Alphamentips:
I want to be the biggest African men's relationship influencer online

So I've created my TikTok.
Have a couple of followers and modest views.
What other steps should I take?

Is FB still worth the stress? Should I try crossposting on FB?

I also have plans of selling products on the backend.. I plan to monetise the pages by selling related products on the side and maybe advert sponsoring (in the long term)

What tips can one help to get more views and follwership on TK?

I do podcasts on dating tips for men
I don't do viral trends
You can search for @alphamentips on TK

WesternPanzer:
Seun, this is a post to denigrate women.

These animals on Nairaland are programming men psychologically to hate women.

Its becoming really annoying.

Why allow such useless thread to fester on this forum? Can this be allowed on quora or reddit?

kelvinakproko:
Thank You Nairalanders for the counsel offered on my previous thread (link below).
So yesterday I threatened to quit the relationship if she doesn't tell the truth about the movement I spoke about in detail in the previous thread. She confessed that there's been a sugar daddy (he already has a wife). She said she didn't know what came over her. She had spent a whole week before with him some months earlier unknowing to me before the last movement that made me suspect something wasn't fine.

Now I guess where the financial support was coming from then. They both discuss me and the sugar daddy even give her tips on how to cover up after meeting him. From the chats she showed me, the sugar daddy always ask after me. She said he's been asking her out before we even began the relationship and that it was difficult for her to stop. From the chats she showed me, she had severally told the man that she wants to stop and she ain't cool with the games anymore that she loves her boyfriend.

I also discovered that since the day I suspected her movement, she hasn't been seeing him anymore and evidences from their chat thereafter supports that. She told him her guy is already suspecting her and that she doesn't want to lose her relationship because of several support or help he has given her in the past.

It's been hard to swallow the revelation but she's been crying since yesterday that I should forgive her that she's stopped everything with the man. She called the man that she's already told me about everything that's been going on. And she told him he's disconnecting from him in anyway and she blocked him on all communication channels she has with him.

I couldn't sleep last night. I really want to end it all up despite the fact that there's evidence she stopped the whole thing with the man after I suspected her movement. What do you think I should do?

Link To Previous Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7961986/forgive-when-she-hasnt-said

Freshtruth:
He get one babe wey service me well I find now go on new year day I no see am, yesterday night I say make I stroll go there again her room lock. Na one babe come hustle me I be like wet this gal wey dey dey this room na so she tell me say the gal die on Christmas day. Omo I shock ,
One of the Ashawo gal scream / Ashawo die Toto rest/

Na so I enter my Car drive go House

Vinnie2000:


You are able and Capable, sweedy.

SuperOnyi:







So he should stop sharing impactful posts, right?

Vinnie2000:


No one has been Chosen or Hired yet.

So you want to be a Mod, too?

imagrg:
It seems you are dating another lady and you are looking for an excuse to dump this one.

Ladies go porous between their legs during their ovulation period.

FRANCISTOWN:

I say many of you are products of dysfunctioned homes.
Anyways,nice to meet your mom. Would you like to introduce any other member of your immediate or extended family?

FRANCISTOWN:


I for say e no go better for you, but I always avoid redundancy.

iLegendd:


To get the free version of this book so that you can finally handle that part of your life naturally and permanently, reply with: I want the free version of the book with your email address.

Or send a message to the number below on WhatsApp.

Freshtruth:
Happy say am not drunk at this moment na full trailer of medicines I for they order for by now.This na wetin I escape

Vinnie2000:


Prettygirl my Babe, Wassup?

Jambula:
Pls I will need mature answers,as my woman is also on Nairaland..
Is it natural after like 3 days we didn't had se.x,she came back and became wider?
It has happened before and she said it was because she was about seeing her period,now she has finished seeing her period and this is happening again,note that the private part got closed before,I am worried because we are suppose to get married before March next year.

Is it natural?

Vinnie2000:


Prettygirl my Babe, Wassup?

Schoolshooter:
Most depressed forks come here for advice and rope themselves if they don't get what needed

I[b]llamina is dead ,[/b] December 2023



I hope more people rope themselves

Sonofgod1990:

Meaning I will not get or what

Sonofgod1990:

See you. I have gotten 2 already. Dey dere make pant dey were you ;

Sonofgod1990:

Everly ready

Animegirl:
Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

StrongAlphMale:


I'm surprised too bro.

Never knew the guy was a redpiller too

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Sonofgod1990:
I'm kc from enugu state. 34 years. I need a girl to call my wife because time is no longer by my side I need to settle down dis year
Nb; you must be a graduate.
Must be a working class type
You must be wealthy. I mean a millionaire
You should also have a house
With a good car.
Fair in complexion
Tall or short anyone can serve
Must have a pointed nose because mine is not dat pointed
But if you know you doesn't have all dis qualities I mentioned but you have enough cash to take care of me as your husband you can also chat me up. Good day

Any interested lady should check my signature for my WhatsApp number
08029052788 WhatsApp

Seun:
Ladies and gentlemen, the Romance section has gone to the dogs because of the inactivity of the current moderators.

We need 2 new moderators who are passionate about Romance and Nairaland, and can dedicate sufficient time to remove inappropriate content, ban people who break the rules, and create threads on hot topics to ensure that the Romance section attracts more engagement.

Most importantly, the war between men and women on this section must end. Women need to feel safe to participate and share their views in this section without being harassed by men. And vice versa. This requires consistent and unyielding enforcement of the rules every day.

If you know someone who is fit for this role, please nominate them. Someone who has been consistently active in this section for a long time, and who has not been a habitual rule-breaker during this time. If you're nominated, please indicate your acceptance and let's talk.

PS: Sorry, you can't nominate yourself. Someone must nominate you and then you can accept the nomination if you're interested.

Dexy4yah: