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KH,

See i have no right to judge anyone, i'm sorry if it sounded that way but that's how ur post comes across. Honestly i've only said what i think cos i'm an external party. From the experiences u've given, anyone reading might come to the conclusion that u intend calling it quits. Good for u if u ain't thinking bout leaving her.

Well u've done ur best , then leave the rest to God.

Take kare.

Oiza:
So what is the answer? DO good Nigerian men exist or not

Since we've not answered the question, why not go out and do a survey and tell us?



_{*How are we mearnt to know sef?*}

KH,
Honestly, the tone of your posts sound as if u r fed up and no longer inlove with her. When u started dating , there was something that attracted u but considering her fault, it seems her inability to read, write or speak the english language now outweighs what u once felt for her.

I personally feel u r wasting your time sending her to a higher institution when she doesn't even know how to write. She needs to start from the elementary upwards. Not only sending her out of the country will be a determinant of how much progress she has made and the effort she's willing to put into learning.

Well if not then u may just be pouring water in a basket.

But if u still love her as u say, then forget her weakness. Just remember, no one's perfect.

From the way the guy is talking, he doesn't love her anymore. But the fact that he's now a big chap and wants to leave her, is really what i don't get? He knew she wasn't all that so why start the relationship. Anywayz, its better for him to end it now than in the future so that the girl can start dealing with it.

Nope

tpbm smiles alot

K2DaC:
nah Teairra , Rihanna seems too laid back n girlish.

Helloooooooo, she's a girl, isn't she?

U just siddon dey look ur own

Yes, but its not possible

tpbm loves God

Good for you then.

, pls stop acting the saint. So guess i know the answer when u start dating girls, then u 'll go out with older chicks.

, don't u know where to get one from?

Gosh thats song is da bomb

, thats your opinion right..but okay do u date older girls?

Yes i do think courtship os necessary as well as important but the lenght depends on the individuals involved.

But this was way better...............

Why don't u give him one?

Another one. God pls help us o. AMEN

nice to have, didn't say nothing. But ur story implied it.

pendelite, u don't seem to understand nija sha, no one answers nothing because no one asks any questions for fear of been the future target. Even if u ask questions who wants to answer. Abeg leave all this pple the noise will soon die down.

Thank you o GP, at leat someone is talking like a nigerian.

Don't drink so never been..

I understand the language well. Believe me.

Whats up babe? Welcome on board. Hope u enjoy ur stay.

Pls can the Hausites come back plsssssssssssssssss. At least that language was much better than this.

nicetohave:
guys/gals...i enjoy you all and your sentiments, but wont it be fun to back up our sentiments with facts? so if men are more unfaithful how do you account for an infallible statistics on MSN that 1 in every 3 children a man calls his own is actually from someone else? will you sleep with a married woman and every one sings "Hell NO"...so where are all the bastards coming from have you ever been in a consulting room where couples come for genetic counselling about one child or the other...doctors really must have one hell of a nerve...sometimes i feel like screaming and letting the "poor headed" man know what is happening...but hey, i got to watch my license, its my meal ticket...do the remaining maths yourself.

No one needs facts to be told pple are unfaithful. So invariably after all the story...i guess women are more unfaithful.

Yes o. Thats quite true...we are proud of where we come from.

Destiny welcome on board.

@pendelite,

things work differently in nigeria. All thats happening is just for the sake of politics.

godfreytom:
Nobody should tell me of Investigation. I have never heard any result of an investigation in my darling Nigeria. Afterall, in Nigeria, anything is possible. OBJ is as corrupt as ORJI. In short ORJI is more corrupt than OBJ. But that is left for God to decide. Because I hate the word "INVESTIGATION" in Nigeria. In short it makes me feel like committing suicide at ASO ROCK - in front of OBJ and his security guards, whenever I hear "investigation". NO ONE IS INVESTIGATING NOTHING IN NIGERIA. The word "INVESTIGATION" in Nigeria is the root of all the corruption in this country - Because results of investigations are never always made public, to the detriment of the country's image.

My bro see o. How can nigerians believe that any investigation will yield any results. Pple this is nigeria where anything goes. As far as i'm concerned Orji Kalu's allegations are just a political gimmick . Even if he brings proof, who wants to cast the first stone and say it is true when we all know that those persons themselves are no better. Anyone who dares only sets himself up for future problems.

But anything they want to do, they should do.

Better don't kpai urself on Nija's wahala

Seun:
Actually, he is innocent until proven guilty!

People should stop saying he is corrupt without bringing out any evidence. Evidence is what we need now. Truthfulness is also essential. I am ready to forgive whatever he has done in the distant past (e.g. when he was a military ruler) but I want the truth to come out.

A lot of corruption is going on because people assume that "everybody is doing it" while in fact it may not be so. We need the truth, backed with evidence. Anybody can open mouth to say someone else is corrupt.

@Seun ,
R u trying to say Baba Iyabo ain't corrupt until u r shown proof. Are u really a Nigerian? But is everyone not doing it?