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donogaga:
When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



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Mikester:
[color=navy] Thanks for your contribution but I beg to disagree with some of them. It doesn't really work the way you explained. [/color]

Mikester:
[color=navy] You really have a hold on these questions girl cause you just answered it really well and with an open mind, though some people may think otherwise. Your experiences making it more convincing is enough reason to close this thread as there is little actually left to say.

Humans are fickle and shouldn't be trusted. Struggling guys can leave the women who were with them for new women as it happens. We see such in our hood everyday.

There is no manual for these things. Just be yourself and the right people will come around you and if the people around you are low class, try to upgrade yourself.

Hope you found someone better though. It isn't easy. [/color]

Divoc19:
Yes. Add some weight and build it with exercise. We ladies like thick guys/men too but not shapeless with potbellys so exercise is key.

Introverts do get laid well especially when they always look good and clean.

Confidence in yourself and in all you do attracts ladies too.

tillaman:
ehya it’s nice to have you back

Mrmacc:
U get big bress oo

tillaman:
welcome back!!!
Where have you been?

tillaman:
welcome back!!!
Where have you been?

mezico96:
Do you in any way look like Abraham??

laraskey:
Ladies how do you let a guy know you like him, apart from smiling and asking mumu questions like "How is your girlfriend"?

baralatie:
Clause is "if" and now the past comes into the present what do you think is going to happen

Silentgroper:
I see. I'm guessing it's d same reason it took u long enough to reply dz. It's all good tho.

baralatie:
And if her last comes into the present will you still have that standing ovation?

lilvicky68:
If her past won't affect the present then no problem..

Silentgroper:
U. Do u nt always have much to say or u're jxt deeply introverted even on a faceless forum.

pryme:
I can't blame you for this, this world is a terrible place.
When I hear the plans and discussion guys have for ladies, I just feel we should not complain when women also do terrible too things because we are just as bad.

But more often than not, the ones that are good are also cut and stabbed because they are mistaken for the bad ones.

Men are easy to read when you can discern their INTENT.
My only advice is don't over think things like the Op has done here, follow your instincts.

pryme:
At some point you will have to take a risk.

tillaman:
seriously why do you think love is a waste of time ??