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Unibenstudent:
Could this assertion be true or false?
I think it maybe a fallacious statement.

stop instigating negative tots in pple .

Tallesty1:
You think you have a problem?


Read mine.


I really need to see a doctor now to have my wedding ring cut off from my jonny after my mistress found the ring in my trouser pocket and got so mad at me and stuck it on me while I was asleep

I don’t know what’s worse:

1) Having my mistress find out I am married.

2) Explaining to my wife how my wedding ring got on my johnson

3) Or finding out my thing fits through a wedding ring.

No 3 is wat we call "dilemma"

Booyakasha:
I know I'm not even supposed to be talking about because this is too embarrassing. I don't have a micro penis or something either, an average one. I was just talking to my girlfriend about sex in general and she told me how while fingering she would fantasize it to be bigger. She said when she's masturbating she's wanting it bigger :/ God! pornography has our ladies have unrealistic standards !I know, I should not be that shallow to think about it too much, but I can't help. I've been thinking about it since she has said it.
We wanted to get engaged this june but now I feel devastated. How could I marry a lady who'd fantasize about bedding something or somebody that's not me. This, fucking state of self sorry and self-pity is killing me. I am a good looking, muscular guy - I get that a lot, and never had problem with girls. But this one fucking line, this one girl has taken away all my self-confidence. I feel devastated. I don't want to admit the fact that I'm being too shallow, even to the point that I don't like the idea of marrying her anymore. I just feel like disappearing somewhere, or just turn back time and never bed her so I wouldn't have heard this.
All that I know is that I will never be able to drop clothes with a female ever again. I don't know what to do now. I know it should not matter to me, but somewhy it does, and it is killing me. Why not anybody else? Why her, the girl I planned to marry in the next 3 months. God fucking shit, everything is ruined ;/

op marry ur size and stop whining

shumuel:
Yeah i know and thats why i said Most not all, have also seen a woman who was 50 and she looked 20, infact you wont know the lady always besides her is her daughter but would think she's her friend, such women are 1 out of 20 when it comes to Black women.

My point exactly @ bolded, its inevitable among Black women

DTS y women shd not live their lives for men and stop misusing their bodies cos men DT u r trying to satisfy today by bearing children like rats will at d end tell u u look old forgetting d major factors leading to d old status.

and more so, one day we shall all grow old, its like a woman who said she won't breast feed her baby cos she wants to prevent her breast from sagging ...but she forgets DT either u breast ur baby or not, d breast will sag when d time comes with also some other factors aiding d sagging process.

shumuel:
Well if you ask me i believe its just Natural for a Lady to date someone older, and may i bring to your remind that the Black society worldwide accept and encourage it.

Well the reasons why its so i can't tell but based on my own presumption i ''think'' its because females age earlier than men, which is a generally known fact.

Now based on this known fact it would be encourage if a lady gets married to a more older and matured man, i also believe it would allow them enjoy the relationship; why do i believe so ?

Well most of our women tend to lose shape quicker if married late, has i have come to notice that most Black women inrespective of Country, Region or Continent gets roboost, plumps and looks saggy by their 30s and by their 40s they could start looking 60s.

If the above point is conceded then you yourself would advice a lady to get invovled with a much older ''guy'' not ''Man'', to me atmost 10 years gap, than getting married to a guy of same age.

No man and i repeat No man would be happy in a relationship with his wife looking more aged than him ''which is mostly what it result to when guys get married to a lady of same age'' and this ladies know these fact which result them to be more interested in the older and more matured guys.

And yes some just want the already made guy because of the cash that would be available

I Dont concur with all u said. I v seen women aged 40 DT r so young , u wld tink dey r in their late 20s. wat makes women age quickly is childbearing , not practicing exclusive breastfeeding to burn out laid fats during pregnancy..d list is endless

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]But sir!

Don't you think there are factors that could hinder this sort of long age gap relationship.[/color]

old or young , d most important is d personality of each member in d relationship. how dey feel ? what dey feel? can dey cope? is dere a big deal in age difference BTW dem? will dey respect and cherish each other? the list is endless.

Trut:
I just notice this latest trend, naija girls will be fair in the face but black in the leg. Na weather cause am abi na bleaching cream and palm cake (mary kay)? ? ?

A national wide survey would do a better job on D's question. a very gd questionnaire can b used.

scribble:
4 years ago I was making about 50k


Now its about 1.5m


Married the woman who was there when it was 50k


I live for her now because she supported me with love, prayers, advice, encouragement and a constant smile.

women can stand by men like u cos men like u will not b ungrateful. thk God for both of u.

ozoigbondu:
The rate at which ladies murder the menfolk is getting alarming........from today onwards no lady shall come within 20 feet of me till futher notice my life is still precious

An islamic gospel singer....................Oxymoron

very thoughtful

Yadoctora:
and both of them should not talk about the things that matter even in a defined relationship?

She has every reason to be worried. Anyone not interested in sharing details of their lives should not be getting into a relationship in the first place.

ok

Brugo:
Chai. You are not a wife yet and you're stifling the young man like this. Let him breathe, biko!

Why should he tell you everything? Can you handle everything? If a man doesn't give you a particular information then he knows you don't need it.

He didn't tell you about his true age because he guessed what your opinion about dating age mates would be, regardless of the lofty statement you just gave us. Why must you know every detail?

Well, you have even said there's no point in staying. Oya na. Leave him alone. Give him some breathing space.

You'd better be grateful for a man like him who doesn't go about spilling his guts and depending on a lover's opinion two months into a relationship.

exactly, I Dont know t pple stress demselves over unnecessary tinz. if he Dont tell u tinz abt hs life, u too Dont tell him tinz abt urs. stop disturbing itself butmk sure u r in a defined relationship .understand wat u guys r really into so DT d story won't become " I dated him for decade and now he said he's out".

GoodBoi1:
What if the pin is 2222?

simply reverse it by tying 3333

Jackeeh:
Are there no kids from ur marriage? I'm of the opinion the familly's first offspring ought to be his next of kin. I may be wrong though. Have a dialogue with your husband. Most Brothers and sisters in law often times metamorphosize into enemies when the unifying factor( their brother u married) is no more. The love they had for you just disappears. They forget the man's kids are still around. And woe betide you if you had no child for their brother. This things do happen. Talk to your husband. But after the talk,whether it goes well or not, head to the bank for your own personal account. Also see how you can establish yourself and rack in more money for yourself. Don't rely too much on your husband's assets. That's the mistake most married women make. Make your own money as well. It will help you stand firm.

welcome to d real world! I remembered how my mother suffered with my dad, going extra mile to Mk tinz better for d family. few yrs b4 he died, my mum said he just decided to change d beneficiary at hs place of work to my mothers name despite DT hs brother collected all my dads property and car den .even now too he is dead too. we suffered en, it was just God on our side.

my advice, pls v ur own alc Mk ur own money, whatever both of u shd contribute to housekeep, do but mkbsure u v ur own stuffs and investment. such a man can even marry another wife and will everytin BT of u v worked 4 to her.

XBLadez:
And you're what. . . .a virgin Maria or Aishat?

I wish u all the best

Karlman:
You will bring ur child into this world to come suffer, not mine!

let's face reality. wen u were have s*x, u knew u were unemployed and ur Gf also is managing, u shd v tot abt Those important factors: u shd v asked urself b4 d escapade if u r ready to father a child and take full responsibility for d child. y human beings put expose demselves to smtins they can naturally avoid baffles me! wat a world!

wen we Mk choices we shd also learn to live with the consequences of our choices.thank u

Karlman:
You will bring ur child into this world to come suffer, not mine!

hummmm, not mine. all am saying is DT if u know u can't tk of d child, pls and pls Dont bring d child to d world. it saddens my heart wen I c d suffering sm children go thru just cos of dere parent's unprepared. if u can't tk of dem, pls leave dem in heaven

Karlman:
You will bring ur child into this world to come suffer, not mine!

hummmm, not mine.

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

he shd v tot abt pregnancy b4 dancing d "shoki" dance.I hate it wen pple put demselves at avoidable risks. now he will bring D's child into D's world now to come suffer .wat a world we live in!

otokx:
Well said

God bless u

shejane:
The only wrong d guy did was not telling the girl b4 paying his wife's dowry

He should have settled with the girl first just out of respect and appreciation that's all

As for leaving the girl of 11yrs for someone he just met, is never a crime

Marriage is never by force or a debt to pay NO, is a choice and that choice must be respected no matter whose heart that got shot

if it so den he shd v ended d relationship by the 3 or 4th year

searider:
The guy has his reasons.

I left my girl friend because my family cOmplained about her been too fast forward and I confiRMed it.

its better D's way dan wasting both of ur precious time and years. DT everybody will quickly move and instead of wasting time for yrs

icebebe:
Awwww! Nemesis will catch up wiv him but den wny will she date a man fr 11yrs! Was she charmed or wat?

my exact....y date a guy for 11 long years?still wondering sha

saasala:
Do you think I was mad when I said I wouldnt get married? A man stands to gain nothing from marriage. You lose your freedom. She nags you to hell. You live your entire life to satisfy a woman. She suddenly hates sex, loses her pristine beauty and becomes a fat pig with saggy booobs and tasteless asss, your jokes are no longer funny to her, she doesnt like to go out for fun any more, she now hates picnics and the cinema. You can get more than enough what you tend to gain in marriage by remaining single: Free sex, free movement, you can even have a baby mama if you are so crazy about having a child, plus nobody will call you oloriburuku for being single unlike the females. Guys, dont get married. Think well before you cross that rubicon. Seun Osewa has known these facts hence his decision to remain single (Well, I guess). Why get married when you will end up losing your happiness, and probably divorce. As for me and my head, ama stay single for life ni o...and I dont even give a hoot about having kids. This life is messed up already, why bring another innocent child to participate in it. Think Brothers.

perfect life and good for u. its a nice choice.

lalasticlala:
If u like do monkey style, snake style, a man that would cheat, would still cheat...

thk u so much...u spoke my exact tots in words

anonimi:
Can you please define LUCK?
Thanks.

y I said DT is DT cos u didn't work with ur masters doesn't mean countless r not making it big with dere MSC..I v many examples

Coded7:
Bro is quite unfortunate u lost ur job december last year, I lost my 1st may. Last year, sincerely it was not easy then, I had just N2000 in my account when I lost my job, it a debt of N170,000 and my hauz rent due 4 expiration. I made up my mind I was not going to seek application anywhere anymore, my sister talk me into egg biz and I decided to give it a try, today I can boldly tell u am comfortable, all my customers are abokis and market women which I don't even a masters degree to associate wit dem. My credential have bin lying under my bed sins dat period up till date. Mind u I possess a master degree and I have never used it anywhere. My friend is not all about working with d government or a multinational but its all about u being an entrepreneur. Pls fink very well an idea is in u waiting to be harnessed. Thank you.

u r lucky it worked 4 u

ejiro2130:
250k for MSC? what's the name of the school.
You should look at his course and consider the fact that MSC is not his first choice with the way the economy is going MSC won't help much I will rather prefer he builds his career unfortunately he didn't say what his career actually is.

My friends with MSC are worst off than me, although am in a poorer country than them

I don't believe cos I v friends DT got big jobs with their MSC...ur friends might just v not reached deir destination...so Dont equate msc to been poor

icebeatz:
Get an m.sc with the money.
An msc is a life time investment and If you do very well in your msc, you will get a job within 6 months after your m.sc.

If you dont know what to do with 500k, please flex it.
Travel abroad and get new inspiration.

I love ur advice...he. can use half for MSC and use half to start a small biz and manage while he runs d MSC. even while doing DT, he shd continue to apply...all will just work together and he will b grt.

Omotolu:
...go ahead with your dreams.

I wish u d very best too

Omotolu:
...it's not compulsory you do business with the money-buy a land with it.

my exact tot...with DT u can get a land , with d plan and survey. since u just Dont wanna blow d money..land will b a gd investment.

CloneX:
[color=#000030]Nah. Too early for marriage. He should wait till he's 30, and has slept with 90 girls. . . [/color]

seconded...he shd sleep with many more ...sebi its " go ye into d world and......"