₦airaland Forum

xdunamis:
You are not loyal to your husband, you dont have good manners, you show him no respect and he's already fed up with you, he suspects you are already having an affair and this might also be true. Thats the truth woman, stop trying to potray yourself as a good woman cos you are not. I read all these through the lines of your story. Your MIL is not a bad person, she is angry because of what her son told her about you.

then if DT is true, instead of bringing out in actions why can't he trash d issue out throught communication. remember DT for a marriage to work, wisdom is required. a mature man needsbto b wise and holds his home.

qbd2:
Hmm, dats y they always say tis not just about d person ur marrying, its also bout the family ur marrying into

walahi wahala dey, DTS y d marriage institution is so in a very sorry state.

nickibarb:
I was bothered because I realised she was communicating with my husband but not talking to me. Was I wrong to be bothered by that? At first when she wasn't picking up my calls or responding to my texts, I thought she didn't have her phone on her. I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

I believe marriage is met for two Pple to run together and not alone. when he said u shd leave d kids DT he will take care of them, y push d matter? u shd v trusted him and go for ur exams in peace and all these wouldn't v happened.
always remember , both of u r in D's boat together
do feel DT the workload of d marriage rests on u alone as the Nigeria culture has painted it DT a woman alone holds d marriage.
sit ur husband down and trash D's menial issue and
next time, trust him unless u v reasons not to.

ferdimako:
number of women is more than men's.

OK v heard u.

Nneka123:
Says Airforce. A woman doesn't need a husband to be something.

wats actually wrong with some men?

holamiday:
I tried to send you an email at win992004@yahoo.com...that email addy is dead.



I read your comment on you & your fiance and i was really touched to say the least. I could feel the friendship-gone-sour air that suddenly overwhelmed your relationship just because of sex & i understand what it feels like to see your lover walk away. Quickly, i'd like to tell you something strange about men.

You see, men like submission. Every man wants his woman to totally submit to him 100%. That's just the way we are wired. We hate it when you women say a thing & expect it to stand-even when you're right. I'd use myself as an example. Often, when i demand something from my girlfriend, i never take 'no' for an answer no matter how distraught & unhappy she may be & no matter how unreasonable my request may seem. At that moment, for the most part, all i want from her is to submit to me, & then i'd lovingly grant her request & let things go her own way. The focal point is in her submission. If she wants 'a' & i want 'b', i feel better when she accepts 'b' & then i'd deliberately change my mind & allow 'a'. I never want it to be 'a' because she insisted on 'a'. I want her to bend to my will first, before i bend to hers. Men don't want to be the first to bend. I hope you get that drill.

I have a strong feeling(it's awkward though & i don't know why) that your fiance may not have slept with you if you had given in to sex. I stand to be corrected anyway. I really perceive all he wanted from you was submission. Trust me, that guy didn't leave you because you witheld sex, rather he did, because you seemed to want to dictate to him & he detested that. It's good you know this about men. It's a sure potent anaesthetic to our hearts. Men value submissive women more than anything & those women usually have more power to influence their men. Next time you fall in love, accept his request with tears, make it clear you're doing that solely for love & if he loves you, he'll deliberately let things go your way.
Play with this psychology of men & you'll be amazed at the ease it'd bring. I wish you all the best. Cheers!

simply put...it means u r God, huh?

saintfizzo:
Yes it is.... I'm researching the topic "Fear of being alone"

good luck....start with a literature review and d easiest way is to create the topic here and sample pples opinion
with DT, u can move forward.

sweetorgasm:
hm hm ure very correct

thks for concurring..lol

saintfizzo:
I'm for real... not asking U out or anyfin like it... giv me a channel to interview u one on one... u sound like my preffered audience... pls grant my request

the project is for real?

sweetorgasm:
hm hm hm bt it will sound odd when her inlaws ask her to cm and eat and she says no

DT is where a wise husband will come in and save d day. marriage requires wisdow or any relationship at all

saintfizzo:
Mind if we discussed it outside here? Whatsapp 08076516110, i'll seriously appreciate ur opinion and ideas

lol.

sweetorgasm:
wats with d insult?

lol...leave him alone...he's just been mature!

sweetorgasm:
so what happens during their marriage when everybody are gatthered?

by everybody u mean extended family...y shd she live her based on pples expectation.? all to do is to cook d meat for dem , does she v to eat out of it? hubby knows she prefer veges to saturated fats so wats d stress again?

sweetorgasm:
ha ha dats nt going to work na

den he shd change then owing to d fact DT veges are more beneficial to d health as compared to saturated fats from meat and chicken

daben1:
how long are they going to live like that? Stop reasoning like an ''immature woman''

thks , mature man.

sweetorgasm:
A friend of mine that loves meat and chicken so much wants to settle down with a female vegetarian but he is really confuse as to if he can change her. "guys whats your advice to him?

y change her? simply v two pots..one for u and one for her

saintfizzo:
I have a project u myt be interested in.... the fear of being alone.... what do U fink?

its a nice project..u can start with a good literature review

saintfizzo:
Lol.... we are abt a hundred and twenty million in naija... and the figure goes up per second... if every1 were to be married,we'll hav over a thousand weddings per weekend.... that's besides those who get a divorce the following month...

well, I Dont really c marriage is so important but I guess Pple Dont wanna live a lonely life and b nonsense at old age.

bettercreature:
He probably has a god father somewhere who is providing all those funds
the only way a young guy can get rich overnight without a god father is through internet
Expecially at the age of 24? its not possible
he might be one of the beneficiary of Nigeria's stolen funds

I was just about to ask the same question...what is d source of his capital? we should always want to know how not just celebrating the end product only

ferdimako:
five out of 500? check d leftovers...

i said more Dan 5 every Fri sat and even during the week. every with no Saturday left out.

saintfizzo:
cld U pls shed more light... I don't get the question

wat am saying is DT I get confused wen pple say dey aren't getting husband or wives cos all Fridays sat and even Thurs are filled with greater or equal to 5 weddings introductions engagement

saintfizzo:
Too much focus on becoming a wife... kinda myopic IMO... focus on ur career and be the best U can be... see how much attention u get from opposite sex afterwards, the real problem is mispriority

Trust me,being churchy doesn't guarantee shiiit

but y is it DAT every Saturday, Thursdays , there are weddings, introductions and engagements. there is virtually no Friday or Saturday DT more Dan 5 weddings won't take place.

nelson4:
. Don't you guys think? He could have landed a wonderful job with this smart moveand then buy his parent a house.

which job? even GEJ and his entourage will b making jess of which dey already know d motive behind d mediocre gesture

KingTom:
How far you na, you be brand new?

just do d needful asap

KingTom:
The brand news don almost finish, the only ones available are still in the factory

u too hustle na and collect ur own b4 d brand news finish ..u still gat all if chances...Dont let it pass u by! cheers!

KingTom:
The brand news don almost finish, the only ones available are still in the factory

I Dont think so...if u r gonna wait for the factory's own, hummm..
my brother! e go taeee Gan no ooo

amakaobiemeka:
And this crap would make front page. Only in nigeria do people celebrate mediocrity, stupidity, and cluelesnes. Even though u have u personal liberty, u gave 10,000 to a government with intentions of them winning to continue the destruction and corruption it glorified. People like the op are reasons u cant help this country, the pdp and gej have enough loot already to the extent they share dollars in millions to obas. And u are giving ur meager income to them to continue destroying the hope of generations. I think the op is a scammer the next intention is to ask people to donate to build the statue and aid his course. I already know the physciology of where the whole request is going when he asks 4 funds just remember he is SCAM

u said all there is to say....instead of him to give d money to his parent to bless him...he decided to waste it on a president who has done all to waste the country' s resources...absolute mediocrity at its peak

KingTom:
The way bride prices are expensive these days is alarming, na wetin make I never marry till now! Can you imagine? Me! To bring 5 cows for a fairly used girl? Mbanu!


Meanwhile...

u v got choice...choose from d available brand news and marry asap

RichDad1:
This is a blatant lie.

[quote author=RichDad1 post=33558516]]I thought so too cos Nigeria population has not reduced in anyway instead its growing in a geometric proportion.

RichDad1:
This is a blatant lie.

I thought so too cos Nigeria population has not reduced in anyway instead its growing in a geometric proportion.

thymedcurry:
You slept with her friends, she cried when she found out and this makes you happy?
The shame is on you Oga

imagine...he slept with her friends and she's crying, she must b really silly and stupid! smh for some men.

philo20:
[b][/b]have u ever ponder why david had so many wifes and concubines and yet there was no problem.having a wife or a girl frnd and still cheat in the process aint a big deal because its necessary and part of us (men) to always desire more, it is written God created women for a man to desire them...ladies b reasonable, ave u ever read a story in d bible that said women had more men? NO I quess, but that cant b said bout men..It is therefore reasonable for women to stop complaining and accept their fate knowing that without them men exist not..It will always b men exploring their world and women enjoying the glory that comes out of
it (menhhh).......

yes, its good for men to cheat..seriously...wats d big deal if men cheat? is it not just to sleep with another woman other than dere wives?