chim14:
Hello all,

I have not been able to make a single call with my Glo line since Tuesday, are you guys experiencing similar issue?

lolz. I don abandon that line because of this same thing.

Glo no serios

phorget:
Las-Las nothing go still happen.
Nigerians will stand for that dude.

lolz you overrate the intelligence of Northerners.


They will sooner do protest if the boy was released than protest otherwise

Is there no garden egg in the sauce? Or is the sauce not saucing?

The mumu don go listen to one motivational speaker

ThugOfWar:
whats all the Doc migration hype about?
we will go the traditional way and improve on it. after all conventional drugs isnt he only alternative to solving health challenges

typical.

Instead of facing the problem head on, you start thinking about how to struggle with the problem.

This country no fit better with this our "we are used to the struggle attitude"

Abeg no be all of us come dis life to suffer till the day we die

Onolulu:
OP is an entitled narcissist. Yeahs, what OP said is true. But the way he's overly complementing himself is just nonsense

lolz.

Most of y'all reason like you are still hunter-gatherers.

We've come a long way. A very very long way.

Today, the brain is our muscle. In fact, having physical strength is now even a weakness.

Look at the top of the ladder, you think those men got there because they could beat women?

Like men, women today are just as capable to provide for themselves like never before.

Let me tell you what will happen if sex is off the table:

1. We'll make stricter laws to protect everyone.

2. Women like men are given equal opportunity for leadership and career.

3. The term weaker sex will be eliminated because everyone will be using the same physical strength; their brains.

Our society today is a shadow of what is to come. Do you not see women excelling in class as much as men?

In our medical class, we have almost an equal number of girls as men.

And go to any medical school, the lecturers will always say, girls study more than boys.

This is just the beginning of the things to come. We've seen women leading countries, leading armies.

Y'all are living in the past where you think muscle is still powerful. Bro, your muscles are currently useless.

Naijaisshitho:


You're funny. I'm intelligent and Better than just any Man out there. Me replying to you is a privilege. I don't have friends because they all run away from me saying I'm narcissist , when it's only that I was just telling them the truth

everyone always feels like they are saying the truth.

That's why they say what they say.

But if many people moves away from you because of what you say, it's probably garbage.

sacajawea:

Ok, this is a very long talk, and i can't start explaining that now, but that's just my opinion.
My attitude to money, I feel 150k to 200k is not that okay. Especially after working for a year.
Also considering how Naira is falling daily. So 250k I would say is okay
But what I meant is 100 to 150k too 200k is not okay ooh.
Enter alaba, boy of 22 years dey see more than that money after 3 to 4 years inside market.
And the amount of work, training mental load, money spent is not the same.

And yes, I earn more than that a month

lolz.

And you'll enter the same alaba and see people with nothing.

Stop glorifying nonsense.

Life no get one solution.

Some go Prosper for alaba. Some no go Prosper.

Some go Prosper with first class. Some no go Prosper.

Alaba people no better pass first class and vice versa. All na products of opportunity, grits and mastery.

E be like nairaland, some people don earn millions from this forum, some still de struggle, others never make shishi and others will never make shishi.

sacajawea:

Ok, so you are going against the majority
But these jobs they have, is it well paying enough? The example you gave a lecturer in the UNi, starting salary etc. Is it really on par with what they should be earning

the point is they have offers.

It's always an advantage to be first class. It doesn't matter if there's job or no job.

The point is, they will almost always be the first option when there's an opening.

They say a light cannot be hidden.

If you are intelligent, no matter how well you hide, it'll only take a few seconds for people to discover you.

No hiding place for the golden fish.

But if you are foolish, you can climb to the mountain top, shout and try to convince people that you are intelligent.

Within a few words, people will realize how utterly stupid you are.

By reading the first few sentences of op thread, we can all see how utterly stupid he is.

Just another empty vessel making the loudest noise on this street.

God1000:
He did the right thing, but no link is attached to your story, no source?

him no fit be source?

CoronaVirusRelo:

I am not. I am just a believer for equality and choice.

There is no equality and choice in crime.
If there's, then bestiality and pedophilia would be a legal thing.

Nigerians starting a program without opening and closing prayer?
Something is wrong

The girl is obviously hurt.

You really need to win her trust back again. Honestly, you did wrong.

No one is perfect. Girl B is your fantasy and you described her like she was perfect.

She's just that, a perfect fantasy.

Spend 3 years or more with her and you'll start noticing the flaws.

Like the say, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

The first girl is someone you've known too well and can handle. She no fit surprise you again.

Girls post those things on status to say things they can't say directly.

But it looks like your mind is no longer with her. It just feel so sad though. And I just hope you don't regret it.

Each time I'm tempted to cheat on my girl, I always realize that it's mere fantasy. Anything any girl may have, my girl already has it

maasoap:


I only have one question for you: what is she going to benefit from that?
Perhaps, her aunty and husband will divorce and she too will move out. She lost too.
Perhaps, the husband will make a video of them and humiliate them with it, both offline and online. And someone eventually commit suicide like the recent case.
Or perhaps, husband ends up committing murder or murders. A lots could go wrong with her snitching

People don't report evil simply because they will benefit something from it.

You do it because it is the right thing to do.

Maybe, you don't have the moral decency to speak up against evil because you don't see any personal or immediate gain from it, but some of us are built different. we understand that morals and responsibilities goes beyond our personal gains and pleasures.

So, she should allow the aunt to continue cheating on the man behind his back? the same man that goes out to hustle for her and her kids (probably none will be the man's). She should turn a blind eye while she wait patiently for her aunt and her lover to infect the innocent man with incurable diseases? or maybe plot to killl the man because he is in the way of their romance?
just how rotten has your morals become that you feel turning a blind eye to evil is the better if there is no personal gains in it for you?

Common man, life goes beyond your selfish desire to gain something personally from any situation. The aunt already killed her marriage with her infidelity. No sane person in the right senses blames the one that sees evil and report such evil , except criminals and low-lifers like yourself.

Desusi:
I have taken pains to read through,those who says op should mind her business are evil and wicked. Nothing kills faster than unfaithfulness in a family. As long as the sister continue doing this evil,be rest assured that her husband days are numbered. Its just for a time. To start with, she said her sister is very good. What good is in a woman who is so bold as to bring man to sleep with her on her matrimonial bed?She's audacious and corrupt. Indeed,the outcome of your revealing it to your sister's husband may be terrific. Notwithstanding, you can call your sister at your own time and bear your mind.Tell her the outcome of this evil,if she hears you,good,if not, take a step further.it is said ' ikun nje ogede,o un redi,lai mo wipe oun todun lo npa ni. If in the events of all these, either your sister or her husband died, God would hold you responsible. A word is sufficient for the wise.

Karen2024:
Is that an advice?

wo

Buy a new sim card.

Send a text to your uncle on how he can catch his wife in the act.

In the text, tell him that his wife brings in a man into the house each time he travels.

You don't know what they do but it might not be something good. This will raise his suspicion.

And it turn make sure the trail doesn't lead back to you, make sure you don't say they go straight to the bedroom (that will make it easy for them to know)

Tell him that he can confirm for himself. Let him lie to his wife and say his traveling.

Let him move out. It could be some days.

If the wife brings in a man, go to the bathroom and text him.

Remove the sim from the phone and remain in the bathroom

siofra:


I too don't believe a grown man can be robbed by a single individual, except at gun point.

Any man who claims this, probably gave his possessions to the robber and felt ashamed afterwards for being such a coward not to fight back and now call it robbery.

Actually that's right.

No one robs a grown man without a weapon.

Kobojunkie:
Many women are also turned off by clingy/possessive men too.

that's not the question of the thread

Persephone1:
Kkins the premiumwriter

Die all you want, i still wont engage you.

lolz.

We are probably thousands of miles away from each other. Why would you think I'll let your response or lack of it bother me? Like you think I don't have real world problems?

When better piss hol you and you are finally free to release it.

Especially early morning. Simple sweet sensation.

Another is spending quality time with a girl you love and she loves you. Just sitting and Talking.

Messi1:
I started a work as a delivery boy in a drink distributor not long ago and everything is going right but one thing i dislike is my boss's fiancee's flirtuous move towards me. She fundiles my hair and caress them. This lady behaves as if she doesn't know me in the presence of my boss, but in his absence she makes the environment uncomfortable for me with her amorous advances. How do I avoid this woman? I don't want to have problem my boss.


Seun Mynd44 dominique nlfpmod mukina2

that's not your boss's wife making advances at you. It's unemployment that's seducing you.

And probably a few broken bones.

Sha try relate with her well, make sure she understands that you can't sleep with her.

Not telling her directly, but always playfully get out of her reach each time she touches you. Act a little shock, smile and move out of her reach.

Try avoid spending time alone with her if you can.

You can't report her to oga because oga will rather sack you than confront his fiancee.

And don't try to tell her to stop or confront her because she go make that place hot for you.

You can't reject a powerful woman throwing herself at you. Women can't handle such rejections and she will make sure you pay for it.

So the best thing is to play along. Remain friendly. but always draw a line, and make yourself unavailable to her as much as you as you can

We could give anything to never experience death.

Regardless of how much our faith is in the after alive, no one seems to be in a hurry to live this world of suffering to the great beyond.

Not your pastor. Not your imam.

Not for the city laid with gold. Not for the 72 virgins. Not for the enjoyment of everlasting life of bliss and happiness.

Of course you have confidence in your God, no one is just ever ready for that time.

But death is the inevitable.

It is the meaning of life. We cease to live the day we cease to die.

Of what difference are you from the rocks, if you cannot mutate?

Death is our growth. It is also our stage of transition. The very last stage.

It is what defines us as living things.

After you have done all, then it comes. It is your closure.

So why so much fear of it? Why pray against untimely death, when you’ll never be aware of anything after death?

You think the dead ever regrets?

You think, they look back in time and wish for a minute more?

No, it you who are alive who animate them and make those wishes for them.

Once the sun sets, it all comes to an end. No regrets. No wishes. No sorrow. No pain. No joy. No sadness.

It's all nothing. It is the end.

Next time look into the abyss but not with fear. Gaze deeply into the soul of death and welcome him like a brother.

He makes your life meaningful. Everything you appreciate today is because he stands somewhere watching and waiting for you.

Persephone1:
I use Quora too, most users are Whites and Asians. Not to say there are no blacks. The content of questions, responses, the controlled and coordinated cyber space is appealing. But coming here...
Little wonders fossils are in power and the country in ruins!

if you are as intelligent as you feel, then you should know why quora is better than nairaland.

Quora is a question and answer section.

A slowpoke ask a question and someone else try to answer it.

If the explanation is good, then others who may know the answer will simply up vote it.

By up voting, the best answer get to the top, followed by the second and third.

So basically, there's a filtering system on quora, much the same reason why Twitter is a lot more intelligent than Facebook. Only the best get to the top and people see it.

Unlike on nairaland where you create a topic and then write garbage arguments and because people don't agree with you, you term them ignorant.

If this was quora, your post would have been down voted severally and I'll not even see it talk more of reading the garbage.

Persephone1:
As the topic reads, this is a question i have been pondering on for quite a while now. With the recent happenings around,one is left to wonder the whole essence of dating.
Attraction is natural, no doubt but aside being mushy and all gloomy what else is the usefulness of the chemical reactions that ends up taking over the logical aspect of a being. If at all these chemical reactions will be left to run, it shouldn't be wildly. Well that Isn't the topic for today.

Two individuals meet, there forms likeness of some sort only to be explored further and ruin the beautiful aura.Then with tears and heartbreak the once most dashing being you had ever seen becomes a devil with horns. The human nature is truly complicated.

The whole essence of dating isn't to explore bodies, it should be to get to know who you are attracted to, it is to determine if the other person is worth moving closer to. If you two share same views of Life. Unfortunately, dating these days is more of knowing how deep your pocket is and what color of labia you posses.
What should come last comes first, and when there is an imbalance you see blame shifting.

Perhaps it's time All should go back to the drawing board, go back to the traditional ways. Hopefully there will be a change in the declining rate of meaningful romantic relationship in the Nigerian society.

the audacity of you telling people how they should live their lives makes me want to puke.

Life has no guide. No playbook. No manual.

Some people form connection after sex. Some form connections when they spend a lot of time together. Others even after spending years together can't stand each other.

Please let go of the mentality that sex destroys relationships or that it should be the last stage of relationships.

Sex is not why people date. Sex is why some people date. People date for different reasons. Just because they don't align with your reason doesn't make it wrong.

Live and let others live.

And most times, sex makes a relationship stronger. That's why it is always encouraged in marriages.

nlfpmod:
As shared by Twitter user, Naomi:



https://twitter.com/nayneenarh_/status/1594705095912046594

TOSIN AKINBO:


https://twitter.com/iTosinAkinbo/status/1594659450412998656?s=20&t=BXTQncb3HZLhXFfqY84Hwg

"The staffs in covenant university are raping the students
They'll set stupid rules and if the students should break it they'll sleep with them in exchange for their students hip
*studentship
A girl is in coma now She did an abortion for the head of the student disciplinary council
He got her pregnant and still expelled her
So many students there are being abused
It's a Christian university for crying out loud
Covenant university has hidden so many deaths
They've expelled students for trying to stand up for their right".

lolz they always blame the men.

But does it ever occur to you who made the initial proposal?

AndroidAI:


Even a woman cannot compete with a man that can cook.

yeah some of the best chefs in the world are men.

We all know deep down that men are superior but to be politically or socially correct we say different things.

Today, society is trying to create weak effeminate men just to meet this political correctness. In doing so, we are lowering the bar.

Getting lower standards. We call it inclusiveness.

No one should be on any project simply because they are this gender or that. It should be solely based on competence.

But do that, and you'll receive backlash and probably get canceled.

Look at Hollywood. To produce a successful movie, you must include a Latino, possibly a black guy, and a gay character.

It doesn't matter if there are better actors and actresses.

Same with companies today having a quota requirement of male and female employees.

I think kudabank did something like this around 2020 or so. They put out an vacancy advert but clearly stated it that it is meant only for women.

Why?

There reason is that they have very few female workers and will like to neutralize the working place.

Of course, they did this when the superior male employees have built the company from nothing to something.

And here's a lesson for us: you don't find the men are equal to women in hard conditions. Let everything get soft and you'll see them clamoring for positions that hundreds of more qualified men can handle.

So women are only equal to men when we deny the basic truth.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Suicide for freedom

Or divorce for freedom?

Please, married no be do or die affair. If you can no longer bear it, seek for divorce.

Life will go on. Please don't talk about suicide. Life is more important than anything

The guy was even fooling around on camera helping the girl build her followership base.

He turned himself to a fool on social media just so they could generate controversial contents for her followers. Now them don use and dump am.

He is starting from scratch, while she got the kids, fame and the money and probably their house too. Na fool dey marry for west

Moh247:



Free papers,

Free child support weekly pay check for 16 to 18 years till the kids become adults,

Freedom to fvck whoever she wants without any hindrance from her ex husband paying child support

Top Five richest women in the world either got their wealth through their divorced husband, or late husband or from their father... Non worked for it or are self made


.

DuBLINGreenb:
I know there are people waiting and hoping to become famous off of this. They must do something to make them get arrested so they can say “you see am” and become famous. Just watch.

we are waiting earnestly for this.

Very trouble some set of people. Those gays

Candidlady:
Some people will come and cry on this thread


numero uno



Numero deu




numero Trois




More to come

woke people.

Give them a new language and they will stop reasoning.

They rather speak nonsense than reason logically

jeromestarks:
Just because you meet foolish girls with easy virtues doesn't mean there are no decent girls out here.

Listen, some are created to be unfortunate in life. They are made to believe that they should accept the norm in the society. Those are the guys who marry anything - non virgins. These guys end up training someone else's child.
The worst part is that they will sponsor wedding ceremony, take care of in laws just to fvck a girl who was fvcked by another man without paying anything and they will still leave their inheritance for the children fathered by another man ( that's if the bastard child did not kill them early before they prepare a Will).


Others have made up their minds that the will not labour in vain. These category of guys will fvck any girl that opens her leg but will only start a family aith a virgin woman.

Never let anyone push you to marry a problem ,a sperm depot (non virgins).
If she lied that she was raped, just fvck and pass her to the next fvcker.


See one proud virgin here
https://www.nairaland.com/7437468/faith-ehimare-nigerian-virgin-corper


I celebrate this girl. I have sent her Facebook name to my elder brother who is really ready to marry. He is rich and learned. He's a good man.
Even if he didn't marry her, he will still be her friend. She's worth keeping. Not like these dogs (bitches) who are even ashamed of their own pvssy.


No wonder they (non virgins) are ashamed to talk about their virginity and quickly get angry when we advice men to marry Virgins.

May many of you who have fvcked more than one man never have peace in your marriages and relationships. May you be unlucky ALWAYS in everything this life throws at you.

so much hype over the hymen.