Actually to be honest Elrufai actually works,does projects,pays pensions and salaries even before the Federal government does...I believe he will put it to good use.
[quote author=JDJ4 post=88456579]A Very Big Mistake Of My Life
Hi nairalanders.
Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.
I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.
Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.
Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.
She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.
Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.
I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.
To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.
So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.
Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.
Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.
Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.
Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now. [/Guy you can't breakup with a lady and still immediately expect to be friends. Going to her house wasnt a wise thing to do.]
If not that wailers suffer dementia, no one will object if we suggest Jonathan be whipped daily. Obasanjo and Jonathan's deeds is still what we suffer till date. [/quote...Oga at least we admitted that Jonathan has his failures and that's why the first time we also voted for yr Baba....but that does not mean you should be blind about his failures.... We are not brain washed.if a person no try we won't say his tried.It's like one lying to himself]
[quote author=dukeprince50 post=87755831]Morning NLders, So today I went to a pharmacy to get face mask, here in PH along Choba road. The girl told me face mask is 800NGN.
I was like WTF, I bought it sha, prevention is always cheaper than cure, I didn't care to ask for hand sanitizer before they say a price which could make me wonder if the "Sanitizer could also wash away sins and sorrows.
I walked a bit forward and asked somewhere else (towards that place you take bus to mile3) and it was just 500NGN. Still expensive but better.
So how much is face mask in ur area?
And those who wish to buy could know where its less expensive/facemask 750 for 50pieces...Kd..before the virus entered 9ja ]
Positivepoint: Central mosque in Abuja is closed u can confirm
Is that the only mosque in the country? What of other areas..is living faith Ota in Abuja..Kaduna here that I saw crowds of people going for prayers.. Offenders should be criticised but ....from the president down to the people..how many people have done the right thing..let the punishment start from the top downwards.. Or the senators that refused to isolate themselves after flying in.
How is it hard for Fed govt to shut down embassy? Continents with high epidemic, yet they still allow planes to fly them to Nigeria when other countries are shutting down their borders and every other 'infiltrating' means. I wonder if Nigeria is a dump yard for the virus.
The truth is that even if they shut the border...Nigerians are still allowed from these countries but will be on 14 days quarantine
The claim here is that she tested negative to covid-19,hence no clinical need for isolation.so why was she still kept in the abandoned building to the extent that she had to pass on there?
Apart from that she came in sick that was why she was a suspected case..it's possible they didn't care to find out the cause of the illness and treated her for it
justtoodark: you christians are the worst kind of fanatics....
Because we kill people ba for not our accepting our religion or burn peoples houses and arresting their family for blaspheming about Jesus Christ abi...as if God can not fight for him self...pls be realistic and not turn a blind eye to something that is sooo... Obvious.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?
My dear if you are a Christian then you know that God told you to abstain from sex..trust me God knows what is best for you because He created you... There are men that will appreciate you for waiting and some wouldn't.. Just do the right thing..not every man is for you. A man who does not care how you feel but keeps pushing for sex does not love you,but only cares about what he wants... I will advice you to stay away from such a guy.there are even some men that don't want to wait till marriage but still respect your decision. A man that lacks self control and can't wait has a very high cheating on you even in the relationship because of lack of self control. I repeat the God that created know you more than you know...don't take the advice of those asking you to give in...In this our generation anything goes so people aren't sensitive anymore about doing the right thing and does who don't, if you truly check their lives, most of them are still unhappy inspite of all the sex.
Contrary to the belief that the approval of the $22.7b loan was a smooth sail on the floor, this video shows that there was tension on the floor of the Senate on Thursday following the insistence of the opposition senators to know details of the $22.7bn foreign loan request from the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.).
The Minority Leader, Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe, drew the attention of the Senate to the anomaly and requested the President of the Senate, Ahmad Lawan, to allow a clause by clause consideration of the loan request.
His suggestion was turned down by Lawan who said the report of the panel should not be subjected to debate, based on the rules of the Senate.
Obviously uncomfortable with the position of Lawan, Abaribe warned the presiding officer that going ahead to hoodwink the Senate into passing the multi-billion dollar loan request without the details would spell doom for the country.
The matter degenerated into a serious tension with the senators viewing the development along partisan lines.
Watch the video to see as the drama unfolds.
Later some brain washed people who are struggling will say he is not corrupt. Maybe its for the silly ruga sef
What was his action towards clueless GEJ on ebola? What was his action towards himself on aviation's misappropiation of funds? What if Atiku won the last election and included him amongst his cabinet or ally beneficiaries, would he have muscle up for secession or war against the Northern-Fulanis?
He just pained that PDP lost by capitalising on masses' pains and rightful criticism towards Buhari. Original selfcentered ass-licker of PDP hiding under the masses' protests.
Me and FFK are not on same page...!
Oga this is not about PDP APC issue.. The fact that you are supporting a party does not mean you ignore or lie to your self that the person is doing well when they aren't. I prefer a thief than a murderer or 1 who doesn't value lives...moreover this govt is the most corrupt I've seen....so what advantage do they have
What was his action towards clueless GEJ on ebola? What was his action towards himself on aviation's misappropiation of funds? What if Atiku won the last election and included him amongst his cabinet or ally beneficiaries, would he have muscle up for secession or war against the Northern-Fulanis?Oga this is not about PDP APC issue.. The fact that you are supporting a party does not mean you ignore or lie to your self that the person is doing well when they aren't. I prefer a thief than a murderer or 1 who doesn't value lives...moreover this govt is the most corrupt I've seen....so what advantage do they have
He just pained that PDP lost by capitalising on masses' pains and rightful criticism towards Buhari. Original selfcentered ass-licker of PDP hiding under the masses' protests.
Maybe the Italian man no exist because 9ja man no go get mind do that kine thing..we don't joke with our lives especially if the man is married with children. Abeg they should send the Italian back on a single plane alone..why should we risk treating him