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buygala:
Well........

Considering that I have played in the Stadium on numerous occasions previously, no biggie... She can give me a blowjobb for the meantime

But if it is a 'sex only after marriage' situation, na with red eye and evil demeanour I go quietly tell her say make she sharply go bathroom go remove the sanitary pad and wash the something ... at least we would have played one or two matches before the puna becomes flooded again

Or in the alternative, we can have sex under the running shower... While we are 'cuming and going', the running water will be washing away the blood... so we might as well spend the wedding night in the bathroom doing all sorts of unimaginable sexual gymnastics

SUMMARY IS..... if she has denied me of the puna till that night, only death will stop me from taking my entitlements on that particular day

It is urgent that I ascertain the quality of the puna I got married to, so that I can revoke the marriage if I have been gravely misled, and been sold a Volkswagen Beetle as a Porsche 911

lol..toooo funny

searching4love:




I WILL NEVER BLAME ANY MAN WHO BEATS HIS WOMAN. WOMEN ARE NATURALLY STUBBORN AND GOD MADE THEIR DISOBEDIENCE SIMILAR TO THAT OF A GOAT. YOU NEED TO BELT THEM AND NOT JUST BELT BUT THE IRON BUCKLES WILL RESTORE STUBBORN GIRLS TO DEFAULT

gobe gidi

mikolo80:
why do you reward people who cheat.psych 101.As log as we feel we can get away with a slap on the wrist,we will continue to cheat.Its just the way we are built.

good...a man should always cheat. let every man who knows how To cheat continue till d end of time....sebi its sex na, o ye men! continue to cheat!

Aprime:
DafaQ?

Hey, this is someone she wants to Marry.

You expects her to be happy and relieved because he presumingly goes around fúcking every hole with condom?

You must really be loose in the head to say this.

Infact, its quite alarming the responses I read on this thread..I weeep for D's institution called marriage

pwerrymansion:
this is the most stupid post I've come across in decades! My dear run as fast as your leg can carry you.

imagine his response....oga oooo, D's world is so spoil..no dignity anymore.

everybody should continue cheating jare so DT everytin will kuku spoil finish.

urchbarbie:
From which point so I can clarify

I think in every relationship, dere shd b sharing of responsibilities in which each party will contribute and help each other. marriage is not a slave relationship but a partnership but in d case where a man feels in his stupidity and foolishness DT cos he's wife earns money den he shd abandon his responsibilities is so out of it.

I know a cousin of mine who once said DT its better for dem not to v a father cos if dey Dont v , dey might get pple to help dem cos virtually everything at home is provided by their mother and d task became so overwhelming for d woman.

rationalmind:
I saw this thread (https://www.nairaland.com/457400/why-husbands-beat-wives) earlier and noticed how ladies claim it's unacceptable for a man to beat a woman under any circumstance.

How about a scenario where the wife raises her hands to beat the husband? Yes, I'll beat that devil out of my wife if and only if she ever raises her hand to beat me first.

beat her jare, u can even beat her to make her look like unassembled motor parts....u know how they look like abi?

urchbarbie:
Oh dear me! I was just goin to stay ghostmode n enjoy dis thread till I came across dis shittyyy comment. Ure educated, yes dat I can see from ur writeup. Wat I don't understnd is why u ceased to comprehend d bible passage u quoted. Kai! The woman is d asset of her husband? Yes we gree. But whr u lost me is in ur intial argument whr ladies feel a husband is a workhorse and a woman remmitting her earnings cos she is her husbands "horse"
My dear, if ure a christain as u quotes d scriptures well, try rembr d encounter in d garden of eden.
A man is the "workhorse" of any home, dat was y God says Adam wld toil d earth ..............and d woman wld labour to bring forth her young one.
Nna! Take up ur responsiblity. Its been dere since d time of old

wao, D's thinking is so out of it.

ferdimako:
una still dey wear skirts?

am talking abt shying from the ideal tin to do. I aren't talking abt d physical skirt

Pelmet:
The rate at which these things happen is appalling. Wouldn't wanna narrate my. Own ordeal, but it's 'bout time men realise that they are meant to provide for the Family and a woman's earnings should only be "extra". The movie "Courageous" Says it all.

next u will hear ds so called men saying girls like money whereas most of dem are downright irresponsible. experiences abound....Irresponsible, skirt wearing men!

CrazyMan:
A very good morning to you all, and I'm guessing you all had a great weekend.

I was with a female cousin of mine yesterday (married) and she was lamenting to me how her has husband has annoyingly stopped giving her money for the upkeep of the family.

She said she now has to hide her money from him most times cos whenever he discovers she has any, he distances himself from any form of financial responsibilities that concerns the family.

The reason when I inquired started fully when she handed over a cheque from her personal account to the caretaker in regards to their rent.

She said she and her husband had a discussion the night before, and he promised her that she would be reimbursed if she settles the rent, but changed suddenly when she paid the money.

Now that I've paid the rent, he doesn't drop a penny in the house she told me. She's the one practically shouldering all the financial responsibilities. Ranging from their kids expenses to kitchen expenses to house expenses which include NEPA bills, purchase of water for their geepee tank...etc.

According to her, she only has a rough idea of what her husband earns and very little idea of what he spends it on.

I know some men are irresponsible but this case supersedes irresponsibility. I prefer to tag the man an over grown baby. Someone who has refused to mature.

As a man I believe its your responsibility to provide for your family regardless of the kind of job your wife does. You wife is there for support and not for you to abandon your responsibilities for. Every man should always bear that in mind.

What do you guys thing?

irresponsibility, poverty, wanting to wear skirt instead of trousers

canadaman111:
my frnd was also invited, i want to know how sure d test is, b.cos he is @ Edo, and to come to Lagos, d distance is far. i need some advice pls.

You are invited for Chams Management Trainee Aptitude test @ChamsCity,2a Isaac John Street,Ikeja GRA,Lagos on Thursday 26-02-15 by 10.30am.Come with a Valid ID

its a nice place. had mine today. just ur I'd card. 70 Q, 90 mins

Iwawande:
I have a GMAT textbook am using though Na God o! I just keep opening and closing it. Hmm,I will keep trying o

OK.god help us all

Iwawande:
Where in Ibadan do you stay and what time is your test? Mine is 10:30 tomorrow and am in Ibadan.

mine is 10:30 too. pls wat materials r u using to prepare. need help asap.thks

Iwawande:
Where in Ibadan do you stay and what time is your test? Mine is 10:30 tomorrow and am in Ibadan.

mine is at 10:30 too. pls wat material u using to study. am not prepared at all. need asap

ComradeTY:
From ibadan alight at Ojota, and if u bus won't pass tru ojota alight at Berger then board any bus going to ojota, alight at ojota bus stop then join a bus going to Maryland, alight at d bus stop (I.e Maryland), ask for Nigeria Army cantonment, immediately after d cantonment take d turning by left then walk it down then d next turning by ur right is Isaac John street. Good luck, for further details pm me

thks. God bless.

wat abt my other question? I vnt prepared at all. need help asap.thks

pls how do I get there from Ibadan?
and wat materials can I use to prepare for the test cos am not prepared at all. pls answers asap.thank s

TONYE001:
Well, am I fit to respond to this question? Maybe no but I'll make an attempt nevertheless.

Wifey and I just got married last August. Through out last year, we made attempts to leave the shores of the country to continue our studies abroad but we weren't successful...so, we gave up.

Presently, we are M. Sc applicants at one of the federal universities in the country. I have already written my entrance exam, wifey is still preparing for hers.

I think the major skill one must have to run a family, school, and work is the ability to multitask. Yea! By God's grace, I have this skill and I believe my baby has it too.

There is so much I can do to relieve her to a reasonable extent. I can help with the chores, make the environment at home as conducive as possible (to enable effective studying), and most importantly, I can figure out a way of providing her (and the house) enough fund so that she doesn't have to work until she's done with the program. Even if she must work (which isn't the case though), I would still be there for her at all time, God willing.

What is the situation now at home? By the grace of God Almighty, we are expecting our babies (we have already received twins by faith) and wifey is studying SERIOUSLY for her entrance exam. At the moment, I do (90%) of the cooking, 100% of laundry, (90%) of every other chore. All she does is to eat, take her drugs (follic acid, etc), rest, and study. I observed that she gets tired easily (she's in her first trimester) so the strategy is that once she wakes up, eats, and bathes, she studies with that "fresh energy".

Has it been easy? No!...but it's possible..

I wish you success ma'am and every other lady in your shoes.

u r a real gem..God bless u

babyosisi:
Thanks for this
I am waiting for the younger wives to ask real questions and I will use my own mistakes as examples
You will grow grey hairs overnight trying to change your spouse
You can never succeed and you will be very miserable and if you nag,
Ha
if he ever wanted to change sef ,his entire testosterone will come out full force and challenge you to do your worst
There are women who have gone mental in their marital homes trying to change their spouses
You will die and he will marry another wife and keep on strutting
So don't bother
There are ways to have a man eating literally out of the palms of your hand and people think it's juju
No juju at all
Wisdom is the key

[/quote]I dont c a reason y u shd want to change smbody...nobody is perfect... accepting each oda flaws will b more advantageous. if u can't cope with a person behavior...simply do d needful.....IGNORE

babyosisi:
Thanks for this
I am waiting for the younger wives to ask real questions and I will use my own mistakes as examples
You will grow grey hairs overnight trying to change your spouse
You can never succeed and you will be very miserable and if you nag,
Ha
if he ever wanted to change sef ,his entire testosterone will come out full force and challenge you to do your worst
There are women who have gone mental in their marital homes trying to change their spouses
You will die and he will marry another wife and keep on strutting
So don't bother
There are ways to have a man eating literally out of the palms of your hand and people think it's juju
No juju at all
Wisdom is the key

I Dont c a reason y u shd want to change smbody...nobody is perfect... accepting each oda flaws will b more advantageous. if u can't cope with a person behavior...simply do d needful.....IGNORE

Samguine:
The beach, especially in the first picture looks dirty..

We are now at the time where we glorify women's bodies instead of their intellectual and societal contributions. Issorite, contunu.

dey v got no shame again...d bodies means notin to dem anymore. the days of eve sef was better.

emusmith:
It's a thread... When will ladies learn to stop taking things too personal, smile and move ahead?

My thread being about Ladies shows how important you girls are. Be secure and stop saying otherwise ..

my exact thoughts

searching4love:
Best comment so far. God bless you

y do men cheat on their wives? men can cheat but women shd b faithful? where den does respect belong to?

u will meet men sleep with their wives sister right under her nose citing nonsense like she's doesn't give a BJ DTS y he cheat.

I really fear for all dese marriages we v.

searching4love:
In as much as i find your comment as an exaggeration, its no excuse for u to engage in such just because gus have booty calls. Can two wrongs make a right? How do you know your plan B is not also playing you? How many plans do u intend to have by jumping from one bed to another just to retaliate a cheating man's action. Smh

since two wrongs Dont Mk a right, let men too stop all does nonsense. how many plans do you intend to v by sleeping with this girl and DT girl just to drive home point that most girls are cheats.

Obalende:
as ive said before the numerous boyfriends of these young girls are the main benefactors of their bodies. In almost every nigerian marriage you are marrying old cargo that is anything upward of 26. these ppl are experienced and have been around numerous guys. at such age they not even fresh again. the first and second year university boyfriends got the goods fresh.

then men keep waiting for the ideal person to get married to... wasting time...

this mentality is so wrong in fact too wrong. pls wat type of people did u move with wen in school?

raymondinc:
He is right, if you like invest in a woman that will be at your own detriment!

y invest in a woman, each person shd invest in his/herself ...wen u guys get married, den u shd respect each other and help each other not a man tinking a lady shd do everything at home.

raymondinc:
my brothers my candid advise to you all is that if you were having 50 percent love for your woman please reduce it to at least 20 percent. What this guy is saying is an unforetold truth Nigerian girls or women rather would still with you for some reasons (1) because you are famous and travel overseas (2) you are well to do (wealthy). No Nigerian lady would go out with you for a genuine love platform. Never you invest in a woman they are very dangerous even more than the politicians, they don't deserve love believe me, I was fvcking a lady and her husband to be whom I never knew called right out that moment and guess what she said "honey I'm not at home now o, shey I told you I was going to finish up the assignment given to me in my catery school, please baby as soon as I got home I'm going to call you" I was so shocked that I couldn't continue with her but asked her to leave immediately. So please guys don't trust them, they are so deceitful.

but you didn't know she already have a fiancee b4 sleeping with her, I guess?

searching4love:
You don't know me but by all i said here u should have a clue of what I've experienced. Searching for decent and morally disciplined ladies is like searching for a pin in the ocean. The probability is very low

I Dont tink so.

diddydiva:
I can't really say much about this cos I don't know who you are either.

I know decent and morally disciplined Ladies still exist.

be good and you will meet good people

seconded

searching4love:
My fear is wasting and investing much time in a fruitless and deceitfull relationship. Many girls will always have numerous guys at their disposal and it's hard to find who you can really trust among them due to thier materialistic nature. I have never met anyone who is willing to love me for me. Its always about the Benjamins

I tink u need to move in the right direction

searching4love:
My fear is wasting and investing much time in a fruitless and deceitfull relationship. Many girls will always have numerous guys at their disposal and it's hard to find who you can really trust among them due to thier materialistic nature. I have never met anyone who is willing to love me for me. Its always about the Benjamins

I tink u should move in the right direction.

searching4love:
Statistics shows women cheats the most in Nigeria

I Dont concur