BABANGBALI:
see am. This one go be one of those sheep oloshos on nairaland o

No be only sheep na cow, educated illiterate.

GVTAsiwaju:


Are you sure your pretty is pretty

How do you mean?

Arijude:
Do you approve marriage between a man 32 and a woman of 21 years ? 11 years difference?

The age difference is too much.

tochez24:



There NOTHING special about women oga.... No dey give person long list ontop nonsense ⚠️

Most of them aren't virgins
Most of them can't prepare a decent dish
Most of them can't support and carter to a man
Most of them are possessed

Infact dating/marrying a Nigerian non virgin is like going to the stream with a basket♂️

If i can't find a virgin then i will settle for a baby mama... I will never pay the bride price of any girl i didn't disvirgin🤧

Who be this one? Na woman wan cater for you? See weak men everywhere, tueh!! 🤧

Naijaplos:
ABOUT SEX AND DATING

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them Sex, Some have even turned into intimacy gadgets just to keep their man

Let me be very open here.......

Sex might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove sex from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their men!

Aside Sex,what do you have to offer to a man?

Can you support him Spiritually?

Can you Support him Physically/Financially?

How about Mentally?

All you do is Demand Money for Bags, Shoes,phones Clothes, and Outings.

Making him spend unnecessarily

What are you even bringing to the table?

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan about his future?

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made Wife.

Shalom

Rest!!

BABANGBALI:
1. Never take photos with him.

2. If you call and he hangs up, don't call him back, the wife is around.

3. Don't text him love messages.

4. Satan should not tempt you to sleep at his house even when his wife is out of the country.

5. Never book the same lodging every time you go for a Eeeeeeh! Sheeeeee! Ooooohhh, uuuuuh! Tatatatatatata! Miakmiakmiak! 🙄🙄

6. Do not involve your friends or his friends in your relationship.

7. If he calls you, receive but don't answer fast. Maybe his wife is the one calling trying to find out, let him talk first.

8. Don't call him my everything, he is borrowed.

9. If you find yourself at his place, just lift the dress or lower the trousers halfway during twa twa. Don't remove everything. In case things go wrong and you need to activate Temple Run.🏃🏃🏃🏃

10. Most Importantly, STAY AWAY FROM SOMEONE'S HUSBAND AND FIND YOUR OWN FA.🤷🤷🤷🙄🙄

See them? 😏😏 This one fit be person husband ooo tueh

Shakathezulu1:

Your ex really dodged a bullet.
You nasty. Ayanmmmmmmma

Just like your wretched mother, ewu Gambia.

madone:
if he marries her when he is not attracted to her anymore he will subject that innocent lady to a life of horror. His mind is already off her. She is not up to his standard anymore. That nigga is talking like someone that has seen another option. It's best he leaves her alone so that a better man can find her

After eating her for good six years? If he doesn't marry that lady, any other woman he will marry will give him hell in that marriage, peace will be far from him in that marriage, he will tormented by his new attracty ND eventually enter his grave. You can't eat your cake ND have it, it will choke him

Silentgroper:
abeg pack well.. na by force to marry her..


mtcheeww

Who be this one?

Sonnobax15:

A broken relationship is far more better than a broken marriage.

Na the only quote wey this one sabi be this!!

Impregnable101:
Ask questions before you blab. I must not put all the details in the write up

she's not blabbing oga, go and marry her and stop yarning dust!!

madone:
you held someone's daughter for 6years no progress, no marriage no impact and you are here talking. Brother go and work on yourself cos you have a problem. If you have not been able to work on her appearance And model her to what you want you may as well fu..ck out of her life.

Bleep out of her life after 6years? No naaa that's impoesicant what I expected u to tell that idiot is to go ND marry the lady. He's mad like do people date for a whole 6 years? How many years person dey live life wey I wan date for such number of years?

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

How you go find her attractive when u don see her finish? Yeye thing!!

[quote author=losky83 post=127650548][/quote] It's obvious you need help, go for therapy please.

Hornfourtoonate:
So yesterday after soaking small garri on Christmas day,I was very tired and decided to sleep. I was the only person at home. Immediately I woke up to drink water,my eyes started turning me and I was still trying to drink the water. The next time I heard was 'Gbim' on cement floor. I collapsed and the next thing I noticed was that I entered a trans. In that trans, there were two doors. One was white and the other dark and two hands were drawing me.

Sorry hunger no really good. Kpele!!!

losky83:
ABEG NO VEX,I FORGET TO GIVE YOU PAMPERS AND FEEDING BOTTLE AS U DEY GO VILLAGE FOR YOU BABIES

unfortunately I don't have kids yet so run along!!

Stephen2324:
All these girls don use style go
village go see their pikin

learn to mind your business, aproko no good for man.

Stephen2324:
All these girls don use style go
village go see their pikin

Learn to mind your business you be man no be woman u be.

kooyanbliss:
Bro i am not a violent person. I’ve told her before that nothing will ever make me raise my hands on a woman if she didn’t do it first. She just wanted to dare me and when she did the first time by slapping me during an argument between us i was tempted to slap back but the gentleman in me couldn’t make me do so i just left her side and went to sit down somewhere. She was the one that came back to beg me that nothing of such will ever repeat itself again… it wasn’t up to three days after i received a slap from her when this big violence occurred and i was even trying to avoid it by going out for her but she strongly held me by my shirt, she wouldn’t let me go and she kept on hitting me. Bro i just had to do what i had to do. She must be in pain by now coz i made surei beat her well in such a way she wouldn’t be able to hold me by my shirt any longer and left the house for her. I am not proud as a man to do this but i had to do it nevertheless to save myself

It's okay I understand, but I will advice you end the relationship for the record am a lady not bro check my monicker.

MikeofKd:
Omo the matta no be small o , mhen I don tire for women matta mhen. Make u sef see

A very good friend of mine of recent shared his breakfast story with me and I felt his pains wallai , I felt it inside my bones. So theres this girl my friend had been dating for 3 years but it was a long distance relationship(LDR) , this girl he was dating was everything wife material , church girl , smart , career oriented ,beautiful. My guy thought he had hit the jackpot when she agreed to date him 3 years ago. Baba think say him don jam better wife lol.

How the breakfast happened.


So my friend and his now ex girl were having communication issues , the two of them werent talking to each other for a while , my guy was tired of this and decided to call d girl's Mum , na 4 there kasala burst o, her mum asked him how long his been dating her daughter , my guy said 3 years , d girls mum laughed cos she obviously thought he was joking , wen she realised he was serious she then opened up to him that her daughter has been married to another guy for two years now and she had a twin earlier this year.

My guy too thought it was joke until d girl's Mom sent pictures of the wedding and new born twins.
Omo na there my guy wan craze , he told me he was planning to marry her wen he came back dis year , the girl's response sef was that she couldnt wait ,that she has missed him so much. Now my guy is in severe pains cus for d past 3 years he never cheated on her even once. They were always talking almost everyday for d past 3 years.

After asking d girl if wat happened was true she said her family rushed her into the marriage bla bla bla ,dats he should move on its not her fault.
. He's been acting like he might commit suicide lately , I dont even know how to help him cus me sef I get tins wey dey bother me too , my friend doesnt drink or smoke if not I for don call my plug tay tay, make him smoke loud make him body calm down.

Now mans just down, ive given all the advice in this world but baba heart is beyond fixing I guess. Pls Nlanders how can I help him. Ive tried taking him to club too but him no wan go any where at all.

uncle REST

kooyanbliss:
Bro i was helpless i tried my
possible best to leave the scene when the second slap came in but she wont stop locking my cloth not to leave and hitting me hard on my chest, stomach and some other vital part of my body. I tried to be the most gentleman by not raising my hands on her but she brought out the monster in me by continuously hitting me. If i am a man it doesn’t mean my woman should be hitting me all the time. If i hadn’t done that i might have gotten seriously wounded by now coz she wouldn’t stop hitting me.

You don't have to explain to anybody,you did nothing wrong if you were the one wrong or did something terrible giving you that slap is worth it but No u did absolutely nothing so it's cool you aren't a woman beater but a defender. So it's cool just end the relationship let her go am sure she's has been looking for a way to leave ever since an opportunity just came so let her be.

kooyanbliss:
Good day to you everyone I wont be bias with what i want to say coz i don’t need no validation i just want to air out my plight…My Girlfriend of 4months has always been nice to me ever since i went broke a month into when we started dating. When she started helping me she didn’t count it as anything and still respected me as her boyfriend which i do give back to her anytime i see small change for aza too coz i appreciate her effort a lot on me and her eagerness to see me succeed…..My Girlfriend started behaving anyhow to me when it got to a point due to my broke life which i understand that most women won’t stay with a broke/managing guy but i was putting all my effort to make changes. The last time my girl came to visit she started raising her standard between us. she would talk to other guys on the phone beside me and some would even send her money which i totally have no issue with but once she sees me chatting a female friend or see a female friend’s picture on my phone she accuses me of cheating and all and she does that rigorously/vulgarly . As if thats not enough she doesn’t want to see me greet any of my neighbors male or female to the extent that she nagged at me and slapped me two nights before the day i beat her over an argument that why would i be greeting so so so person beside her bla bla bla. I used to tell my girl not to frustrate me to the point of me thinking of raising my hands on her that anytime a lady angers me to the core i just like to go out of that house to calm myself down. thats my nature but it seems this girl just wanted to dare me. Two days after, We had another issues that led to an argument again which she went out of the house and i did the same
some minutes after just to go grab some local drinks at a local liquor shop. About an 30mins later she started calling me to ask for my whereabouts which i told her not to bother about me coz my head dey hot due to wetin she dey follow me drag before we both left the house. As i came back in i didn’t want to pour out my anger by saying any harsh word to her i just went straight to the bathroom to take my shower but this girl wont let me be she kept stalking me and i was avoiding her she kept on doing the same all in the name of settling things with her but i was really angered i just needed some lone time because the anger kept aggravating so i took my cloth and decided to leave the apartment again to the balcony this time around but this devilish girl wont let me. there comes another dirty slap again on my face (2nd time slapping me within three days) telling me i am very stupid for wanting to leave the room for her. i was seeing stars but i still endured again and continue struggling to leave her so i can go outside rather than raising my hands on her but this girl wont leave me na my cloth she dey drag and also hitting me hard multiple times on the chest which i still have the mark till now. I kept on begging this girl not to push me to a point where i would do what i don’t want to do but it seems she was bewitched already that time that she won’t stop hitting me hard all over my body and holding my clothes not to leave. I had no choice than to give her what she wanted coz i was really provoked. I didn’t want to do this, she pushed me and i’m regretting now!

She deserves it, before a lady can raise her hand on a guy it should worth it as that time the guy knows he's damn wrong or has deeply hurt you. Not raising your fuilty hands on a man. She get mind shaaaa. I won't call u a woman beater bc you only tried to make her know u are the man here and hundred years she no go fit still beat u or strong reach u but hope you no kill her?

Sirchiboy:
Made a stand to stop sleeping with hoes coz I came into full awareness that nothing is so special about sex.
It will only drain your money and leave you in a state of perpetual regrets.

leaving a relationship where i have to be in a competition with an unknown lady just to do more than my power, it didn't really change my life though it gave me peace of mind.

VYourstories:


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She tried oooo even with money I can't I will have to start pushing him around, I don't even have strength.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

If you get the STAMINA to approach her, why not?

lordnkem000:

No one is wailing and I'm sure that man doesn't need you back, who would want a liability like you back? Go and look for your own peace as you said because I'm sure you never gave him peace of mind, no wonder he appreciates true peace of mind when he saw one, not one based on pretence. It is only a pretender that gets angry when caught. No one forces you for relationship so you right. As for me, I will never condone a woman who seeks validation online to fix our relationship never. Such a woman can and will never make a good wife, because if una get any quarrel for house, na internet in-laws go advice her. Good riddance to bad rubbish for that correct man

M just starting life so you calling me a liability doesn't make anything, I will work hard to grow on my own, gradually i will get there, hence i left the relationship i need focus, this will be the last time i will reply you if there was a block button it would have been easier do have a nice day Mr man.

lordnkem000:

You don't expect her to say the truth. You will see a toxic gf, a girl who abuses and insults her man but will blame the guy for looking elsewhere and she will not tell that part of her attitude to the public. Na wetin happen for yul edochie marriage and guess what, na the man get all the blames because he chose not to speak or spread his relationship outside

M yet to understand why you are wailing oga, and offcourse i said the whole truth you are looking for who to will pet your back? Or agree with you? Relationship isn't by force and yes I can't be in a relationship where a guy allows another woman feed and give him money then compare me with them every now and then, when I demand he tells me he doesn't have and when I get angry I am called toxic. If you like wail from now till tomorrow am not going back, I need my own peace of mind.He has seen life am just starting I need my own peace of mind. So if you know him tell him I said he should enjoy, please run along!!

Silentgroper:


Some of us still have our reserved doubts about that....



I'm watching closely....

That's on you.

1TrippleCee:


Oh. Okay

Dont be scared of men. Take it easy. Join like a fellowship or an activity group if you are a Xtian and blend with both genders and see how life handles the rest

Thank you.

1TrippleCee:



That two weeks on, two weeks off guy that works on the oil rig. You talked on his thread na


Abi, you no want make we come chop wedding rice?

ohhhh he said he wants to get married. And as it stands sef am even scared of men although he said 24 to 30 am not up to 24.