patience and being
each other’s best friends, listed
below are some of the key secrets
of every successful relationship:
#1. CLEAR COMMUNICATION IS
“VERY” IMPORTANT
Everybody talks but not everybody
communicate. When two people
communicate, a clear message is
pa’s’sed and understood but talking
is putting string of words together
with no clarity. Couples who always
shout at each other do not have a
healthy relationship because the
message they are trying to pa’s’s to
the other person is not done
properly. Every couple must know
how to talk to the other person.
Study him/her properly to know how
to say certain things. Timing also is
very important when communicating
with your partner. Also have in mind
that your partner is not a mind
reader or a superman that knows
everything. Say what is on your
mind and never pile up grudges in
your mind waiting for the right
time to pour it all out. Arguments
and fights are prevented when
couples communicate clearly with
each other.
#2. EVERYONE HAS A BAD DAY,
SOMETIMES
There are days we wake up very
cranky and in a very sour mood. It
gets really bad that we often like to
stay alone and not have anyone
disturb us. On days like that, your
partner will be at his worst and you
have to understand he has
something bothering him. Go to him
and ask him what the problem is.
His mood swing may be as a result
of something that happened to him
at work or pressure from family,
friends or his boss. If he doesn’t
want to talk about it, leave him
alone and let him sort his emotions
out. Do not take it personal when he
says he wants to be alone.
#3. FORGIVE HIM AS YOU WILL
FORGIVE YOURSELF
It is very easy to forgive ourselves
when we do some things we promised
not to do again but it is not so easy
to do the same for others especially
when it is someone we love and
trust. Putting yourself in his shoes
can help you understand why he did
certain things. Understand that a
person’s mistake doesn’t outrightly
convict him as a terrible person. For
every time you want to push him
away, always ask “what if it was
me?”.
#4. PRIVACY IS ESSENTIAL
There is nothing wrong with letting
everyone know you are in love and
posting pictures of both of you on
social networks but there is
everything wrong if we know every
single detail about your relationship.
When all the details of your
relationship is known by everybody,
your relationship may be in grave
danger. Keep your private business,
very private. Keep outsiders
guessing what is going on in your
relationship.
#5. NO FIGHTING IN PUBLIC OR IN
FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS
It is normal for every couple to
quarrel, once in a while. It is an
indispensable part of every healthy
relationship but it is bad to quarrel
in front of other people. Fighting in
front of friends, families or
colleagues say the wrong things
about the both of you. It may also
make you both lose your integrity
and self worth. No matter how great
the urge to fight is, do not do it in
public. Take it to your car or wait
till you get home.
#6. BE TOTALLY COMMITTED
Couples who can rely on each other
every time have long lasting healthy
relationships and that can only
happen when you both are
dedicated to each other. When you
are committed to your partner, it
becomes easy to do things for each
other without complaining and you
wont hurt your partner because you
are so committed into making the
relationship a happy one.
#7. KINDNESS IS NEVER
OVERRATED
Everyone appreciates an act of
kindness. Be kind to your
significant other. Do not wait for
him to get you stuff or do
something for you before you
reciprocate. If he does not
appreciate your act of kindness or
always take advantage of it, you
should break up with him. Kindness
breeds understanding between two
couples which is a key ingredient to
a successful relationship.
#8. YOU CAN STILL HAVE FRIENDS
The fact that you are in a
relationship doesn’t mean you cant
have friends. It is good to keep
friends and hang out with them. You
need to keep your relationship fresh
by giving yourselves space. Keep up
with your friends and family, all
the time.
#9. LAUGHING IS THE BEST
MEDICINE
Laughing is an anti-depressant and
also anti-anxiety drugs. The best
part is that, it is very inexpensive
and does more wonders than any
man-made drugs. Couples that
laugh together very often have a
longer lasting relationship. Laughter
bonds couples together, a lot.
#10. KEEP THINGS ALWAYS FRESH
No relationship is too old for date
nights and surprises. Take
yourselves out as often as you can.
Plan surprise dinners and romantic
getaways. Keep things alive by
doing things that attracted him to
you in the first place. Do not get
too comfortable and neglect chances
to make your spouse happy.

Female police officer shot dead
in Paris and male colleague
injured by ‘North African
wielding assault rifle and
wearing bullet-proof vest'
Gunman arrested following
attack in Montrouge, in the south
of the city
Attacker 'used an M5 assault
rifle' before fleeing scene
One woman police officer has
died, another 'in a serious
condition'
New horror just hours after
massacre of 12 at Paris magazine
office
Manhunt underway from Charlie
Hebdo suspects with terrorist
links
Massacre gunmen identified as
brothers 'trained in Yemen as
assassins'
A female police officer has been
shot dead and her colleague left
injured in the second attack to
hit Paris in less than 24 hours.
The officer, who has not been
named, died this morning
following the shooting in
Montrouge, in the south of the
city.
Her male colleague was also
injured in the attack.
Both officers had been described
by a police source as being in a
'very serious condition' after the
shooting.
It follows the massacre which
claimed 12 lives including those
of two police at the Charlie
Hebdo magazine offices on
Wednesday.
Today shots rang out in
Montrouge at the start of the
morning rush hour, with an M5
assault rifle believed to have
been used.
Witnesses saw what appeared to a
collision between two cars,
followed by two men appearing
with the weapon.
William Thomas, a 19-year-old
who lives close to this morning's
attack, said: 'I was woken up by
the first three shots.
'Then I heard someone shout
"Take That" and there were
another two shots. It was before
8am.'
The automatic gunfire was
followed by the arrival of
numerous special operations
police, accompanied by emergency
services.
A man who appeared to be of
North African origin was seen
running away from the scene. He
was thought to be wearing a
bullet proof vest.
Source: http://
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/
article-2901670/Gunman-
arrested-Paris-police-officers-
seriously-
wounded.html#ixzz3OE9R37ZV

username792:
i would like to get into why what u said is problematic but im bbeing sooooo lazy right now, shame on me!! :-(

anyways, activities that pertains to feeding the world should NEVER be 'money spinning' activities. NEVER, that would be endangering the lives since putting profits first always come at the
cost of the collective welfare.

just google landgrabbing, food prices speculation and famine or agrobusiness lobbying and obesity n see for yourself.

there is a difference between being economically sustainable and beeing greedy.

you are right.but the things is,let's be real too,you will the world and yourself

All five are for ladies with no self esteem.BTW nice one Op

Dez80:
Its simple to deal with it

BLEEP HARD AND THE SWEATING IS SO REFRESHING!

thats what i do every morning

lol

derbybliz:
I used Hot water to bath but it was so hot that my body became Red after bathing

hope you didn't have blisters sha?Be careful,bro

derbybliz:
Guy, today own na die.....I pity my friends that are workers......

Abi ooo.Had to force myself to take my bath this morning.Imagine running away from the water cos ts too cold

derbybliz:
Guy, today own na die.....I pity my friends that are workers......

Abi ooo.Had to force myself to take my bath this morning.Imagine running away from the water cos ts cold.

The harmattan season is here again.It was unleashed fully on the 31/1.Seems this is the coldest in about four years now as it is a battle to take ones bath or stand from the bed.

Tell us how harsh/mild the harmattan is in your area.

Here,my nose is hurting.

username792:
ugh greed :-(
saddens me deeply

ts not about greed.Tell me you want to do any business in your life without profit.

Farming...the next money spinning business.Oil is gradually going.

Farming is the next money making business now.Oil is going gradually.

I tell her 'sister,let's lift up holy hand and worship'.*kidding*

Simple sense will tell me ts not all ladies you get into their skirt.

#TeamCelibacy

Esdb1:
Jesus did you not see "he showed me and I could see my face clearly". You, TrishaP and your other clan never cease to amaze me.

read my post again mister.She should know a way to delete those pics.She is a lady.

Lawd help us.Peace in our land.

Thanks

hmm.NAIRALAND!!!

Will scream chisos,then waka pass.

Did I just say that

Will carry something shapperly and remember to say chisos after I am in the safety of my room.

BTW Op,na your junction dem put that .Describe am

Relax,he could just be making mouth.But you also know how you can access his phone to check.You are a lady na.