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Honestly i like been realistic. When u set too high a standard, all u get is disappointment at the end of it all. Remember no one can ever have all the characteristics we desire.


@ monie,
i'm shocked u've not hooked up wiv a brother yet. The green card wahala is not in the states alone o, it is very much prevalent in the uk as well.

monie0078:
I mean, where are they? Where are the Nigerian men around here who are into the same things that I am? (reading, listening to music that isn't necessarily hip-hop related, watching regular shows on TV... living quietly)... where are these men (whom my mom says are in abundance over here)

All I'm asking is for ONE man out there... respectable, has a job, speaks good English, has a sense of humor, GROWN UP... If there's such a man, pray, identify yourself...

Girlie don't you think you are asking for too much!!!

mochafella:
chei, nah wa o

see the three of you, Ocho, PrettyH and Scorpio, all up in tellbabe's business. Can't you see she is busy with her man . Abeg let the girl get her groove on before asking her questions.

Lol...as if u too u don't want to know.

monie0078:
Hi everyone. I stumbled on this forum whilst trying to read up on the match played this past weekend. I'm disappointed that I missed it, but would definitely like to catch the next game... I live in the States, and unfortunately, all I heard about this past weekend was the 'Superbowl'. Had I known that my country was playing, I'd have watched it to cheer on. Can anyone tell me please when the next game is? I know this is a little late coming, but I'd love to be a part of it... thanks.

Whats up ? Next game is against Ivory Coast but don't know which day its on sha. We all predict Ivory coast will be whopped but i think Nigeria will struggle through the match as they normally do in their games. Well lets keep our fingers crossed

ocho:
i'm pretty sure she did.I'm curoius as to who that is though.

Thought i was the only one. Incase u get the gist , pass it on

nicetohave:
gbeborun gbegele

Which one be your own? Infact your follow up sef is making me suspicious!!!

tellbabe:
yea...ma guy is wonderful,he is really raising the flag of naija so HIGH.....

Really...did u meet him on NL?

Xinfu:
Last valentines day I cooked my husband a romantic dinner and put rose petals from the front door to the bed... and put candels everywhere and put romatic music on.... But I have no idea what to do this year...can anyone help?[color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

Why not take him out to a lovely restaurant where you guys can just relax and have a good time.

Icon:
No mind all these girls. Them just dey talk their own. Now tell me, is Prince Charles fine?

Please allow them...Prince charles might not be fine but his royalty definitely makes up for his weakness

CimonJorr:
Question for you..

And you'all please don't bite my head off..

But what does it really matter if he's "giving it up" to another chick?? ...

If he says he loves you, and you truly believe he does, and you're in love with him, isn't that what's important?..

Just curious..

At times in a long distance relationship, saying i love you just doesn't cut it or prove one's fidelity to the other. If the guy has given up on her whats the essence of using those words.

Scorpio:
@Icon, me thinks it's in $

$1m...for what...a song...never. I know its much cheaper that that.

wascoms:
bohye! i am 100% perfect and if you are in doubt about that try me with your sister or someone close to you so that they Will give you the situation report

Oh really...and you are on NL looking for a chic What an irony?

@jezzika

Some guys remember, some don't while others just feign not remembering. So don't take it personal . Understand which group your b/f falls into and that'll solve the problem.


@maxbabe
Obviously there exists a communication barrier in your relationship. Why not talk to him about it? Certainly that'll simplify issues.


BTW welcome on board guys. Hope you have fun.

daretayo:
The Bible never condemed polygamy in a way. There are a thousand and one reason why a man might decide to have more than one wife. I think its better to be honest with yourself and live up to your responsibilty if you are a married man and you meet and fall in love with another woman. I support polygamu 100%. Such men are being true to themselves.
Which one is better marry 2 or more wives or marrying one wife and keeping a chain of girlfriends?

Men who practise polygamy have concubines as well. So your argument becomes null and void.

Farriel:
This post sucks, honestly it does. What would all the fat and short and hairy guys in this forum feel about themselves if you girls go on like this? I'm not saying you're dissing them, but it would make them feel generally uncomfortable about their physical appearances, and that ain't no way to feel, sisters. That ain't no way to feel at all.

To the unhygienic fellows, they've got to improve their cleanliness levels, but no give guys wey no get any control over their general physical appearance headaches. Particularly the short, hairy ones.

lol...are u dissing them indirectly?

Ceekay:
Please just be as truthful as u can be..nobody's going to eat anybody up, the fact is, this actually happened n the lady packed her things and fled...

What gives you the impression she wasn't been truthful? Different individuals handle problems in various ways. Personally i wouldn't leave because that just shows i never truly loved him.


[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=5962.msg189776#msg189776 date=1138665373]Boy oooo... I will deffinitely divorce him. It's not that he's impotent.. you mean like no d!ck!! The thing Gone patapata. Come one now.. No amount of love can make me stay.

I'm not lying.. seriously, I'll leave. If he's impotent.. that's a different case. But no manhood??!! Save me your preachings.. I'm leaving. [/quote]What if it were the other way round...if it was the wife that had been in the accident and the guy left her... wouldn't you cry blue murder?

carlito:
I have just discovered nairaland, excuse me in advance for my poor english, it is not my natural language, i am french.

No prob...Welcome to Nairaland. Have fun.

I know i'm a Nigerian but from the way Cameroun plays, it would be difficult for them not to win.

dejiolowe:
i don't smoke but i love people smoking around me.

You are no better than those that smoke.

badman:
those guys tried but with what dey play, i doubt if they can ever beat senegal ,even the match against ghana was won by chance

True...very true

@ Kismat,

Pls where exactly are you heading with all these questions about Christians kneeling to pray?

Akolawole:
Which team(s) trained hard ?

Where did they train?

Let truth be told, Nigeria's not the best in the African cup of nations.

Lol...thats what i'm talking about.

@ bagoma

Coward of the county is my mum's favourite. Infact i'm gonna look for the cd to listen to, hope i brought it with me though.

Akolawole:
No complain at least prayer answered

lol...u know

chrisd:
Hey, prettyh. How you doing?

I'm a'ight and u?

chrisd:
Yep, do that, will be brillliant. Suppose one man came to you and told you "I LOVE YOU" "I LOVE YOU LOTS". You will get in a relationship with him right?

Obviously, she's smarter than that going up to him and talking bout love

virozuru:
what do you mean by"dogged approach to success?" if anything, we are quite honest in our work; we work every hard to get what we want honestly. Unlike the Yorubas, however, who have to fraud the government to get money. Its typical, where they Yorubas relax and get paid lots of money, while the Igbos toil and suffer. As for delusional, there are a whole lot of damn Yorubas that are delusional!

Pls let us hear . Its just unfortunate, the igbo's have not been priviledged to have the same opportunity because they would also defraud the government. Just a typical igbo , always complaining bout the flaws of the Yorubas as if they are saints themselves.

Good for you then.

yemstrad:
I think you have a serious and peculiar problem. I sense a lot of things going on in your head.

2nde:
thank you yemstrad. It's a problem for her but she wont accept

Whats the problem? Because she loves older men!!! Men she obviously can't have. Whats the big deal! At least she's not sleeping with them or anything

treize:
A Black Cloud Over My Head

Help me I feel like crying because I'm in love.

I've been watching this guy and know he is perfect for me.
I'm afraid to talk to him because I'm afraid of being rejected.
it's not just a stupid crush because I felt that way for 5 or 6 months and I never felt like that about anyone else.
When I see him I get butterflies, I kind of sweat, I'm sort of burning up but my hands are freezing. I also feel tears, but i'm happy with him. Seeing him smile makes me smile and everything.
he is really funny but mature.
I know it's love.

Are u sure u ain't infatuated because when u are around some one for a while u kindda start having feelings for them. But if not why not save yourself all this stress and just tell him. Whats worse than what you've been put through all these months?

chillin:
whoa thatz some serious business!!

kk trezie letz work as a team here aight! how about we do this, follow theze steps aight:

When you see a guy you like
you walk straight up to him
And u'll be like(uhh), Heyy boy how you doing, you are the guy that I'm really pursuing, I would like to get to know you,
can you gimme your name, if you jot down your number you'll get mine in exchange,
See... I'm the girl of Ireland, and I hope you would'nt mind if I showed you around,
so when you go to certain places you'll be thinkin of me, we got people to meet and many places to see...

And he'll be like heyy heyy girl how you doing? damn! you know what! i'm really digging your lips as well as all u'v been talkin about...i think i'v gatt no choice than to fall for you! whoa!

BANG!!

trust me girl thatz *KEY* right there!

My main point---- talk it out with him!

^{*shake head*} See experience on two legs