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[quote author=Pojomojo post=133322488]"Dear Ma,

I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing. Losing a job can be devastating, and it's admirable that you're seeking help.

Firstly, please know that you're not alone, and there are people willing to support you.

Regarding the hookup offer, I completely understand your reservations. Your integrity and values are crucial, and it's essential to prioritize them.

For job opportunities, I'll do my best to assist you:

Job Opportunities
1. Nanny/House Cleaning Jobs: I'll share your contact information with my network in Port Harcourt, and we can explore potential job openings.
2. Skill Development: Are you interested in acquiring new skills to enhance your employability? We can discuss online courses or training programs.
3. Business Support: If you're interested in growing your okro selling business, we can explore ways to provide support, such as business mentorship or access to microfinance.

Immediate Assistance
1. Food and Essentials: I'll try to connect you with local organizations or individuals who can provide immediate assistance with food and essentials.
2. Counseling: If you need someone to talk to, I can provide information on counseling services or support groups in Port Harcourt.

Please know that you're not alone, and we'll do our best to support you through this challenging time.

Stay strong, and let's work together to find a solution.

Best regards".Where in PortHarcout?[/Rumuokoro)

Please anybody in the house I need help. Am a married woman with two kids. My husband lost his job early this year. Since then my life has been in a mess. My okro selling business couldnt sustain us. So it has been hand to mouth. Right now there is a woman who wants to introduce me into hookup. Am confused, bcs I can't bring myself to sleep with other men for money. And still I can't continue to put myself and kids through hunger and shame.
Please if anyone has any job for me, especially nannny or house cleaning job pls contact me. I need serious intervention.
I stay in portharcourt.

Thanks alot for your words. Am encouraged.

The solution is simple: Talk to your husband and tell him everything. Tell him HOW YOU FEEL.
Also tell him what you really think is the solution.
If you married a good man (someone who is selfless and really believes in that "for better for worse" thingy), both of you can handle the problem.
But, if he is "bad" (someone who only thinks about himself and his ego), then the problem will probably not go away.
It may even get worse if he resists, and thinks you are the problem.
A lot of families break up because of such things. Be careful at this time.
Some women change as they age. Some wake up to their true sexuality as they age too, hence the late divorces we see sometimes.[/quote]

I am a married woman with three kids. I just clocked 40 years. I just noticed that my libido has increased without warning. I don't get satisfied after sex with my hubby. Note: he is very good when it comes to bed matters. The problem now is my body. I always want more. I even tried masturbating but I still not get okay. What can I do? I need help.

No matter how I love my husband, I can never love him more than his mother.
I love my husband so much. But I can't die for him. There is limit to what or where I can go for him... But his mother can do more.
Am a mother of two teenage boys and a toddler girl. I love my kids so much that I can die for them.
Mother's love is the only unconditional love on Earth.

No matter how I love my husband, I can never love him more than his mother.
I love my husband so much. But I can't die for him. There is limit to what or where I can go for him... But his mother can do more.
Am a mother of two teenage boys and a toddler girl. I love my kids so much that I can die for them.
Mother's love is the only unconditional love on Earth.

An average Nigeria woman is afraid of divorce bcs they feel that marriage is what makes them complete as a woman. So if they are out of it they have no life.

There is truth in what she said. The married male actors face alot of temptation from the daughters of eve everyday even on set. So some times it's not their fault. It only takes discipline to resist them.

This is on point. I am a girl but this is how I see my fellow beautiful but materialistic friends. Girls that are always demanding and receiving but cannot give out just a little. They have entitlement mentality. To me,they are beautifully ugly.

It's nature that failed us.

Yes and from friends

Promises made during sex are usually not kept bcs they were made during the heat of pleasure and passion. So many women make promises to their husbands during sex such as I will never disrespect you again, anything you tell me I will do. After they cum that's the end.

This passage is playing itself in churches today. You go to some churches you see then selling things in front of the church door.it is very wrong but the pastors won't preach about.

ItsmeF:
My sister first aid for covid 19 as follows:
-Steam him well
-Give him Azithromycin
-vitamin c 1000mg daily
-anti malarial
-zinc tab
-Drink plenty fluid
-black seed oil

That's what they give for covid. My hubby was ill sometime ago and coughing. After malaria and typhoid treatment, he still had fatigue and other symptoms of covid. He couldn't accept the possibility of being covid, so I just bought him the drugs and by the time he took the first dose, he felt much better. That's how we dealt with it without doing the test. I steamed him well. Men sometimes are stubborn, just use wisdom.

Thanks ma. I will do just that.

daddytime:
This is supposed to be a clear cut case, madam.

If you indeed suspect covid, you all need to go get the test done to be certain.

He's in our prayers.

. Thanks. I don't know where and how to go about the test. And besides he won't accept to go.

My husband has been sick for a month now. The problem started when he lost almost a million naira in a business deal. All of a sudden he lost so much weight, so I attributed it to the depression that he passed through as a result of the loss.

After like 2weeks he recovered the money and since then I noticed that he became sick, he has being coughing for more than 3weeks now, he suffers fatigue, chills, severe chest pain and general body pains. We have gone for test and the result said it's pneumonia. He has taken Drugs but it's till like that. He till coughs and feels fatigue everytime.

The issue now is that am worried and my mind is telling me that he might have covid 19. Please am scared. What should I do at this point.

goodnewscliff:
Yeah.... Ur husband definitely loves those kids more than he loves u... I believe u know this too

. Yes I Know. It's vice versa. It's nature. They say blood is thicker than water.

This case is a natural phenomenon. I love and care for my kids more than my husband. Initially I thought it was bcs they were babies but now they are teenagers. Its still the same. I love my husband but I love my children more bcs, to me personally. The love a woman has for her kids are unconditionally natural. But the love she has for her husband, has a reason at first before she accepted to marry him it's neither bcs of his wealth, intelligence, physical structure etc. But the love for the kids has no reason she loves them naturally. This is my case.

Mrscarter:
Not just any mans body would do it for me. Has to be my man cos for me sex isnt just bout the body bout the person u love n how they make u feel n how u wanna make him feel plus the things about him that attract me so is more than just his body.
Also his touch has more to do with arousing me than the sight of him naked. The way hes touching me n the way hes talking to me on top of how i feel bout him n our connection is wat does it for me. So no i cant just look at a naked guy or an attractive guys body n be aroused. If i did look itd only be fleeting i wouldnt get wet or fantasize bout him unless it was my man or someone i knew n i wanted to be my man.

. Good to know that.

Mmadu2:
There's no way you're a lady and don't know the answer to that question especially by interactions with other ladies.

Only a man will ask this type of question

. I want to hear from other ladies, I know my own side. Bcs my friends views are all different from mine, so I want hear from others

OnlineArchitect:
I thought you are a lady?

. Yes I AM

Lilsameey:
,..Hmmm, some get wet by seeing just facial features, body parts, voice, muscles, body shape, height, skin colour and other stupid stupid things.

. Really I never knew. Bcs some of my friends normally tell me during girl's talk. That they get wet whenever he sends money or they know that he just hit money. Even the married ones.

Mmadu2:
The idiot is one of those guys posing with female moniker

. Pls young man. IAM a lady and not a guy. Not everybody on nairaland is a fraud.

Lilsameey:
,..What about you?

. It's does only if the thing is hard as a rock. But if it's just there it doesn't move me.

MJBOLT:

are you not a lady??you are supposed to know

. I want to know about other ladies, as for me I know my own.

I just need to know. I have my reasons. Please ladies in the house. By Just looking or seeing your boyfriend/ husband naked either in the kitchen, parlour or anywhere in the house. Do you feel the urge to have sex at the sight of the naked body.

almarthins:
Well the man may not be able to tell just how many but him go know when him enter the place say no be small mileage d girl don run. Speaking from xperience we go know except the guy na novice from jjc city.

. I hope you know there are creams that women rub on their thing that makes it very tight. So the bottom line is, men will never know the truth about a woman's body count. So all this ranting about a woman with a borehole that's how they will know. It takes just the grace of God to save you from bitches.

Perfectdanny:
Body count actually means everything. I can't marry a girl that has slept with half my street nau

If na to date her na different thing afterall dating isn't marriage

Please this is my opinion

How will you know a woman's body count, is it written on the face. So many women hide that from a man. They always lie that it's neither one or two. So pls how would you know the truth.

This post is on point. I was tempted to watch, but I quickly asked my soul "of what benefit will it be to you" that was how the urge died a natural death. God has given us the power to resist sin and it's just in our tongue. Whenever you have an urge to sin just ask yourself some questions speak it loud to yourself as if you are speaking to someone. You will see that the urge will run away. That's why the Bible said, resist the devil and he will flee from you. Holy Spirit will help you.