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360k+ applicants, 110k met criteria.
I was expecting like 50milion applications.
Mails should drop soonest since they have to finalize the processes before 15th of May.

Some recently collected a pre-employment medical invitation for dangote industries. I think It's for those graduate whose names were sent for possible employment by their various schools for dangote refinery project.
The mail came in for those that participated in the just concluded recruitment exercise.
Guess pending recruitment for graduate trainees are no longer active.

Make them investigate the MD.
I smell something.
Age and Ramadan??

chioma134:
This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

First, It's nice that you've learnt from your story.
But, let us be sincere here.
You actually started this from the moment you felt conversations outside your marriage will be good for you.
That's, you wanted this new friendship. And I believe that most married men would wait till they see that green light of yours before they strike and present their real intentions since you're married, which he actually saw and took advantage.
From your writeup, it didn't look like you've actually repented from this thoughts.
First, you decided to keep away from him because the conversation and your desires started getting cold. His actions made you feel rejected at some point, and you didn't like it.
So you decided to stay away.
You said part of you became happy it ended but another part wanted him, coupled with with the fact that you still communicate once in a while and you know it's not healthy because it was the same COMMUNICATION that started this whole drama.
That's why I said it's not clear if you have actually repented.
DID YOU CHANGE BECAUSE YOU REALIZED YOUR DESIRE FROM THE BEGINNING ISN'T GOOD FOR YOU OR YOU STOPPED THE FEELINGS BECAUSE HE REDUCED THE KIND OF ATTENTION HE GAVE INITIALLY AND TO WHAT YOU WANTED?
Answer this question in your heart and heal completely.

Ikpeba maybe wrong criticizing oshimen, but that doesn't give him the right to respond to him in such manner.
That was too disrespectful mehn.
Meanwhile, Asisat Oshoala wasn't referring to Ikpeba obviously.

Where is the generated 2Billion dollars?

The University of Lagos was an exciting beehive of activities for 10 days when students from across Nigeria dropped their notebooks and pens for their football boots and running shoes to take part in the 26th edition of the Nigeria University Games, NUGA.

Amidst the over 10,000 athletes from 70 universities that were on parade, some individuals distinguished themselves with breathtaking performances in the respective sporting events they took part in.

To make it to the podium and win a medal takes a lot of hard work, let alone winning multiple medals, with many athletes winning the consolation medal of just participation. Thus, praising and congratulating multiple-medal winning athletes should be the norm.

PREMIUM TIMES beams the searchlight on athletes who won four or more gold medals at the 2022 NUGA Games and hopes they fulfill their undoubted talents in the future.

1. Ifeakachukwu Godsgift Nmor (University of Port Harcourt) - 13gold and 2silver.
2. Akiayefa Timipame-Ere (NILE university) - 9gold and 2silver.
3. Rhoda Adisa Ifeoluwa (University of Port Harcourt) - 4gold and 2silver.
4. Ujunwa Nwankwo Caroline (University of Port Harcourt) - 6medals in karate and taekwondo.
5. Vivian Ekpeyong Oku (University of Calabar) - 3gold and 1bronze.


Source:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/sports/nigeria-sports-news/521448-nuga-2022-meet-five-outstanding-athletes-who-won-multiple-medals.html

This is what happens when we point fingers at people when investigation isn't concluded....
I was just reading a news on frsc officers killed in Anambra state. All of a sudden, people all over rushed to point fingers.
Please the more we do this, the more we create division and hate amongst ourselves.
Let the security agencies do their job!!!!!!!

Oshiomole and tinubu na age mate?

brightalo1010:
What did you just typed?

What did you type too?

Abeg where the money?

sincerely, that this is the first drug related thread on front page with just 2pages.

I hope this thread teaches us how to condemn crime no matter the location instead of engaging in tribal wars.

jindus:
Is the duration the major cause for concern?
What about the sale of slots?
Someone here beat his chest saying slots will be sold like it's okay.
A few greedy people will corner what belongs to the public.
We have a lot of twisted and unstable minds in Nigeria and things won't change because we're not ready for a change and our system allows the rot.
I wonder in whose image and likeness God really created Nigerians.

My dear, Your last line burst my head

marsman:
Its a trend that incites a response, look at the buffon i initially responded too, a known bigot on this forum, it still went to cause a foolery of itself by claiming that MKO stadium is in the South west, just to score a cheap point. When you read ridiculous stuffs from people like that, its a must to set the scores straight and let them know that two can play the mud game.

By the way why are you surprised, do you know me?

No I don't.
Well, let the banter be btw you guys and not on a whole tribe.

marsman:
Don't be, I am just following the trend. You can check politics section to know the trend.

Trend to insult a tribe?
I'm more surprised at your response.

marsman:
MKO abiola stadium is in Lagos, right?
Many Ibos here are morons

See how you are insulting a tribe..
I'm surprised

Well, seems nobody knows the number of people and conditions for being selected.
But in all, just pray to be selected.

Naso

Viraltrends123:
All the first class I know are doing very well. Imagine seeing a poor someone buy a car 3-6 months after NYSC. The worst I've seen so far all my life is a neighbor spent 2 years at home doing nothing, before he go an offer in Lagos, which he relocated to.

Well, there's no need arguing.

you think it's easy?

Viraltrends123:
You said them plenty ooo, buy you know 1. If he is serious he will surely get an offer.

Them plenty oo...
I know a sound mechanical engineering graduate still looking for jobs because he wants to work first based on his family background.
Very unlucky fellow.

Viraltrends123:
Is there even any first class looking for job

Merited from those who uploaded credentials

burantashii:
Who merited or those who upload credentials

Tokkson:
What date is yours?

Not mine tho..
But on Friday

Mail just dropped for AC at thier headquarters..

Who and who will get the mail?

Abeg which federal road or bridge get toll gate?

Lol...very funny

Streamz:
And you think economic crises are not as a result of poor decision making? You're not rational

I worked at Sam mbakwe airport and he's a regular user of that airport.
This man doesn't fly first class because he believes it's a waste of resources.
There's a time students from futo came for rag day at the airport... Fortunately for them he was traveling that day, they came to him to greet him( expecting cash as usual).
He advised them, prayed for them and gave them 10k in total, if they decide to share that money, swears each person will go with about 5h( he counted them himself)... As the student were leaving, other people including some workers outside approached him, baba told them he doesn't just release money anyhow, that he has contributed to the students because they had a reason for it...
Naso people begin dey discharge..
Started wearing his shoes in his car without security unlike other top guys that do visit the airport with convoys ....
I met this man one day and I saw good reasons why people do say he is frugal with resources.

okpanachil:
The difference is Peter has always been very frugal with resources.

My bro noticed this when pouring the fuel we bought 3days ago into the generator.
He carried the fuel back to the station and show it to them( it was having this funny colouration with traces of water in it).
He just wanted to let them know if anything happens to the generator, they will pay for it.
He didn't use the fuel that night till the next day,
Omo, come see whitish and brownish( water) layers down the gallon as it settled.

Thank God piling is not from Nigeria.
If not, na #freePiling we for start online.

They would have sent DSS to his house at 2:00am, accuse him of instigating violence and circulating falsehood and probably, he will appear in court after 4years.
It's not only the government, we Nigerian are good at attacking the messenger, pushing the message aside.
It's so funny how Foreigners speak more about our problems than we the citizens..
Well, I understand....Freedom after speech isn't guaranteed.
What a country !!

Sincerely, I don't understand some people.
The last time I checked, it's mostly the Yoruba elders, some osinbajo supporters and even yorubas in PDP that are against tinubu.
I see names like Gani, Bode George and co..
But I was surprised to see them pointing fingers at southeast and ipob.
How can your fellow SW guys start a fight within and you are running to blame another group or region who may or may not believe what your brothers are saying about your very own.
You guys should deal with your internal enemies first...HABA!!

You have started the tribal bullshit and still trying to accuse ethnic bigots of the same thing..
HYPOCRISY..
Grow up...
It's people like you that will start a fight between tribes and run away...
Only fools will begin to argue over a crime that anybody on earth could commit.

XXXXTENTACION:
Ole barawo...


Anyway my people na Ogun state na im dey thing happen, but let me check the name first...


NAME CONFIRMED: Adewale Adegbenro this is surely a Yoruba man...

Anyway nairaland ethnic bigots and tribalists I therefore hand over the case to you guys to deal with this as Usual...