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FlirtyKaren:
Ladies can now comfortably do a pee standing up. Isn't that wonderful? *winks*


http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/05/see-new-toy-that-lets-women-pee-like-man.html

very funny...lol

haibe:
me too.. although I try as much as possible to greet when I can as it creates a friendly environment.. but its not possible every time

wat abt calling ur younger ones anty by fire by force b4 u wan marry dere brother

cbrass:
Only a........points to her father's house with a left hand.

...........

qbd2:
Just our culture. I also get into trouble very often for not greetinbg every single person I see when I wake up in d morning.

infact am tired of D's Yoruba culture even though am from d culture. in fact to dem if u Dont greet it means u r proud .very nonsense cultures

luuvee:
Na wa ooo why dis man black like dis naaa shey na KIWI him dey robb for body?

pass charcoal

enitesky:
How true is it?cos that gurl shud be smiling on her wedding day, not doing otherwise

she seems so unhappy

bankypedro:
Wow, the words are so beautiful!
Hours ago, Umar Yuguda, son of Bauchi state governor, Isa Yuguda via his instagram page declared his unending love for his very beautiful wife, Meemo. They got a few months ago, last year December to be precise.
Read his beautiful ode to her below:

“My wife, my lover, my best friend, my soul mate and my life partner. Any amount of words I might decide to search for in this world would not be able to describe the distinctive beauty n outstanding of your character n person. You are kind, honest, strong in everyway, loyal, smart, loving, selfless, considerate, caring, hardworking, patient, adorable, funny, down to earth, respectful, sharp, pure, faithful, understanding, charismatic, generous, humble, intelligent, religious, you are the epitome of beauty and undeniably sexy (that incomparable to any woman on this earth) since the first day I met u, I knew there was something specially different about u and to my pleasant surprise, I was pleasantly right (my instincts never fail me).

Source http://naijagossipers.com/2015/05/15/have-you-read-this-heart-melting-message-from-bauchi-govenors-son-to-his-new-wife/

how many years are dey marriage for?

natas22:
Am not here to say anything bad about girls, i do respect them but this days to have sex with one is like Good Morning. Can someone please explain why i just can't understand.

www.

it takes two to tango!

Princecalm:
we are really suffering in Nigeria, but it might still mean that despite her indtelligence, something might still be behind it. Just saying.

a dept where std will continue to carry a course 4 years after graduation. dey Mk sure DT to even come out with DT 2:1, it will b thru blood not sweat.

Princecalm:
Nice one but It is said that records are meant to be broken but if broken then it becomes a bad record.

thk God she graduated from a dept where not all the lecturers are saddists, a dept where d lecturers wld say" how can a std graduate with a first class wen I never made a 2:1"

okooloyun1:
We will fulfill it together.

no na, u made d promise and as a real man, u shd fulfill it but alone

FriedPlantain:
It must have been those local thieves controlling that Mokwa area. If one is unlucky enough,you might encounter them along that Minna - Lapai Road as well.

If not for the help of a powerful charm given to me by my dad that made me turn to a rabbit and escape those guys, I prolly would have been dead by now.


Friedplantain

Dont forget to always renew d charm ooo cos u never know, changing to human might b difficult after d rabbit.

mcquin:
I can only imagine how Oshio baba wooed her. Niccur might not have moved a muscle.

*car packs* calls lady.
*sss following around and bowing down*

If I hear say she no gree. Na she get herself?

it must b at night when darkness covered d earth

okooloyun1:
The man don enter one chance, the day the woman refund the money I will trek from Calabar to Cameroon.

I sincerely pray she refunds so u can fulfill ur vow...lord, I pray Mk d woman refund am

centjamie:
Alright!
You have a point there.

thks

Toks2008:
You can start one.

I was referring to some of those threads to a person who quote wat I wrote.

centjamie:
As a woman,when you marry for the wrong reasons, you will end up being treated as a slave.you hardly see an independent woman being treated as a slave by her husband,why is it so?
Today's relationship only revolve around money and materials.women of nowadays only accept men with heavy pockets neglecting the most important qualities which are necessary for a successful relationship/marriage.

Women should stop seeing getting married to rich men as an escape route from financial crisis.they should strife to earn there own money so as to earn respect from their men.

wen u talk abt D's side of life, also tk d pain to talk abt d other side. let's take all form bias out and tackle and real issue.
men too marry for very wrong reasons. until we all.... BT sexes...look deep and marry our partner cos we respect and understand, then can things b a little normal...let all take D's issue of love out and choose to marry one we can respect and treat like a queen and king respectively

brownlord:
The modern day husband and wives decide to eat the forbidden fruit

if so, wats d threads on " can u b in a 2 years no sex relationship? non virgins r more experienced Dan virgins thread ? will u do sampling b4 marriage thread? and so on

centjamie:
No doubts about that.

But the reason why so many marriages crash now unlike in the olden days is mostly because of misplaced priorities.people place material things much above other important qualities...... and women are always the chief culprits.

hummmm, I really disagree. men tend to feel wat some women want most is money but men believe women shd b deir slaves as if marriage is a master- slave relationship

Arsenate:
I don't get it ladies. if you will be going into marriage with the intention of bailing out at the slightest hint of trouble, why marry at all?

same applies to men. until we stop trading blames on each other, there won't b a way forward.

repogirl:
Because back then most women believed in sticking it out, divorce was looked at as shameful but these days, divorce is very much acceptable, if its not working out, if he/she doesn't make me happy anymore, its better to be alone than unhappy.

Also grass is greener on the other side syndrome, they think happiness is somewhere else, with someone else......

Guaranteed, there are wicked and awful spouses out there, philanderers and violent types shouldn't be put up with but then most marriages could be saved if most people determine to make it work, instead of giving up and looking for something better elsewhere.

u spoke well... marriage is abt two Pple wanting and willing to work it out. in d case where only one partner is willing and d other is hell bent on letting it fall..then such marriage won't work.

centjamie:
Women of nowadays have totally lost it.anything for the money goes.my advice for my fellow guys is to be very careful when choosing a wife.

Sorry about your marriage bro,some women are wicked.

what about men too? some men r wicked too in fact extremely wicked

brownlord:
Kai so many reasons.

Parents was the one making choices for their kids.

It was an era when the most important thing was family background, unlike today, it is pocket background,

Even when family background is considered, it's about how wealthy the family is, honesty, good morals etc no longer count, just have money, the would-be inlaw's don't care about the illicit activities in the family.

I noticed then, A woman never get to know her partner until the day of marriage, which in most times she will refuse, they had little or no choice, even though there was no courtship like we having today, they still get to love themselves... the love was not there from the beginning.

Their priority was raising a good family.

They were not looking for 6 packs in men and men not all about light skin, yellow-label skin etc, it was about decency, honesty, modesty, integrity...etc

It was a time, the man was the head of the family.

It was a time, women were shy of losing their virginity before getting married....Unlike today girls boast of how many yahoo boys they have slept with.

What went wrong?

the olden daz marriages produced the modern days husbands and wives..what went wrong?

Teempakguy:
[size=16pt]Whatever seems real to you is whatever you believe to be real. Whatever you feel, is what you allow yourself to feel.[/size]

nice

Teempakguy:

[color=orange]I only asked her if she was a feminist to determine how I would phrase my question. Feminists tend to be very touchy about subjects like this. As you would see from our subsequent posts. I do believe that not all women who express themselves are feminists because that would be absurd. But some women think that men are oppressors that they must fight and conquer. And that is where the problems start from.
Abeg no label me bad Mouth o [/color]

OK, but most men r oppressors for real.

RiffRaff:
Dont let societal expectation determine your decision in life. If u choose not to marry cuz you did not find the Right person. It is much better for you.

Than live the miserable life those people who say they are married live.
Just spend your time in the family section for 2 days & you will know the BONDAGE Nigerians calls marriage is not worth it.

well, like I said anything aside happiness companionship respect helping eachother, den marriage is not worth entering at all.

Teempakguy:
are you a feminist?

when a lady expresses her mind , she becomesba feminist..smh for some men

donbenedict:
who is she? Am payn d bride price to her father as a sign of ownership..

so her father DT has spent millions, time, energy, affection and so on, on her nko. u paid bride price and so wat? how much is d bride price? and more so a man who doesn't pay bride price on a woman who lives with him is considered a thief and am very sure u won't and are not one.

Hollamydey:
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion

thk u jare, with all d humiliation women get cos dey marry, I tink dey shd still retain dere fathers name.
unless if its d husband DT took care of her from childhood to adulthood , den she doesn't v d right to put her fathers name.

RiffRaff:
If you are reading this and you are Single... Good news for you. I came all the way from the future to deliver a message to you.
Its a simple message:
"No matter what you do, Please i beg you on bended knees, dont ever get married".
It is a needless trap... With the kind of stories i read here on Nairaland everyday, no one in his right sense will open his|her eyes and walk into the bondage Nigerians call MARRIAGE.
Everyone feels their own choice will be different till they make the choice of UNHAPPINESS & Misery for the larger part of their lives.
If you finally sucumb to societal pressure, make sure you do not marry a Nigerian.

That being said: The Moral of the story is:
1. As long as u are rich & can buy italian wears.. A Nigerian woman will love you no matter what you do to her. Smash her head with a Baseball Bat, just make sure u have money.
Lock her out of the house like you lock a dog out of a cage.
Deprive her of making decisons in the lives of her child because, she is just a baby making vessel that is meant to pop out children.
Once you are richer than her Family, have no regard for her parents cuz afterall, what does an Ant have to say in the gatherin of Elephants.

Make money in Nigeria. You will find "unconditional" Love.

This is the story that Jesus saw in his crystal ball &
Jesus wept.....

most Dont wanna get married but if u c d drama DT comes with not getting married...u will cry.
wat money? y has money become d overall? in really weep for the way Nigerians has taken d issue of money.
marriage is suppose to b for companionship happiness respect and anything aside does, its not worth entering at all.

jayedu108:
@op you married ur husband because of money and not cos of love kindly endure the suffering nah cos u saw all dis while u guys were dating but cos of the money u stay put so try sort dis out urself.

y is it always cos of money? even if he had all d money in D's world, is it not a woman he's gonna marry? either d woman is from a rich home or not.
didn't u read where she's said her parents are above averagely OK?
wat actually is d problem with some men?

fem29:
My dear, you are married to a Nigerian man in Nigeria. Shine ya eyes. I'm sure he was very different when you were abroad but he has reintegrated back into the typical Nigerian man. This same thing happened to my parents too. They were living in the states, good jobs, very very happy. My dad would pick the baby up from nursery and make dinner cos he got home first. Mum was working in a bank and studying nights. He even took my bro to nigeria for a visit all by himself whilst he was still under 1, that's how hands on he was was. His mum guilt tripped and forced them to come back to nigeria and dad reverted to a naija man, girlfriends, late nights etc.

Hunny chile, stack your chips, I now have this mindset that anyone can do anything. There is nothing my hubby can do that will surprise me now. Try your best to n your marriage, try it to reintegrate your parents to be part of your lives.

As for your mother inlaw, make contact with her, call her and just tell her you want to greet her cos you haven't spoken to her in a while, don't mention what happened, don't apologise, don't be over chummy. If she doesn't pick up, send a text to that effect. Not point rehashing things, you already know where she stands. Just keep things civil. Shine ya eyes and keep your ears open, nuff said

I like ur advice. Dont even behave as if smtin happened, just call or text to say hi and how much u loved to hear her voice cos its been a while. treat dem in a civil way. Dont push wanting to play lovey dovey with ur mil. just treat her with respect and stop been overly concern abt wat she thinks abt u.